The doctor voice tone

Kind but firm and authoritative, especially speaking in a reassuring tone while doing something painful and humiliating.

High School Physical Examination: Very Serious

Physical Assesment for College: Friendly

I tend to be gentle and reassuring but firm during certain procedures with my patients 😉

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We’d not have exams for high school and/or univeraity normcollege in germany

I like a doctor to have a deep, authoritative tone in his voice, sounding totally strict and no nonsense. It really lets me know who’s boss.

I think a doctor should be serious, impersonal, and with a matter-of-fact tone with a good dose of condescension. I prefer a lot of instructions and no silliness. A poor instruction would be “it's time to check the boys.” A better instruction is “stand up and drop your shorts.” “Stand up right here next to the table (points to a spot on the floor), face me, and drop your shorts to here” (as he points to mid thigh level) is excellent! It is also preferable if he speaks pretty loudly, not only to exert his power, but, also might permit people outside the room to know what has gone on.

I prefer friendly I can’t stand people who try to use authority over me. It does not end well for them. If they are respectful I’ll treat them with respect also.

Maybe it's someone who you could enjoy having coffee with but also dread running into outside of the office after an exam. Relatable, but also someone who knows what they are doing and have some encouraging words for the times they are needed during an exam.

Firm but professional. So I feel that I need to follow his instructions exactly, but I know I’m in safe hands.

My doctor's voice is always friendly and professional, but still firm. Instructing me in exactly what to do during the exam. I like being guided, as it makes me feel more submissive.

I like serious but understanding. Its usually open a little wider and deep breaths it will be over soon or scoot a little farther you wont fall off I promise. My gyn always reminds me to concentrate on the here and now and look at him and relax as best i can it truly does help me a great deal.

For me friendly but firm when needed. But she has to know when to turn firm also. I don't want a friendly hello and then instant bitch. Same in a play scene.

Some good points here from a variety of perspectives.

I liked @exam doc 's post. I definitely agree the '...check the boys...' matey kind of approach is not the best. It can risk undermining the quiet authority of the doctor. However, for me quiet authority is more powerful than noisy or forced authority. It implies respect, in that the doctor does not need to raise their voice. In terms of others outside, being aware, then this could be achieved if the exam room door was left ajar. The 'coughs' could be heard by a passer by, or perhaps at any moment a nurse or PA might walk in.

On the topic of authority, I note @Playdoctort 's comment on this and respect. If the authority is overused, in this situation it is lost. Ultimately the patient chooses to attend to the doctor so can withdraw in most cases, (although perhaps with consequences like failing an employment medical). unlike a prison medical or strip search kind of scene.

I would definitely prefer a polite and reassuring tone that gives me confidence that "It's ok you will be fine don't worry it can be taken care' kinda.

I always end up at the doctor's when I am sick (I mean I don't go for annual physical) so polite and reassuring tone is necessary for me. I don't want to get scared with an authoritative strict tone when I am sick.

Like I had a bad chest infection recently and I had to see a new doctor. He is a knowledgeable doctor but his tone was very strict. It made me uncomfortable. Now that I am recovering, I would never like to visit that doctor again. Just because I felt he was strict even though as far as his expertise goes, he's good. But I need both, politeness and expertise

In real life, for me, doctor's tone is very important. I have seen many doctors till now, both males and females. Almost all, barring a couple of them have been very polite. Whether I am sick or going for my annual exam, I don't want a strict doctor even though I generally remain calm and don't get so tensed at an appointment.

Doctor should have a polite tone, not just males, even the females.

For example, if I go to a gastro and he wants to have my T-shirt raised for examining my abdomen, I would really appreciate if a polite tone is used.

For me there's a difference between

"Raise your T-shirt: Strict (once I got aroused by these words of ultrasound nurse but not always)

"Can you please raise your T-shirt"/ "I will raise your T-shirt now": Polite/Informed

Others may feel it's pretty but I feel the difference. Not because I am a girl, but the doctor should always be polite and respectful of the patients. It helps according to me.

Having said that, the doctor should be knowledgeable. Politeness without knowledge is of no use. His/her diagnosis should be good. For a very brief period I had a very polite GP but he didn't seem confident while giving medicines. Went to that GP only 2-3 times.

All the above applies to only real life. In fantasy play I am fine with strictness, no torture though.

Med Fet is not a huge part of my kink but I have experimented with being a Dr on one or two occasions.

I feel most comfortable with using a detached and professional voice. Hopefully not denying my own arousal but whether I managed that or not, I am not sure 😉

I would like it to be strict, firm, professional with just a hint of condescending tone to make me feel a bit submissive. I thought my medfet lust preferred a man, but a firm female doctor would be great as well.