How I told my fiancee

It was kinda premature actually, i was planning on telling her and getting ready for it, you know psyching my self up, then she confronts me one day saying she found pictures of girls in diapers on my computer. I sat her down next to me and told her everything. She thought it was weird and said I needed to stop. I said I would (because I would if she wanted me to). She went as far as to ask me to seek counseling.

When the conversation died down and we went to bed I told her that I wanted her to know more about it before she had me go to counseling. She agreed and the next day I sent her a few links to info sites and videos from the "Tyra Banks Show" and "Secret Lives of Women - Baby Ella" and she did some research on her own. When I got home from work she had a list of questions for me. She asked everything from am I an AB, DL, furry... to, do I pee mess or both in them. When it was said and done she said she didn't care if I wore them when she wasn't around and agreed to let me wear them around her occasionally (which took me about a month to muster the courage to actually do).

When I did finally wear a diaper in front of her she confirmed my suspicions that it's almost impossible to tell and then that night we had some intimate time and she went right for the hand job under the diaper saying she wanted to fulfill my fantasy...

Today I still wear around her occasionally and she wears a Depend pull-up for me when we have sex occasionally, we call it her lingerie.

Good for you!. It's important to be honest with your sig. other.

See and it didn't turn out bad; she gave you a chance to explain and a chance.

It's great when you have someone who can respect what you do even if they don't agree or aren't into it.

😃 I'm very happy for you.

Wishing all the best

I told my fiance in a different way. We were on vacation and I had a list of questions. One of then if she would be involed in one of these (list of 15) fetishes. Everyone but one she say either don't care or maybe. When I brought up diapers, she freaked out and said NEVER!!!! THAT IS WRONG!.

I later told her that day of which one it is and she dosent understand why. She is ok that I have this fetish but won't try it out. I'm also sure she will freak out if I wore one infront of her and she catches me. I have wore one while being by her under my jeans but I know she wont like it so did only talk for a minute with her about whatever was on her mind and went our seperate ways.

So I dont know, this might be a difficult relationship if I can't feel comfortable with this fetish around her.

That sounds like heaven

Hi,

Informed my then wife of 2 years, about my diaper desires. It was an absolute disaster, and resulted in a very nasty divorce. Best rule here is, be up front. To conceal or think you can live without your fetish could be a big mistake. My true rational (be it poor) before marriage, was I can just go without it. She said it as right out deception. In some ways I do understand her now, she just could not accept treating me as a baby. Be perfectly clear with your mate, as what is not right before marriage, will most likely be an impass after wards. Hope this helps.