Enema gender or sexuality?

Hi All,

What "Gender" do we consider Enemas?? There are "Feminine" syringes in pastel colors like lavender, pink and pale blue. I've never really thought of an enema as neutral or nuder gender unless it may be a "Hospital" type?? And somehow I can't quite tie in "masculine" and "Enema!!!!"

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highwater

My new bag is hot pink. I think it might be a girl. I have a vintage one that's kind of reddish brown - I suppose that one's a boy.

Actually, I'm not sure there ought to be a gender to this...not really something I think of as having one anyway.

Now this is a pondering question? Me thinks the best answer would be "perception is reality or reality is perception." The Journey Continues To Be The Destination. ???

I think the gender is male and for the following reasons. We generally refer to an electrical outlet as female, while the plug which is inserted into the opening as the male end. By the same token, the douche with its penis shaped bulbous tip would be akin to the business end of a male. In nature, the more colorful gender is the male to allow him to compete and attract the female. The various shades of the douche bags are again similar to males strutting their splendid colors in order to attract females...in this case to purchase the product.

Hello Highwater,

Interesting question...something one wouldn't normally think about. I never have.

I always enjoy Einlauf's posts and agree with him (again)...male gender. His logic/rationale is right on, but also for me, because I'm female, the whole business of sticking something into a human orafice and squirting something in there, reminds me of what males do to me. I realize this may sound a little crude, but it is what it is.

Arianna

Have to agree with Arianna - I like Einlauf's logic on this one and really hadn't thought about it thusly prior to his post.

Never thought about it before but now that I do, without doubt my bags and bulbs are all male. And that works for me since I want things put up my ass and that means I need male objects. (I think what I just said makes sense??) Anyway, male for me.

I never gave the gender issue a thought until this post. All I know for sure is that the douche nozzle sure feels male to my ass. - vicki

I would hate to think my enema stuff as male because I am straight as an arrow,besides,every enema ever given to me in 55yrs by someone has been by a female.Even when I give myself an enema,I think of all the nurses and my two wives who have given me so much pleasure.Let the good times flow.w/m72yrs/W.MA

Hi to all,

Thanks for the input, definitely some colorful thought!! Luv U-all!!

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highwater

In Spanish, it's considered feminine: la lavativa.

Not that linguistic gender always seems to fit!

Interesting observation as to how other countries apply the gender factor. In Germany its 'Das Klistier'. 'Das' is neuter and neither masculine or feminine.

My bag is your standard red bag with douche nozzle. want to get an open ended one. I think that will be easier to fill up. Nicole

This is perplexing. einlauf makes a good argument, but also consider that other factors are also involved. The color,size,material made of, shape, length of hose, and nozzle selected, can all play a part in the the "gender" one sees when looking at their particular setup. Please realize that there are as many opinions as setups and we treat them as old friends, they really are and give dependable results with no dissapointments. So no matter the gender a friend that will give unconditionally without strings is priceless. ENJOY :~)

Gender for enema equipment? I don't think I have ever considered that and don't know that I would as I tend to associate the feelings of the process with the enema and the equipment only as a device to deliver the experience.

I agree,highwater.I got my first enema more than 50 years ago,I have been getting them ever since,all from a woman,other than the self administered ones,so I do think of enemas as a feminine thing.

There is no gender to enemas. They are used by both

For me it's always Mrs. Enema and Mr. Nozzle 😁 😁

I agree that enemas are non-gender although when the large nozzle is up my ass it sure feels male like.

The bulb enema is androgynous and hermaphroditic. Its elements are a perfect realization of the yin/yang. The shiny black hard rubber nozzle is straight and regimentally obdurate and male. The oval bulb is ideally modeled to fit snugly in a woman's palm, usually mother's or the visiting nurse's. Its smooth disc butt end yields easily to the gentle but determined pressure of the feminine thumb and the low hiss of the thin soapy jet as it hits the placid lake in the basin has a distinctly feminine timbre. Proof appears obvious when the nozzle and bulb are separated: side by side on a plane there is no doubt that the nozzle is the male principle and the bulb the female.

"Enema" is feminine in the Romance languages.

English is a reletively gender neutral language. I don't think of the enema itself or any of the equipment used HAS any particular gender. It's just an experience. Like a carnival ride, which I don't think has any gender either.

My bag is semi-transparent blue color, but also I have a red bulb enema entirely made of rubber.

In Italy enema is "clistere" and is masculine

An enema is not the bag or the bulb but the liquid. Since it is warm and when soapy a bit whitish it can only resemble one thing. For me an enema has to be male.

I guess its a girlish thing

The enema itself is genderless, BUT a big red enema bag or fountain syringe is something I find as sexy as seeing a woman in a swimsuit!

Just like some women are sexier than others, so it is with the shape created by different styles and brands of bags when they are full, and while they are emptying.

For me, an enema is a reversal of my normal male role. When a woman (my wife) gives me one, I feel as though I'm somehow being feminized. I am strictly straight, but I do enjoy what feels like a role reversal. I guess in the end, I see the nozzle and the milky solution as male, but the enema bag has feminine characteristics.

I have to agree that, for me, I enjoy the submission angle to the enema. There is a definite female energy there.

I'm not in the least submissive. I'm just who I always am, male, enjoying an enema....Jimbeaux

😁 I never thought of the 'gender' of an enema... what would it matter anyway, just enjoy them! 😎

I think you can get an enema bag in the shape of a well breasted woman. Does that clarify the gender?