Enema as sex

The enema as sex? I refer to the preference of those who, on occasion or exclusively, rely on enemas to substitute for hetero/homo/bi/solo sex. Surely some of us may have mates who have an aversion to enema-play, have diminished attraction to sexual partners, have reduced potency as a result of psychological/physiological changes or just simply fallen in love with the rectal nozzle and the fluid it delivers. In a certain sense, the sensations of a good enema parallel that of a turgid penis thrust into the rectal cavity as in male-male or male-female anal intercourse; or perhaps with a bit of fantasy, the male enema recipient imagining his rectum as a "vagina" receiving the nozzle as would a woman being penetrated by the male member. As for me, the enema is pure eroticism, pure enjoyment of sexual ecstasy.

Yup, it does. I think in translation he is saying that some of us find enemas and other similar "behind the scenes" stimulation as an alternative to sexual interaction in almost any form. My guess is that for some on this board that may be true, but I think for the larger majority most of us find the best thrill from interactive stimulation with another person, using "rear end stimulation" as an additional boost for an enhanced sexual experience. I also think that those that may use the enema or whatever for their only sexual experience may have had some bad experiences trying to get a partner involved, or are just afraid to bring it up for fear of a negative reaction. If you read all the posts about how to get spouses/mates involved I can't help but believe that many of us would like that, but it is sometimes easier and less risky to just do it ourselves. Over time that may actually lead to less interactive sex and more self indulgent enema/whatever stimulation since we like the sensations so much.

I enjoy them, but I can't say they could substitute for sex...

Replacing sex? I can't to think that could happen it would not be that great :-\

Lately, I've come to realize that taking a series of warm soapy enemas is like making love to myself! Especially when I start off the series using a large douche bulb and then finish up with very large bag enemas. I like standing in front of the bathroom sink with a bar of ivory floating in the water which I use to thoroughly lubricate my anal area and up inside my rectum with a soapy finger. The feelings I get fully inserting the large douche bulb nozzle and then reaching around with both hands and quickly forcing the water into myself are just incredible. I will take 9 or 10 full bulbs like this then insert the nozzle from the bag and take as much from it as I can before moving to the toilet. Then I take several more enemas lying on my side. I lay down to take the first bag, stand and refill and then lay down again to drain the second one. Sometimes while completely full, I will again use the bulb to work the water back and forth throughout my colon. Yes, taking a leasurely series of enemas like this in a very warm bathroom, is very much like making love to myself and leave me feeling very relaxed and contented.

For me an enema is a poor substitution for sex. But it is better than nothing at all. If I had a willing partner, I would make love with her daily. Unfortunately, that is not the case. Insertion is just too painful for her. I am able to give her pleasure, but I am on my own otherwise. She is not intereste in enemas and I will not force her into anything which she does not want to do.

A bit of a long winded response.

When younger and no females were there enemas was a great way to take care of the need .Now older and married still love to recive enemas Bob

There is nothing better than sex with a good woman. But having a spouse going through menopause and loosing interest in sex I need to stimulate myself. I have always enjoyed my enemas. Enemas bring much needed release and I enjoy masterbating to orgasim after a good clean out.

I thought more on this subject today and about how enemas are a way of making love to myself. In taking a leasurely series of warm enemas in this way, physiologically, I'm pampering my body and supplying it with very enjoyable sensations. On an emotional level, I'm doing something that is very relaxing and fulfilling, no pun intended. Most times anymore climax is not the goal, and the experience is completely rewarding just in itself. I have heard some women say that climax is not always necessary and that indeed, there are times when they just want to be held, and pleasured in an intimate physical way and simply, loved. I'm not sure I'm explaining this very well, but that is kind of where I'm at when I'm making love to myself with my enemas.

A while back I posted a thread Do Enemas Fill A Void When You Don't Have A Partner.Your post Enemas as sex will bring a simular answer.The bottom line is enemas can enhance your sex drive whether with a partner or not.Having had a spouse who shared the enema experiance as part of our sex lives and a second wife who doesn't,I would have to say the sexual feeling when having an enema is the same.

An enema as sex? Don't know. As a part of sex, yes.(hoping to make it a part of our sex life soon). We all have exciting things that stimulate us. An enema can be one of those experiences. With or without a partner (note the wording), we can still enjoy the experience.I have taken an enema, "as a turgid penis", and enjoyed the moment, and I'm totally straight!!(Boy, will that get some comments!) As a younger person practically everything is sexual. That's the way we are created. As one ages there are ways we discover that are still sexual, still stimulating and are,in many ways just as thrilling as sex (intercourse). I am still very active sexually but enjoy my enema,(solo), for now. Maybe someday that will be the source of "sex" as enjoyment for us. Does that make sense? If not, it will in a few years! 😁

In my experience, all have to say is that an orgasm with a really full colon is way, way more intense than any orgasm I've ever had with conventional sex.

It's probably true though... if you do enema to the point of achieving a release... (and that could be just emotional, physical or sexual)...

Energy can be reduced for focus on "real sex" ??

For me, as a single woman and having made a decision to not have genital to genital sex with another person, and also being highly erotic, enemas and other related anal play are a substitute for sex for me, and actually all I need on those occasions when I need to have a release. I have always been especially responsive to the suggestion of anal penetration and started taking my own rectal temperature and administering enemas at the age of 10, when I was alone in the house for the first time. I still have stirrings whenever I walk down the drugstore aisles that contain enema and suppository items. Stories about enemas, with or without other sex involved, are quite erotic to me.

Definitely. If I don't have a date or just feel horny, I know that giving myself an enema will arouse me so I can my masturbate my vagina into having an orgasm.

Apart from a few involuntary wet dreams I had, my first wide awake sexual climax was experienced while self-administering an enema ... after that it was game on and no looking back ...>>>

To this day, I am not certain if that first experience was a blessing or a curse but I'm here in zity.city now and I consider that an extra bonus for sure!

So happy to see such a diverse crowd here who are willing to share in this forum.

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When giving an enema,i always use the douche nozzle give my partner a little dildo action while the enema goes in,HOT!!!

For me, enemas and sex go together just like apple pie and ice cream! loved it when the ex would reluctently give me an enema and a hand job, was so hot and ready to explode cum everywhere

Well, Yeah. Enemas can be a sexuality all apart from any other aspect of "sex" per se.

So much is subjective and entangled in our memory maps that it defies simple explanations of X/Y stimulated by an enema=Sex. That's why some folks have their deepest desires pivoting on a memory of magic or misery being heaven or horror. Oftentimes merely from how the event was perceived. Perceived as self- loving or warm caregiving Vs a horrid abuse?

I'd learned that enemas helped me to "Not Hurt" and that, my friends was/is PRICELESS self ownership of my comforts.

Calling an enema masturbation or not? Sex or not? Dunno. All I know is that my life would be so much poorer for the lack of enemas.

Ummm... this is related buy a teensy bit off topic perhaps in that I did once orgasm (well, actually several times, embarrassingly, given what happens as a result... keep reading, lol). from what began as an enema. I have always felt "impure" or "dirty" ( I blame this on all the Sunday school and on my mom) and enemas have partially assuaged that feeling. Also, the "clean" feeling plus the bulb shaped enema head. I began masturbating (rectally) with it. it was small so I used fingers too, and it stimulated me vaginally. as well. I kept going and well, I did orgasm, but I pooped all over the bathroom floor! ugh. I seriously lost total control of my bowels when I orgasmed that way. I tried again (and again) and the same thing happened each time. That's why it's been a looong time since I rectally masturbated to orgasm.

There are different types and kinds of sex! Can an enema be sex? I think that depends on how you define sex. Also on whether you believe that sex can be anal.

I truly believe there is an enema sexuality onto itself. My wife is not highly sexed, by nature, but the mere mention of an enema brings her sexuality out...

Enemas as sex. Hell yes!!! Once you have mastered the art of a good enema, the sexual stimulation is endless.

For me, most of the time, an enema is totally, totally, erotic, even when I "need" an enema rather than just "want" one. That said, I find that I really have to be totally relaxed to take an enema easily, regardless of the circumstance, without much or any cramping. While I'm not much for BDSM, I find almost have to "submit" to the enema. I like the idea of being penetrated by the nozzle. I find that a colon tube enema is like being fucked by a long, thin cock. I also often fantasize that I'm taking an enema to clean the folds of rectum for someone's cum. I have only ever had an orgasm as a direct result of an enema a couple of times but I get hard every time I get my equipment out. Once the enema is going into me, masturbation will almost surely happen.

I enjoy them and they can greatly enhance the experience but it is not sex by itself.

My wife lost her sex drive in menopause and is afraid to take HRT because of breast cancer fears. She has lost most of her desire for sex, and we are down to about once a month. I can't go that long between sex sessions, and enemas have been very satisfing for me for almost 50 years--even before my wife slowed down. Also, she is thrilled about my enemas diversions because she is then "off the hook" to deliver. She will not participate, and is not anal erotic at all. So yes, enemas are a sex substitute, and thru the many years and large numbers of enemas, the volume of water I can accept has over doubled. I now use many different lengths of colon tubes, I have about 10 different nozzles and use a 6L capacity MSR bag. I have all kinds of prostate stimulation tools and enjoy incredible, high volume of cum orgasms. The most intense orgasms are definitely with enemas. If I do get thru the enema session without coming, I have a large dildo I ride stimulating the prostate while delivering the deep thrusts and taking me to the super-O ending. It's going farther than thought possible brought on the need!

Both play a role in sexuality, and in self-worth. Don't know how you substitute one for the other. They are different sets of feelings entirely. Enemas are about YOU!! Sex is about BOTH you and the person you are making love with!! WITH, NOT TO!!

Enemas usually bring me to orgasm. Certainly they are no substitute for genuine sex, was in some sense they actually are sex.

My wife like many others are past menopause. In fact, my wife had surgical menopause at age 40. She took hormones for about a year, but became scared that they might give her breast cancer and therefore stopped taking them. As a result, she has lost 100% of her sex drive. No interest at all. She knows how much I like taking enemas, so she feels it is her duty to give me my enemas. She does not encourage me to take my water. She does not rub me or help me get off. She just puts the nozzle in and opens the tube's shut-off. As the water fills me, she usually reads. I guess I am luckier than most, but she could make it so much better..... I keep praying....

Yes since I do my enemas solo for right at the moment I don't have a partner haven't had anyone for a lot of years. Since I am very anally erotic I have to have my fun don't I? Well that is what I use my enemas and vibrator for keeping myself happy until I can see my BF who lives across the states from me on the west coast. But since I have had back problems I couldn't take care of myself with out feeling pain. So yes I did substitute my enemas as sex. 😃