Ladies - Do you like the Feeling of the External Exam?

Yes! I enjoy the feeling of the external exam from my primary care doctor during my annual physical. As soon as my underwear slides down to my ankles I feel exposed, and also get a little red in the face. Before anything Im in the frog leg position for 30 seconds while he just looks. After he finishes glancing he looks throughout my pubic hair (at my last physical I wasn’t trimmed) separating it in each area until hes down to my lips. Then he spreads my labia pretty wide and palpates my inner labia, then he will move down to the vagina and touch the outside of it. I find this exam way more intimate and embarrassing than my gyn exam.

The first contact and being spread open is enough to almost make me climax

Yes! I enjoy the feeling of the external exam from my primary care doctor during my annual physical. As soon as my underwear slides down to my ankles I feel exposed, and also get a little red in the face. Before anything Im in the frog leg position for 30 seconds while he just looks. After he finishes glancing he looks throughout my pubic hair (at my last physical I wasn’t trimmed) separating it in each area until hes down to my lips. Then he spreads my labia pretty wide and palpates my inner labia, then he will move down to the vagina and touch the outside of it. I find this exam way more intimate and embarrassing than my gyn exam.

Is it jealousy or envy? Which would be the correct word?

I love the physical and psychological feeling of having my labia parted by the doctor. It's so exposing but so exciting to know I'm being looked at while I'm spread open.

I love the physical and psychological feeling of having my labia parted by the doctor. It's so exposing but so exciting to know I'm being looked at while I'm spread open.

I don’t know what’s hotter for me, the physical or psychological feelings. Having my labia spread and someone being able to examine my clit, urethra, vagina, and anus is so arousing to me.

I have never paid much attention to the first contact. It occurs to me that I probably should.

I think that, when I am in position, I must open up pretty freely because I have never noticed any extra manual movement on the MD or NP’s part to spread my labia.

All that being said, when that first gloved finger is in the introitus, THAT I feel. THAT is like kick-off at the football game, and from then on, my senses are tingling….

I’ve been thinking a lot about external exams at a place other than the gynecologist. So for todays recap we take it all the way back umpteen years ago to when I was 18. I had recently discovered that I loved the doctors touch. I looked forward to getting my annual physical more than virtually anything.

I’m laying on my back clad in nothing but my undies and the doctor is pushing on my tummy. Getting closer and closer to the waist band.

I get nervous. I know it’s coming. She is going to see and touch me down there. There is nothing I can do to stop it. And nothing I can do to stop these feelings that cause so much internal conflict.

“Next I’m going to do a genital exam. That means I need to check down there. Can you pull your undies down?”

I see her snap on a glove. I hook my thumbs in my waist band and pull my panties over my rear and to my knees.

Immediately my mind goes to- “is she going to judge me for shaving? Can she tell I masturbated 10 times last night thinking about today. Please please please say you can’t tell I’m turned on. “

“Part your legs. Just taking a look”

My head is on a paper cover pillow. I look down. I see her hand about to touch me. I’d hate to know what my heart rate was. Those white gloves inching closer and closer.

“I’m going to touch you now”

I felt an instance sense of relief. I have no idea why. My nerves lessened. And I just decided to enjoy the ride. And I kinda forgot what was happening. I got distracted. Maybe I have ADHD? Oo Squirrel!

She spread me. I looked down at her hand. And then over. I see my undies at my knees. I see my feet sticking up.

“Any plans for this summer?”

“Yeah. We are going to go the beach ugh”. She like touched my labia.

“Just relax”

My attention again went to my feet. Damn the pedicure I got still looks good. What is that? Damn it is that a chip in the paint. When the fuck did that happen?”

“Just a little spread here”

I looked at her hand again. It was weird at that point to see someone else touching me there.

And I swear she like put her finger in maybe an inch and touched my urethra? Like it felt like I had to pee. I dunno maybe I made that up.

Then her hand pulled back. I had a sense of relief. I tried to make a note of everything she’d done so I could play it over again in my head. I was so ready to get out of there. I went to pull up my panties. Alone time can’t come soon enough.

Anyway. To answer your question I love the external exam. It’s amazing how what was maybe a minute of my day absolutely made my year.

Love those first few moments of exposure when the doctor lifts the sheet and I feel the cool air hit my intimate parts as he first begins his inspection. It always starts with a look, and then he palpates my labia while gently spreading things around. Then he says ‘just a check here’ before retracting my clitoral hood, then he parts my labia and looks at my opening for a few moments palpating the glands and then ‘milking’ the urethral opening.

My doctors have just done visuals of the external. Once I spread the legs and expose my self I only se the doctor looking. Never pulled back the hood of the clit or felt my labia.

@Amanda_O and @Kendz You are so lucky! I wish I could get my new doctor to be as thorough with my male parts. She seems to be afraid to touch me or even LOOK at anything in my crotch area. I think she's a victim of the don't look, don't touch attitude that seemed to become prevalent after I grew up. She's about the same toward my wife too. Our old male doctor of 30 years always had me naked for the whole half hour of our encounter and when my wife's GYN retired he did the same for her but she got a gown. I didn't think he had gowns until I asked my wife how her physicals went.

You got your hood lifted to visualize your clit, no one has EVER retracted my foreskin in the 50+ years I've been getting physicals. I take that back, the NP I had at the VA did skin it back and milked it down at my first physical with her. I guess because I didn't mind being exposed to her and with my permission she also used me as a training aid when she had a trainee or two. So I got skewered and skun back several times by students, with her watching. Alas, she retired and I never made a good connection with the MD who replaced her. She made me feel she didn't want me coming up there to the VA so after 4 years of trying to change her attitude I quit going.

One of the best threads yet omg!

I relate to so much of this… just reading “spread my labia” makes me tense up… oh my, being so exposed, so embarrassing but So Good. 😳

Laying down alone is exciting for me, especially depending on draping. I've had external exams where there's a lot more exposure, or they're more detailed and therefore maybe a tad longer.

But yes, being told to assume a more revealing position for the examiner, then the verbal warning, usually while using clinical terminology, is very exciting for me. "You're going to feel me open your outer labia" was probably the best verbal prompt I've heard over the years, from a couple different providers.

Like many of the ladies in this lovely thread, I also enjoy the anticipation. On its own, even before any touching occurs, it's the mere thought of what will happen that is exciting.

That being said, I've only ever had females in real exams and I also never knew how arousing exams could be. I can imagine, had I had male doctors before, I mightve realized the excitement of exams sooner. I will say that anticipating the touch, even from the female doctors checking my vagina, that I could not help but feel some arousal; I obviously ignored that arousal as I was fighting with my own internal conflicts of what I considered to be the norm and what was taboo, at that time. Going forward, I know I will be paying more special attention to my true feelings during a real exam, starting from the anticipation, to the initial touch, and all the through the exam. 😉

For play exams, of course I'm excited and aroused and nervous, anticipating how this exam will play out. I enjoy and relish in the doctor’s touch. If the synergy is great, it makes for an even better experience. I also hold the same sentiments with one of the member's comments about his wife's feelings: I can stay horny for days after the exam, thinking about the little details, like the touching or caressing, that will play over and over in my head.