Nurture vs. Nature?

Do you think that we are born with the need or want to give/receive enemas? or is it something that happens as we get older and experiment with ourselves.

The liking of enemas is definitely is a learned response.

We are not born with the desire to like enemas. Liking anal stimulation is different. We may be born to like that, but the enema is learned or "figured out" by people at various ages in their lives.

It's like anything else we experience in life-unless we are exposed to it we wouldn't be aware of it.Some things are genetic but learning to like enemas and other fetishes are acquired.And sometimes it takes years to develope a liking to a certain activity/taste,etc.

I agree. Unfortunately, today parents don't seem to be using "the bag" for enem administation and that's a shame. I'll never forget getting introduced and the used to the big red bag.

I don't think its a shame parents don't use the enema bag anymore as it isn't really necessary.

I have never given my daughters an enema because I never felt they needed one.

Between their having my husband's and my genes, and conversations I have had with my daughters (and their knowledge of the internet), I know those horny girls who have told me they masturbate on a regular basis, will do a fine job figuring out more than they need to know to have a sex life a porn star would be jealous of.

I agree with Susie. I would not want to give my son an enema unless there was no other option. I have this fetish because of my mother, and while I don't regret having it, I do resent not having a choice in the matter. I don't want to give my son a fetish, I want him to figure out what he likes all by himself.

I got my enemas in a childrens hospital for surgery prep at a young age and enjoyed the first enema,however,some kids there put up a big fuss and the nurses had to hold them down.By the same token,some children did come around to enjoy enemas later in life.

I don't think it is as such a learned response. It's basically innate. We can, and should learn to be comfortable with our innate sexual responses.