Prudish husband...

Does anyone have any idea on how to get a spouse that is reasonably prudish to possibly try E fun? I have no desire to get busted for my fun and if I could get her into it, hmmmmm...

Anyone with such experience.

There are plenty of threads in this section. A lot of us introduced the concept through the medical need and progressed from there. It requires a very open relationship before this kind of play can be introduced, so it's always a matter of getting that house in order first.

Right after our Thanksgiving meal the whole family had Enemas and smoked cigarettes......Jimbeaux

I've made suggestions,and last week we had some brief anal exploration prior to sex, so maybe she'll do it for me...soon. I complained about the late Turkey meal yesterday as a hint for some relief (enema) but she didn't buy it. Life goes on. 😢

Speaking as a female, sometimes our minds are on other things and we don't always pick up the hints you are dropping. Sometimes we may be ignoring you because 1)we don't know how to tell you we don't like what you are suggesting or 2)we aren't sure of our skill in the area you want us to go. Please don't give up, but take the time to have a discussion with her. Where you can take the time to hear what she is thinking on the subject.

I told my wife that I enjoy them. Occasionally when she was not feeling well I would jokingly offer to give her one, just to help her feel better. She finally took me up on it. Not her thing, but she will every now and then let me give her one. But usually I go solo.

My husband is very weirded out by some of my fetishes but most of the time he tries them out to make me happy and for that i love him...however, since he seems to find me so strange and sometimes gets weirded out by the things im aroused by i have no idea how to even go about bringing up the whole enema thing...lol..ive never been given an enema by someone else but i have been doing my own enemas for sometime now and have been aroused by them since i first learned what they were...i do not get turned on by administering enemas but i love to recieve them...so in no way will i have to convince him to take one, i just would like to recieve...he's just so freaked out by things...his idea of sex is missionary position, kissing, and grabbing ass...lol...it takes a little more than that for me...any advice?

It sounds like you have the first steep going for you already, he at least is trying things with you. Make sure he knows how what he does to you turns you on, but don't overload him with to many things at once. (it takes time to convert a vanilla mind to kink) Most of all take your time and enjoy each other!

I believe some vanillas just can't be converted. They are who they are. But, as Watersub pointed out, at least he's trying things with you. Does he know you take enemas? Why not tell him you'd love him to give you an enema and see what happens? If he freaks out, then don't push it. And, if you tell him you only want to receive, not to give, this might help.

Good luck,

Arianna

Oh, just tie him up, spank him and tell how it's gonna be--either he gives 'em to you. or you'll give 'em to him! 😁 😁 😁 😁

He'll come around, you'll see.

Still trying...have a "medical exam" scheduled for today..so we'll see 😉

My suggestion is to let him know how receiving an enema makes you feel. Maybe just suggest he lay with you while you take an enema. He can be dressed or whatever he is feels comfortable in. Maybe if you give him a little bit of kissing and snuggle with him while you are taking it. Then let him lay there and stew while you go off to expel. Then come back and see what he is up to.

There's MUCH to be said about proper "vetting"........ :😃

Obviously there are many ways to approach a partner that doesn't seem interested. I would think that it would help if you knew the reason or reasons for not wanting e-play. Often times it is from a bad experience, be it taking place in childhood or even later in life. Lets face it, enemas can be difficult to take. If your spouse was constantly given enemas as a child and they hated it, than you have a less likely chance of success.

My thinking is that trying to introduce enemas, hinting to your spouse when they mention an upset stomach, is the wrong time. Most people that don't feel good want to be left alone and the thought of an enema that you think is erotic may be repulsive to them.

There is a lot of misinformation among the public in regard to enemas and even more so regarding anal play. I don't think anyone will argue that point. You need to first introduce your spouse to anal play and get them to enjoy it. More than likely once they enjoy anal play you at least have a fighting chance of success.

My approach has been to do hot oil massages prior to sex. A long feel good massage. Get her or him on his tummy and massage their bottom. Most people not into anal play have no idea how good a butt massage feels, i.e. if done well. Some light play around the anal area can gradually be introduced. Getting some positive feedback at the right moment might be an opening for you. Doesn't mean you are going to be giving enemas that night, but it could be a beginning.

Just some thoughts, hope they help.

Sometimes you just have to live with it. I don't think I will ever get my spouse into enemas and honestly I don't find it fair to try too hard. I've known all along anal isn't his thing and decided it wasn't a big problem.

My wife has taken care of some 80+ year-old ladies that were always constipated, so she can't get that 'picture' out of her head to even try to see it a sexual.

We do have anal at times, and robert39746 is right, a nice massage, ending with my really working on her back-side, working my way to the 'target' usually works for me to take her anally. I wish I could work her into giving, and taking, but don't think it will happen.

My spouse is totally against them for herself, but has helped me with mine when I've asked. She prefers ex-lax. I have been showing her the pros and cons of both and we are keeping a scorecard on performance. So far, she agrees my method is better, but she's not trying it on herself.

If your hubby accept :

to lie on his back on the bed,

You can sit on him, and enjoy some ride,

take a towel and put it on his face, don't stop the ride,

take this vibe with the "longest" shaft and

switsh it on when the end of the vibe is against your asshole,

let it enter in your ass,

and search with the tip of the vibe the tip of hubby shaft.

For you feelings will strengt all your sphincters,

for him it is your entire vagina who will tighten and vibrate.

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I wish you succes,

@thur