Preferred enema terminology ?

What is your preferred termimology (and spelling) for a person receiving and enema and for a person giving an enema ?

Giver-nurse-dom Taker-enemie-sub

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I don't think that people here worry about such things! Most of us like both to give and receive.

It does not matter to me

Enemor

Enemee

My mother always gave me a frienderenemy, never used the "E" word.