How to get your Spouse into Spanking

I am very strong willed and used to getting my way. My husband is also strong willed and I would like to receive spankings as a form of discipline. Any suggestions? Thanks!

Yup just ask him. I was asked by my wife and she absolutely loves me giving her a good hard spanking OTK.

Walk up to him and tell him that spanking leads to horniness and if he looks at a little dumbfounded tell him to try it out and find out for himself and ask him start smacking that ass of yours and that if it makes you horny then tell him that you will do the same thing to him in order to get him nice and horny for good night of rough sex or what ever that you have in mind for him whether it be by giving him enemas or a blow job or him eating your pussy to where you can't stand it that would be my suggestion

Bring home a video where a woman is Spanked. Then as the woman is getting spanked suggest to him that you would like this as well. You can easily put yourself over his lap and ask him to spank you as you see it in the video. Then afterwards I suggest that you sit down and discuss it with him. I think he will accomodate your needs.

Getting your husband to spank you? Simple, Divorce him and marry me 😁 😁 😁

ASk him. No tell him what you want. Then lure him into a situation where he would be comfortable spanking you ... and you would be commfortable receiving a spanking. That's what I did with my husband. And although we are not into spanking as a form of recreation, we do it occasionally and it becomes very exciting. I wonder if there is a man around who would not want to spank a naked female ... obviously something that could lead to better things.

Perhaps this site could make him understand

http://www.disciplinarywivesclub.com/abegin.htm

Why don't you just click on a site sometime and have him take a look, say thats kind of hot what do you think.

Do something naughty and then playfully suggest that you should be spanked. See his reaction. If he has half a brain he will catch on.

I have playfully spanked my boyfriend to see if he would bite, but it's never led any where other than a promising comment. It's a little discouraging/ironic when you want to be dominated, but feel like you have to take the lead. Seems to takes the fun out of it...

I think just ask him - you'd be surprised how many guys in the world are secretly into spanking

I would just ask him for one.

Be sure that your relationship is well established first... In my situation it took 20 years and two children later. At some point , when you feel that the time has come to reveal your inner feelings, just go ahead and ask. The worst your partner can say, is 'No'. In my case, my wife was reluctant because she did not want to 'hurt' me and I had to assure her that the pleasure of the experience transcended the possible pain that might be involved. Sometime later, she presented me with her shaved genitals and said that she would like to receive oral sex .... I had no idea up until then, but how could I refuse?. Hey, we are all in this together and there is no rule book ... we make up the rules as we go along.

I doubt that any man would refuse a partner a good smack on their bottom. just tell him what you would like him to do and then pull down your knickers !!!

What is the best way to introduce my wife to spanking?

I'd like to see if she'd enjoy bending over my knee. I'd offer her pussy-slapping too if I can find a suitable crop.

Did you - imaprettylady - take up any of these suggestions? Or did you find another way to start receiving spankings?

If you've been successful, do you have any tips as to how I could do similarly but the other way around - I'd like to spank my wife for her pleasure.

Do what I did!

Bring home a paddle, or bath brush, & ask will you please spank me!

We were very soon married.

I did 37 years ago, & she is still spanking me!

Along with my enema fetish I also wanted my wife to spank me but did not know how to approach the subject. I purchased some spanking paddles on line and showed her and told her of my interest. She just smiled (you all know that smile) and said ok. As time went on using the ones I bought online, I discovered I could make a better one at home. Over the years I have made several out of leather which are ok, but have since discovered thin wood and lexan paddles which I have also made at home. I have some lexan sheets that are textured but smooth. They deliver a nice sting.

Getting my husband into spanking? It was not difficult at all! My husband grew up getting the strap from his older sister, after their father died. His sister (now my sister-in-law) and I used to talk about our family spankings because we both started our working careers at the same company. It turned out that we had a lot in common. After about 6 months, she introduced him to me. I could tell that Michael was submissive by the way his sister addressed him and told him what to do. This was confirmed, about a year later, when the three of us were supposed to go out to dinner and Michael came home 2 hours later, having completely forgotten about it. He had to stand in the kitchen corner, while we ordered and ate our dinner from the same restaurant that would have eaten at. besides no dinner, Michael was then escorted to their late father's office, where he had to reluctantly take down his pants and bend over the desk, while his sister got the razor strap from a closet behind it. Then, he was given 12 strokes of the strap over his brief seat- 6 for each hour. A similar punishment happened while we were engaged, but, at my suggestion, his sister applied the strap with his underpants down, as well. Thus, our domestic spanking relationship began and continues to this day!

Let me tell you about a totally inefficient way I tried with a girlfriend when I was young. I laid myself across her lap, bare bottom up. She did not see the hint, or saw it but pretended not to, and continued watching TV.

I just asked my wife for a birthday spanking and she did, the trick was to get her to really swing the paddle hard.

That was a few years ago and now has no problem swinging it very hard.

Same with enemas, she herself doesn’t like to be spanked or given an enema but I have given here a few enemas but no spanking. But now doesn’t have a problem paddling my bare ass or giving me an enema.

I wish I would have asked 30 years ago.