What Constitutes a Good Enema?

Good enema is one when it does what is says on the tin, as in for example enemas reliefs symptoms of constipation, after which you feel better and somehow lighter.

Very good enema could be the one which reliefs constipation for example, but also feel great to receive it, it does not cause any cramps or even perhaphs make girls get wet or guys get hard...

Just saying, great enema and fun, why not?

When I was a child and would hear the words " a good enema" I took it to mean one, or several, that produced good results emptying the colon.

Now that I am older and self administer enemas, a good enema series is one that is warm, relaxing, and leaves me feeling a great sense of vitality and well-being!

How I look forward to the self-care of preparing the enemas, enjoying the sensations of warmth and fullness, and, of course, the renewed energy and well-being that results!!

Mother called a good enema a two quart hot and soapy which was delivered over her lap. It gave you lots of cramps, Mother said that's the enema working in your tummy. Even with the cramps we had to hold it for at least two minutes. Then once we evacuated the water and excrement which was binding you, She gave you one more which was a warm clear water rinse. That is what she called a good enema.

When you lay there relaxed and comfortable, as the bag empties into you. You don't cry out for zmom to stop the flow. The bag empties. Mom has to tell you it's over and she is going to pull the nozzel out. There is no urgency once the nozzel is out of you. You walk to the bathroom. not run. You sit on the toilet. Mom tells you see if you can hold it a few minutes , it will work better. You do with just little difficulty. You then let it out, it gives you a very productive bowel movement .

When it happened like that, Mom always said that was a good enema......toni

If you want a really good, powerful, thorough, Enema; I have been told that "Milk & Molasses" really works well.

I have never tried it either on my self or on anyone else, but have read that a 50/50 mix heated to 104 degrees Fahrenheit. and administered high up in the rectom works wonders, and is pretty 'explosive' with lots of 'cramping' we all enjoy !

I also read that after you have fully evacuated, you should use lots of pure warm water to neutralise it otherwise you will be 'cramping' all day on the toilet.

Has anyone actually tried the "Milk & Molasses" mix on themselves of a 'willing friend' ? If so what was it like, did you or the 'friend' get lots of fierce 'cramping' ?

I had a good enema this morning! There was nothing special except that I had been carrying a load for a couple days and my usual four quarter was normal. Then, in an hour or so, I dumped the load that plugged the toilet. The enema me feel good, but the expulsion made me feel great!

All of this brought on the question, "What comprises a good, or even fantastic, enema?"

What's your opinion?

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I wanted and needed a good cleanout today because I have been feeling under the weather all weekend. I stayed in bed a little longer this morning and then got up to prepare some warm-hot enemas with lots of Ivory soap. I knew I was very constipated and desperately needed them. I gave myself 4 high enemas and they were very productive in cleaning me out. I got to the cecum which is always a very good thing. I moaned and squirmed with cramps as the hot water sprayed my colon and as I rubbed my swollen clitoris, it resulted in a massive climax after each enema.

A "good" enema is one that cleans me out thoroughly in as few rounds as possible, with as little cramping and nausea as possible and essentially no pain, or very minimal pain, and then is done, and does not keep sending me to the toilet to expel a pint or so of soapsuds

Right now a "good enema" is any I give sub. With his health issues they don't have the same affect on him as they use to (no more instant hard one). 😞 .

We both miss that, but we are trying to make the best out of what we have right now. Working on it together for the pleasurable benefits of both of us.

A good enema is when I start with a bulging full bag having soap foaming over the sides - I snap the clip open and in it flows, non-stop and with a force that I can feel and hear flowing in non-stop that opening up every nook and cranny inside me with very warm strong soapy water that I know will work like magic once the bag empties.

A "Good Enema" in my opinion is any enema that accomplishes your goal, regardless of volume or additives. I don't usually take an enema because I am constipated, but rather just because I want to. So, depending on my motivation, such as just putting me in the mood for sex or masturbation, a quart may be all that is needed. Sometimes only a bulb or two will do. Sometimes a full bag or more of soapy. It is not the same each time.

What constitutes a good enema to me depends on the mood I am in. Right now I am in the mood for a slowly injected soapy 3-quart enema that takes about 15 minutes to flow throughout my intestine. I say slow because I want to enjoy feeling the soapsuds slowly creeping deeper and deeper into my bowel. I want to spend the next 10 to 15 minutes feeling the pressure as the soapy water wants to evacuate from my body and splash into the toilet bowl. Once that enema is done, I want to take a second enema of sea salt and essential oils. This enema should also be a slow fill, again taking about 15 minutes to worm its way to the top of my bowel. Again, a 10 to 15-minute hold to allow the water to clear and rinse away the soapsuds left behind by the first enema. After a rest to make sure all the enema water has evacuated, I want to take a one-quart coffee enema, which I will hold for 15 minutes. That’s my mood for today; who knows what my mood will be tomorrow. 😉

A "Good Enema" in my opinion is any enema that accomplishes your goal, regardless of volume or additives. I don't usually take an enema because I am constipated, but rather just because I want to. So, depending on my motivation, such as just putting me in the mood for sex or masturbation, a quart may be all that is needed. Sometimes only a bulb or two will do. Sometimes a full bag or more of soapy. It is not the same each time.

Cheryl,

Good description very similar to me. My goal is almost always recreational, to enjoy the enema sensations and usually submissive mindset (male switch but I enjoy being sub for enemas) as well as arousal and almost always orgasm during or afterwards. My usual is to fill my bag to the full 4 quarts and usually aim to take the whole volume. I really do enjoy the large volume and distention and holding it up to an hour. However it's not uncommon, like a few days ago, to become so aroused by the time 2.5-3 quarts has run into me that I need to have my orgasm before getting the 4 quarts. And occasionally I'll do the full 4 quarts plus 30-60 min retention and then have an orgasm on the commode while emptying. Any of those is very enjoyable, so to me a "good enema" can be several different things.

I'm almost 69 with pretty severe ED from both age as well as long term prior use of AD medications, so any enema plus or minus my other kinks that helps me have a nice orgasm is definitely a good one.

Eric

To me, the question is somewhat ambiguous. It could mean "Was the enema effective in emptying your bowel" or it could mean "Did you enjoy the enema".

In the first context, a good enema is one which produces a complete evacuation of the person's bowel of all poo. Depending on the situation, the results may start off hard or soft, but a good enema should end with the evacuation of lots of very soft poo. If there is no soft poo, the enema was not "good" IMO because tye results were not complete. This usually means sitting on the toilet, relaxed, for at least 15 minutes, after the last poo comes out and you have feelings of emptyness and lightness and have confidence nothing further is going to come down even if you exercise.

As to the enjoyment aspect, that's more personal. Some may just like the after enema feeling of cleanness and some may believe that only a mighty orgasm either while holding or while releasing the enema is required. In a sub/dom situation, the criterion may be did the sub take all the solution and/or did the sub hold it for the required time.

What makes a good enema for me is one in which I do not have to hurry. I get very little privacy and if I am going to have play time, I have to condense it into a narrow window. When I have time, I’ll take 3 or 4 slow, deep enemas and wait until each makes me expel it. If I have to thoroughly clean the toilet because of all the splatter, then I know it’s been a good one.

What makes a good enema for me is one that covers the following 4 points:

1. The water goes in easily and is very soothing at the same time. ( No intestinal ache or cramping ).

2. One that produces a feeling of euphoria throughout my body as I fill.

3. One that does away any constipation that I might have been experiencing. And finally,

4. One that evacuates easily... In other words, one that does not take its time coming out.

I think my mom used the word "good" to put a positive spin on things. A favorite expression was "How about if I make you a nice warm enema so you can get a good cleaning out?" Hearing her, who wouldn't want a "nice warm enema"? The only adjectives that she would not add were "large" and "soapy," which her nice warm enemas also always were. Did I think that they were nice? No! Did they produce a good cleaning out? Absolutely!

Believe it or not, I like to do enemas in front of others besides my husband. The naughtiness aspect of it is delicious, and the acceptance from my friends (even if they tease me) is heart-warming.

Enemas are very private for us, but we do share our interest with a few other couples. And I am glad we do!

"large" and "soapy," which her nice warm enemas also always were.

My mother had me there to watch as she swished the bar of ivory soap around in the large red rubber bag. Sometimes she would put me over he lap and I could feel her girdle and gartered stocking. Everything sure came out///

Oh yes, "a good enema" - much like a "good spanking" .... as in "just wait till we get home, you're going to get a GOOD spanking young man!".... Oh back then I could have done without those good things!

An interesting old thread. As I have written elsewhere, the word enema was unknown by me until I was in my early teens. If the word was used in my household when I was young, I don't recall it. And by the time I knew the meaning of the word and what it was, my mom had given me enemas up to age seven and I had been self-administering enemas as part of my daily shower routine for a couple of years. So, saying what constituted a "good enema" back then is informed by a look back into what was happening back then. Some of it would be guesswork because I don't know what constituted a "good enema" for my mom when she was giving them to me. I'm guessing that, after holding it while for some period of time while laying across her lap, it was having the soapy mixture or rinse come out of me with evidence that I had been sufficiently cleaned out. I have fond memories of those bits and pieces of time associated with those enemas.

When I began self-administering (again, before I knew the word and what it meant), what constituted a good enema was the feeling of a lot of warm water flowing into me and being able to hold it until I achieved orgasm (and sometimes multiple enemas for multiple orgasms). I loved the sensation and it was almost always about getting to an orgasm. That would be true for most of my life even when enemas were not such a "central" part of my life.

As I've gotten the older, what constitutes a good enema has changed a bit or maybe expanded in ways that I was really aware of or focused on when I was younger. First, it still is the feeling of the warm liquid flowing into me that I like. Although I may still fill myself quickly with 2-4 liters, I am more likely to allow the enema to flow in my slowly to savor the flow and the gradual migration of liquid through my colon. I like to be able to take the time to get hard and slowly bring myself to orgasm, but hat isn't as essential to me as it once was. With a wider variety of enema solutions and nozzles, there is also a wider range of reactions to the enemas I am taking and their sensations than the plain water enemas that constitute most of my "enema experience." They range from soapy/glycerin to coffee to warm baking soda rinses.

The thing that I am more attuned to with my enemas is the sensation of my colon being emptied. It was more a thing that was just part of the process that I just had to get through to finish up. Now, it's taking the time and notice of feeling the enema flow out and what it's carrying out of me as I empty over a period of time and enemas. The physical sensation of this outflow is much more sensual now that I'm taking notice of it.

What constitutes a good enema is being able to poop afterwards if you can’t. Having a empty feeling after you expell. Being able to take a minimum of 1qt in my opinion. Knowing after you taken the whole bag you need to go now right now and you know it definitely has done it’s job. Or honestly just enjoying it for what it is and relaxing you or getting you off that also constitutes a good enema. This is just my opinion. Other people will say the same things possibly or different things. A enema is a enema a good one is only a good one if you ultimately determine for your self it’s a good one you took.

I agree with the previous answers on what constitutes a good enema.

However, I am into role playing where the girl gets a much deserved punishment enema. And like they say about a good spanking - that it is only starting when you wish it was already and that it always ends in tears. Well, I would state the same for a good (punishment) enema

A good enema in my book is any one that I am administering. I just love to get a nozzle in and watch her face as I slowly fill her up good.

A good enema is one that cleans out your plumbing and causes you to have an orgasm. A great enema is a good clean out plus multiple orgasms!! Denise

Add a spanking to a great enema and you have a fantastic enema session!! lol Denise

A good enema for me needs to be at least 2 quarts of very warm water with comfortable amounts of baking soda and castile enema soap added. Sometimes 3 quarts are in order. That is followed by a 2 or 3 quart plain water "rinse". Mine always need to be given by an adult figure in an age play fantasy, or I act out the role play myself in my imagination, acting like I'm being forced to take the enemas, with all the appropriate complaining, begging to quit, etc. This always arouses me.

A good enema…… from when you insert the nozzle or the tube, it would make a woman wet, and a guy have precum

It depends on the purpose of the enema. If it is for fun, it should feel good to you. If it is for punishment it should not feel good to you.