Domination

Theres nothing more sexy then domination. It doesnt mater if its a women or man who dominates. A women with the abilty to intimidate a man can have my heart any day. The oppisate is also true. When a women gives herself to a mans control is justas sexy. i cant get enough of those beautiful complient women utering " thank you sir". a little spanking and toys and restraints are everything. if could do that to a women i dont know if i would do any thing else

I agree. good point.

I like being dominated for an enema and dominating

😃 I love being submissive

There is nothing HOTTER than a dominating man telling me with authority what I can do and what I cannot do. Being made to obey is such a turn on.

Both sides of dominant/submissive roles work well with our medical fetish world - probably why I enjoy both so much !

My dom bought a flogger this weekend and last night we were playing with it, every time i forgot to say sir he would hit me wirth it 20 times.. the most embarrasing thing about it was i was made to count out the strokes with a ring gag in my mouth, so hot. 😄

I love being dominant. I am hoping one day that I can find a young female, or old, to dominate. It's not just the medical side of things that i like doing. I also like to use food aswell. Would like to know if there is female out there, who would be willing to let me dominate them. I live in the south of England.

I would like to find Mistress someday that would use me and fill me as she wished. In my part of the country they are hard to find.

Have never had a r/l domme/sub relationship, but have enjoyed some very special times with my lovely cyber friend. Mostly submissive, she has generously orchestrated scenarios for my submissive side to play out - she assumes control - whatever she says goes.

i have wonderful memories of being on vacation in the Caribbean, jogging on a beautiful beach, but feeling her control and longing to get back home so i could play out the rest of the scenarios. i had been given specific instructions while on vacation, and any failure to abide by the instructions, even accidently, required punishment. Even the jogging was with her in mind - i wanted to push my limits - every day running more than the day before, and faster if possible. What a high!

The surrender to her was delicious...and still is on the few occasions her domme side comes to the fore.

I love playing the submissive role - there is nothing better than having a male dom and pleasing him pleases me

I am not submissive in daily life, but I and my girlfriend do enjoy me being submissive and she loves to see me feminized and take me analy

There was a point early on that I would go out and fish for subbies, but now my reputation has the subs coming to seek me out. I am rather humbled by that, but being humbled and being soft are two different things entirely. The subs seek me out because they need to have someone in charge or need to be disciplined or just need to know that they can in fact serve and be useful.

I love those that truly decide that they want and or need my direction.

The only time I have ever been submisive is when having an enema given to me by a woman. I enjoy the control she has over my orgasm, probably a latent childhood thing.

I have nothing new to add here, I'm sure, but I am one of those people who is very strong in real life but I hve these incredibly sinful fantasies of being in the total control of a man who is blackmailing me into having exams at his home; he is an older man who I once insulted and laughed at for his overweight body and ugly face, and now he uses me like I was his purchased property. How bad is that!

It's always fair to ask why... Especially when not in a rearranged scene or agreement that the pair have in advance. I am a dominat. I dominate at work. I have too. There are many that are the 'bosses', however if they want something done on time or ahead of schedule they need a hammer to make it happen. That is me. I don't take crap from anyone so I find solutions to the problems at hand and fix the issue. Is it politically incorrect? Most definately. But it gets the job done. Do I get to have the private meetings about my attitude? Most definately. Do I care? Not at all. They may fire you? Yeah, they may. But do they really want me working somewhere else? Especially when those that hired us realize I am the one that is gone and things aren't getting done. No these boys are smarter than most.

But once you are in a scene.. asking why can lead to unplanned attention. If you have agreed to a scene and have safe words in place and question a dom/domme, well that's all on you. Trust or no trust. That's on you and if it is going badly.. use the safe word and eject. There will be no hard feelings.