Talking to reluctant spouse

My wife didn't know what an enema was till I told her and she isn't comfortable with the subject.

I was wandering if any one knows of a way to introduce the idea in a more appealing way. till then I'll keep trying to hide my fetish, however it is kinda exciting to sneak around a little.

Tell your wife your Doctor wanted you to have enemas and your having trouble doing them by yourself...then tell her how good you feel afterwards...may work cant hurt to try...thats how started

Maybe start her involvement in such a way that she only keeps you company while you are filling. She can sit or lay with you. Of course if she notices the "reaction" you get from the enema you can say, "It happens pretty much every time. Not sure why, but it does." You'd have to see how it goes from then on. Just take it slow and maybe she will be come a bit more involved in your enema taking.

I have self administered enemas since I was a teenager. After I was married for a few years I bought an enema bag and showed it to her and said it was for constipation. She had knowledge of enemas and had one when our first child was born. A number of times I told her I was going to take one for constipation and she made no comment. She even asked for one when she was constipated. After I retired I decided to take enemas twice a month for health maintenance and she said "Your weired". When I went for a physical she told me to tell the doctor, female, that I take enemas. The doctor said that's OK as long as you don't that them too often. The same doctor told her not to take them them as she has arthritis. Healthandyoga recommend them for arthritis. New doctor, Chinese female, also has no problem me doing colon cleansing. Her attitude has changed and seems to understand and makes sure that I have enough time when I do take my enemas and today was the day eventho it interfered with her nap time. Having doctors approval has sure made my life better.

I agree with Bruce that a doctor's approval makes all the difference. I have a friend whose mom would always say she was giving him an enema because the family MD wanted it done as needed and she did not need permission each time.

Doctors were considered gods in those "golden age" days.

My doctor recommended an occasional enema (as well as major changes to my diet) for diverculosis. This has opened a whole new world of exploration for my fiance (a nurse) and me.

She has now given me 3 enemas and has masturbated me to knee trembling climaxes (and has had a few of her own).

I think that, while she has had this latent kinkiness to her all along, the doctor's recommendation somehow legitimized her getting to role play and take charge so to speak.

Whatever. I am not complaining!!!

My wife is very reluctant about getting involved in my enema activities. But, I don't try and hide them from her.

One day as I was taking an enema I told her about a particular enema experience as a child. She asked me how many enemas I got as a child. I told her that I got so many I couldn't really remember. I asked her how many she got. She told me she only got one.

I asked her about it. She told me once when she was about 9 or 10 she got constipated. She told her Mom who gave her a laxative. A couple of days later she still hadn't gone. She told her Mom. Later that day her Mom called her into the bathroom and had her take off her dress and panties and lay on the floor. Her Mom then gave her 2 or 3 bulbfuls of water and sat her on the toilet.

She says she doesn't remember anything else about the enema except that was the only time she ever got one from her Mom. I told her she was lucky. That I got an enema for just about anything, sometimes several in one week. She commented that that must be why I take as many as I do now.

We now at least are able to talk about my enemas. I will tell her a story about an experience I had a child with an enema. While I know she will never be as "into" enemas as I am I think she is at least more receptive to the idea that I take them and they aren't always for a dire need. She has allowed me to give her 2 or 3 over the many years we have been married, It's a start.

You've got a start. That is the first step. Be patient, talk some more, and then maybe she will be beside you when you take an enema.

I agree with Miss Stress!!! 🌹

You have "broken the ice" and IF she accommodates your desires neither of you will die of hypothermia!!!!! 😉

I had been using enemas secretly for years. My wife had no idea about my habit. I had a shower nozzle hidden in the bathroom and used it whenever I had the opportunity. Then from out of the blue I was diagnosed with a hernia. My doctor told me that I should avoid straining when going to the loo. He didn't suggest that I used enemas, but I thought it would be a great way to tell my wife that I should use them. I made another nozzle and explained to her what I was going to do. She said OK, but to be careful. That was several years ago, I had an operation which fixed my hernia and I still have occasional enemas.

I was diagnosed with diverculosis a few years ago while I was stationed in Iceland while serving in the Navy. The doctor told me to use metamusal or such and that tasted like crap. Now wouldn't that have been nice if he had prescribed regular enemas. My wife would have not had a problem with that, but I was not that lucky. I guess they do not teach the benefits of enemas in medical schools and that is too bad.

I did ask this doctor why all medecines prescribed by Navy doctors state "take by mouth". He explained that they have had problems with people taking supposotories by mouth. I don't see how anyone could be that stupid and the taste must have been terrible.

Bill

I grew up getting enemas and have always loved them. As a bi woman, I have mostly been doing them solo. A neighbor Sue, who is single and a nurse recently became my lover and I was nervous about mentioning my enema fetish. We have become great friends, sharing almost everything. One day she noticed my enema stuff and I turned beet red; then I told her about my fetish. She wasn't judgemental at all and told me that she would give me enemas anytime. That was a year ago and she has given me hundreds.