Enemas Before Anal Sex

My question, Should a female submit to a multiple internal rinsing, before she is entered in her bottom. Is their a proscribed procedure and how early should this take place? Will this make her clean enough for "non messy" entry? Thanks

If the objective is as you stated it and not also part of the fun, punishment or game play, then several small enemas is the best option. All that is required is to clear the rectum and not the entire colon so big enemas are not needed or recommended in my opinion.

I agree with MsLisa. You DO NOT want massive enemas in preparation for anal intercourse. I like to do progressively SMALLER enemas as preparation.

Depending on the degree of penetration (are you using your penis or an 18" long double dong with full penetration and for how much time--5 minutes or an hour) you will need to make adjustments, but for most activities up to the 18" dong for an hour, I start with a maximum of 1 1/2 quarts, then one quart, then a pint, then a quick rectal rinse.

Wait between enemas for all the feces and water from the preceding one to be expelled. The reason for starting large and going smaller is to loosen everything and expel it, then the each succeeding smaller one cleans out the remnants of the one before.

You DO NOT want to go to bigger enemas because that will only loosen up things higher up and will keep coming down while you are playing. Go from larger to smaller.

It also helps NOT TO EAT for a good few hours prior to heavy anal play.

If you are going to have HOURS of very deep insertions (24-36" with heavy fat tubes) or deep fisting (to the elbows), you may want to do a thorough cleanout in the shower in advance with a shower shot or something similar so can you do many repeated enemas, filling and expelling---maybe a dozen fill and empties in say half an hour to an hour.

This regimen works well for both my husband and myself.

I recommend preparing your partner with two or three 8oz bulb enemas first as MsLisa suggests. I would give your partner a little rest period and then ask her to assume the 'doggy' position. I would then gently insert into her bum a condom covered dildo, equating to the size of your member, that has been thinly lubed with KY jelly or anal-eze. I recommend slowly inserting it to its full length, giving it a few twists and then slowly removing it. I would then inspect it for any undesirable residue, so I can determine if additional enemas are needed. This final step serves as a check on how well the enemas have worked and will help to increase the anticipation of your wife or lady friend. If she is confident that she's 'clean' back there and you are very gentle with her, there is a very good chance you will be allowed repeat performances.

Do you require the person to use a condom?

If with a woman you're not very familiar with....then absolutely. You will want to and she may require it.

If with your wife or long-time girlfriend...then it's a matter of preference. It's all about trust and safety. If you've been playing the field...then please do your wife or GF the courtesy of slipping on a condom.

I have always looked at enemas given strictly as pre-anal sex cleansing as being what some call an anal douche. The ladies are right in that small enemas are the way to go. A big enema before hand is counter productive unless you plan on a series of at least three.

A 2 or 3 quart soapy enema first and held for as long as possible. This is followed by a same sized saline or salt and soda enema that is also held and finished by another clear water enema that is put in as fast as practical and then immediately released.

The soapy enema starts the bowels into spasms designed to rid the body of waste. Soap is an irritant. The salt or salt and soda enema is to finish the cleaning and wash the soap out. Your bowel can not absorb salt water. That is why you can not survive on the ocean on sea water. This will all need to come out and should leave things pretty clean. the last enema is given strictly to wash and do a final cleaning in the rectum. You don't use salt in this enema because it washes the salt out and what ever is left you absorb so you don't suffer loose bowels afterward. You never HOLD a pure water enema because you can absorb too much and it will mess up your blood chemistry. Water poisoning can be very real. I have never had a problem though with the fast in and fast out to clean the rectum.

Make all of the enemas about body temp unless you WANT to cause cramps. If the enemas are not a part of the fun then you want them to be as comfortable as possible so that the soon to be recipient of your anal pleasure will be happy and receptive after you are done.

The sex of the recipient is irrelevant.

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. . . . You never HOLD a pure water enema because you can absorb too much and it will mess up your blood chemistry. . . .

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How is the colon absorbing some water any different from drinking water where ALL of it is absorbed? IT ISN'T.

Don't worry about holding the enema, but it isn't necessary to hold.

I don't normally drink water in half gallon to gallon amounts in the short period of time that an enema is taken. You could do the same damage though if you drank a gallon of water too fast.It is called hyponatremia. In horses it is a real danger when they are too hot and thirsty. People too, if badly dehydrated can't be allowed to drink too much or they will get sick. With people it is just rare for someone to do it via drinking. Google water poisoning or water intoxication or look it up on Wicipedia. It is actually a potentially fatal thing!!

Sometimes less more when it comes to Volume.

Condoms are a must when it comes to penile insertions into someone's rectum.

You can hold a pure water enema for as long as you want. The water poisoning comes into play if you've done this repeatedly one after another, absorbing most of the enemas. Your body begins to flush out (via expelling and urination) all the nutrients and electrolytes your body needs to function. if this continues there comes a point where you pass out from lack of energy and yes it could lead to death although this is EXTREMELY rare. Drink some Gatorade during your enema and you should be fine so long as you don't overdo it.

My partner and myself have enemas before anal sex for cleaning. Sometimes even after 3 enemas and having lengthy anal play we remark still not being clean.

Do we need to have more enemas? Other suggestions?

The problem is that the enemas only clean your large intestine and "stuff" keeps coming into it from the small intestine. The solution is to have the small interstine empty before you do the enemas.

This is easily enough accomplished by drinking one of the many liquid laxatives/purgatives available at drug stores. The problem is that is will take some time (a few hours) for the liquid to get through the small intestine -- and you need to be near a toilet when it does!

Not quick or convenient but quite doable if you do want to be really clean.

I always fast for two days to be very clean after an enema. This works well for me and I like the flat tummy it leaves for me. It is exciting both mentally and physically to prepare in this way for anal play. Sadly, my husband likes anal play but is just not interested in enemas so it is my own personal enjoyment in the preparation.

Sadly almost the opposite. I enjoy anal play by my wife (only)and would enjoy an enema, but she doesn't want to do "that". Suggestions?

I guess you a good rule of thumb would be expect contents to enter your large intestines from the small intenstine unless you have been fasting for a while.

Even after multiple enemas you can almost count on your colon being filled with the next batch of feces hours later.

To have a clean anal sex, you don't have to take a large enema, a small (6 oz at most) is better and effective because it cleans your rectum only, and a large enema soften your feces all along your colon and feces keep coming down making anal sex messy. You don't have to fast either.

I agree. Fasting along with enemas are for deep anal fisting and toy play. Regular anal sex just takes a few flushes with an 8oz. bulb

Here is what I found out works Very Well to clean out the entire colon, from the Cecum to the ass. I take a 3 to a 3-1/2 qt enema in which I mix in 1-1/2 cups of sugar and 1-1/2 cups of baking soda along with 8 oz of castle or Dr. Bonner's enema soap. This enema should be taken on a dirty colon and take it in as fast as you can, for it will start to cramp up pretty fast. Use a sturdy double balloon enema nozzle if you have one. What this enema does, is it first will stimulate a very good purging of your upper and lower colon, with intense cramping and it will continue to draw fluid into your colon, which will wash out all if not most of your fecal matter. It just takes a while to do it. You will revisit the toilet at least 7 to 10 times in the next 4 or so hours before its all over. And post enema cramping will be quite strong too. But you will notice each time you have to go back to the toilet, the enema will be cleaner and cleaner, until at the last, only clear fluids will cum out. Then you will be ready for anal intercourse or play. Enjoy and have fun.

Try to use the midical enemas, i mean the pre-charged ones because they contain some kind of salts which helps stuff to pull down, if you cloud not have it use soap with water then get another one with plain water

My wife hates all things anal so it really isn't a problem. I would think a quick enema or two is in order before any kind of anal play. No fun getting poop all over when there is an easy fun solution (pun intended)

It surprises me how squeamish people are.

If you play around inside someone's ass, theres going to be some amount of poop, sometime.

Taking an enema before every anal sex encounter would be... daunting. I dont usually PLAN my sex life that far in advance (with exception) and I wouldnt want to have any play in my ass for about 2 or 3 hours after the last rinse, in case something is stuck.

A glycerin suppository or small anal douches (emphasis on SMALL, like a babybulb syringe ) will clear out the rectum for play. Go past the rectum with water and you will be loosening up feces from the colon, which would be messy.

Or, just have a good BM and go for it. Shower after if you like, bathe each other.

"Should a female *submit* to a multiple internal rinsing, before she is entered in her bottom"

Maybe, is submission something you're into? Is the enema part of that play? Then by all means yes! Submit and play safe. ?

It was the second time that I had sex with my best friend from high school. He knew how much I loved coffee enemas. We went to his house that afternoon, he had brewed a pot of coffer that morning so there would be a cold one ready. And when he got home, he brewed a fresh one. We had been planning this for two days. That morning I prepared myself. I used nair on my legs, crotch, booty, and armpits. I painted my toenails. I 'borrowed' a pair of my sisters bra and panties since we were close in size.

While he prepared the enema, I put on the lingerie then my regular clothes. He came back with the bag of coffee and hung it on the curtain rod. He planted a nice kiss on my lips, our tongues french kissing. We began to undress each other. I lay down on his bed, he lubed up the nozzle and myself, inside and out. My dick was so hard. By the time it was in me, I was squirming around, I had never had a 3-quart enema before. He had me spread my legs. I did so, and he began to suck me off. He slowly blowed me till I blew a load down his throat. It was so intense. He had me expel my enema, and probably 30 minutes later we began the next round.

I came back in his bedroom and he lay there on the bed playing with his massive cock. I wanted him in me so bad. I decided i wanted to be on top this time. I slowly mounted him and before long I felt him shoot his load in me.

It surprises me how squeamish people are.

If you play around inside someone's ass, theres going to be some amount of poop, sometime.

Or, just have a good BM and go for it. Shower after if you like, bathe each other.

I agree with WhoLover. Have a BM, shower, go for it.

If you play around inside someone's ass, theres going to be some amount of poop, sometime.

A glycerin suppository or small anal douches (emphasis on SMALL, like a babybulb syringe ) will clear out the rectum for play. Go past the rectum with water and you will be loosening up feces from the colon, which would be messy.

I found - for myself, that the liquid glycerin suppositories work well to clean out the rectum (only takes a few minutes). Then a couple of fleet enemas (dump the solution and use plain water) do a nice rinse. Agree with @wholover - if you do a large enema - past the rectum - there will probably be some residual water and feces that gets sucked out during anal intercourse.

Having never done anal, and having a husband who has no interest in anal sex, given my lack of interest I probably never will.

Would seem to me though that you would want to take a Fleet enema to clear out that last few inches just for basic sanitation

Even if I've had a series of enemas earlier in the day, if I have a clue that we might end up playing back there, I'll take a small bulb enema before playtime just to make sure my rectum is cleared of any fecal matter.

I know, I know, it's your butt and getting a little dirty is sometimes inevitable...but I like to be as clean as I can be so I can enjoy it as much as hubby does. Some people don't care...and that's fine, but my personal preference is to be as clean as possible.

Deb

I would hope so. Know I would before anal sex but the bulb rinse should be good if you normally keep yourself fresh. And LisaK, you are really missing something if you have not tried anal. Do not rush in but take it slowly so you can enjoy the sensations rather than havnig a painful experience. My GF loves it when I squirt her anally. Hitting her GSpot while my fingers are inserted in her ass drives her insane!

I would think that an enema to clean out the anus would be a good idea before in depth anal play.

I would not even think of letting anal sex happen with my husband without first preparing with a thorough enema series clean out. I would even eat very lightly that day and the night before. Anal sex is to be enjoyed but with cleanliness. That is just how I feel but others may not share that opinion which is fine for them....just not me. That being said, the preparation in anticipation of upcoming anal sex is very enjoyable as well!! Denise