Hello.
That's a good question. I thought it was only my husband who asked himself and me such riddles and questions. I thought it wasn't important. But in the process of learning how to give enemas, I realized that it's a damn important question. To answer it unequivocally would be to lie.
So, I'll try to explain my point of view.
A lot depends on the time and mood. If it's a planned session of enema games (with all the ensuing consequences), then there's no need to rush. That means you have time. Of course, this is a small bag, up to 2 liters. In order to cleanse with plain water. Then move on to larger bags (ours are 5.5 liters). It is not necessary to insert the entire volume of the bag. Well, we prefer to finish the enema games with bulb enemas. Depending on the game scenario, the volume of the bulb enema can range from 375 ml to 1 liter. Like my husband, I believe that using an enema bulb is more sexual and intimate, as it brings the participants closer together. You have to manipulate it exclusively with your hands, work with a water container, squeeze the bulb enema, lubricate not only the instrument itself, but also the anal opening. Often, after or during the introduction of fluid from the bulb enema, you can already proceed to oral caresses or manual manipulation. This gives another plus point for the bulb enema.
But there are also disadvantages to each type of enema as a tool. One of them is that you need to have time to use large volumes of enema bags.
Nowadays, this is a rather rare resource, given the transience of life and events in it. Therefore, you need to choose or arrange “enema parties” less often.
The second disadvantage of the enema bulb is hand fatigue. If you are inexperienced or do not engage in sports, it is quite difficult to administer more than 700 ml of fluid with a bulb. Considering that my husband and I have enema bulbs with a much larger capacity, it is quite a challenge. It is not easy.
Therefore, there will be two conclusions today.
Conclusion 1. It is essential to have a variety of tools. You never know which one you might need.
Conclusion 2. It does not matter what it is, the main thing is to enjoy it together.
And, as usual: I wish everyone warm water.