Who is better at masturbating the opposite sex?

Who is better at masturbating the opposite sex. Are men better at masturbating a woman or is a woman better at masturbating a man?

They say that only a man knows what a man likes. So it this the case that only woman knows how to masturbate a woman?

I'm asking this for a poll to see who thinks what .

I think my wife masturbates me better than I do it to myself.

I think, all in all, that women are better at masturbating men, than men are at masturbating women (at least until the men have taken "lessons" from their partner).

Women intuitively masturbate each other better than men masturbate women.

I have heard MANY more women complain about how their man masturbates them than men who complain about their women.

The reason is men's anatomy lends itself to easy orgasms because there is a lot to handle. Women, on the other hand have to be handled with a finer, more deft technique.

YMMV.

Agreed, swichabluesusie. I've never had problems with a woman masturbating me to orgasm, but bringing a woman to orgasm through masturbation is a little triciker in my experience (although I like to think I'm pretty good at it, and I think my wife would agree).

Even masturbating the same woman to orgasm can call for different techniques at different times. You definitely can't just start reaching out and rubbing away like you can with most men. But I love bringing my wife to an orgasm, so the extra care and effort's worth it!

Don't we all enjoy masturbation and mutual masturbation? I believe every female partner I've ever experience used slightly different techniques, which made it all the more enjoyable! Different shaped hands and fingers, heavy or light teasing touches, and choice of lubricant makes a world of difference. The approach whether shy or aggressive all becomes a part of the experience. I would imagine that for woman the same applies.

If we are just talking about bringing a partne to orgasm by masturbation women are much better at that with a male partner than males are with a female.

I think if you talk about your biggest wishes and your partner knows them, then he/she can really fulfil them excellent. My experience is very positive. I prefer to have it done by a hot girl... to do it myself is only ok if there is no other chance.

I think that men can masturbate women better and more easily. I find it very uncomfortable for my girlfriend to be masturbating me in whatever position, and cannot get anywhere near orgasm. I think it is because I know exactly what I want when doing it to myself, so when someone else does it and the feelings are not the same then it is wrong. I can normally solicit an orgasm by masturbating a girl though, usually through a combination of clitoral stimulation and at least playing with the vaginal opening if not actually penetrating with a finger.

I would like express my idea. masturbation is provided by yourself (doesen't matter the sex) if somebody else get in touch with your genitals, then in my opinion is not masturbation. we can call this aciton hand job, foot job, blow job eating pussy and so on but not masturbation. i remember the priest who asked me "did you touch down there? did you get pleasure? that's masturbation

I have had both sexes beat me off and my experience is that a man does a better job than a woman, but having another person do it for you is better than doing it yourself.

Only had it done by myself and a guy so dont think im able to comment

Well... if you communicate with your partner and are the type that shares info, then you should both be as good !

If the woman is relaxed, or if she wants to orgasm, I can generally bring her to multiple (sometimes violent) orgasm through the techniques I use. She has to be pretty open-minded, though, because the g-spot, anal play, and all the other erogenous zones come into it.

Well, as a man, I have been masturbated by a woman, and I have also masturbated a woman. I would say has more to do with your individual partner's experience.

My gf loves to masturbate me while I am masturbating, so there are 4 hands on my legs, penis and testicles. I love that. Anyone else do that?

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masturbation is provided by yourself (doesen't matter the sex) if somebody else get in touch with your genitals, then in my opinion is not masturbation.

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I don't want to be picky, but I agree with lasinodoro. I've always thought that masturbation is when you're stimulating yourself. If another person is involved, then it's technically not masturbation. Even "mutual masturbation" should really be called something else.

But yes, I like it when I stimulate myself, and like it even more when someone else is there to help.

^^^^ If you are manipulating your genitals or someone else's, it is masturbating whether you are doing it alone, to yourself in a group or to someone else. Look it up in the dictionary. A word means what it means, not what you want it to mean.

Penis in vagina is the ONLY way to "have sex." Anything else (oral, anal, breasts) even though it is known as oral sex, anal sex or titfucking) is masturbating. You're just using another NON-sex organ to have pleasure.

"Sex" is a procreative activity (even though it can be fun and can give pleasure), you can prevent it with a condom or other, but you'll never make a baby cumming in your hand or someone's anus, mouth or between their breasts.

Http://www.merriam-webster.com/netdict/masturbation

Main Entry: mas·tur·ba·tion

Pronunciation: \ˌmas-tər-ˈbā-shən\

Function: noun

Date: 1603

: erotic stimulation especially of one's own genital organs commonly resulting in orgasm and achieved by manual or other bodily contact exclusive of sexual intercourse, by instrumental manipulation, occasionally by sexual fantasies, or by various combinations of these agencies

I think women are better at masterbating a man...

Take the word apart people .

masturbation doing it to your self

and

masturbated is somebody else doing it to you .

always feels better when someone else does it to me !.

and i dont mind who is doing it to me a male or a female

but it is true only a man knows what a man likes

and

only a woman knows what a woman likes

There is a link to brittanica on the merriam page that JimmyJohnson posted,

http://www.britannica.com/EBchecked/topic/368818/masturbation

you get....

manipulation of the genital organs for pleasure, usually to orgasm. The term masturbation generally connotes self-manipulation, [font=courier] but it can also be used to describe manipulation of or by a sexual partner[/font] , exclusive of sexual intercourse. Once the object of extravagant superstitions and severe taboos, masturbation by adults was frowned upon in the majority of premodern societies.

I think it depends , i have had a women who does a massage with a release at the end and it is the best orgasm every ,mind you she did a prostate massage before the release so that does help with amount of sperm released and my wife has done the prostate massage on me but her hand release does not compare but it still is satisfying

My girlfriend masturbates me quite well but refused to touch herself, whether when she's alone or with me. She's very into me masturbating her and into watching me masturbate, but she says she simply doesn't want to touch her own clitoris. Strange, in the all the time we've been together, I've not noticed any sexual hangups except this one.

I am better at my wife than vice-versa, but then again, I'm hard to "get off" and I have had a lot of anatomy classes. And I use my knowledge of her innervation to do it "just right". I've certainly learned that a lighter touch brings better results than a heavy one (sometimes I get passionate and forget; that's the default-male in me coming out).

My wife tells me that she's been told science-types can be great lovers because they experiment until they find a solution, then repeat.

She tries really hard on me, but can't get me off by herself. I can get her off with my hands over and over until she begs me to stop. I long for the day that she can do that to me, but I think the problem is me, not her. I've tried to show her how, and she is much better now, but still does not quite have it.

But if we do me together, and she slips a finger down to my anus...wow, my head nearly flies off.

Easy peasy to get my husband off! Now when it comes to me and the times he's tried...well let's just say he needs to go take anatomy class!!!

My wife is a tough case but she says she cant come vaginally. SO I have become "great at it"! First she has to be in the right state of mind and not overly stressed. Then the best touch is barely there. She likes me to start by massaging her clit from outside the labia.

As much as I love my wife, she is horrible at masterbating me. On the other hand, I can get her off in ten minutes or less. I guess we wil just have to keep practicing... 😃

There is no real who is the better masturbator. I think everyone has their own unique way of doing it. Though something fun I would highly recommend everyone trying....masturbate with gloves on. Or have your partner put gloves on. It is such an amazing feeling!! 😄 I love doing it to myself. 😄 And of course done to me. 😉

How do you measure that? I can masturbate my wife in 30 seconds with the right toy, a little longer with my hand, and almost instantly with my mouth (if that counts.) She takes at least a minute to do me. Therefore men are better. No, wait. My sample size is a little too small.

My ex fiancé would masturbate me but wasn't really good at it. But I have never had a problem with another woman masturbating me. Women just seem to know how to touch each other.

The vast majority of handjobs, and even blowjobs I've received have been straight up horrendous. The last four girlfriends, in their 40's had no idea what they were doing. It's like most of them don't want to put in the effort to learn anything, or admit they need to do so.

By contrast, by paying attention, looking and listening for clues and reading plenty of filth here on Zity, I've become a clitoral whisperer with the current female companion unit using hands, tongue and of course dick.