[quote author=Switchablesusie link=topic=26525.msg252432#msg252432 date=1256673073]
How did you learn to be a domme?
[quote author=MadamLevina link=topic=26525.msg252531#msg252531 date=1256692006]
I t wasn't much to learn. I've always been controlling by nature. But, the sex stories you find online do help a bit.
With many years of experience and many men plus my husband, and a number of women under my belt (and having assumed some severely dominant and very submissive roles), I hate to say this, but there are LOTS of things to learn about being a domme, and internet stories aren't going to teach them.
There are most certainly things you know, and things you know you don't know, but more important, are those things that you DON'T KNOW you don't know that will get you and your submissive into lots of trouble. Anybody can be a boss wielding a whip. BE CAREFUL WITH YOUR SUBMISSIVES.
A good domme almost never reaches her (or his) potential until she has subbed to a very experienced, severe master. You need that experience in order to get into the mind and body of your submissive to know what is going on in there.