Why Do You Use Enemas?

We played around with them a little in foreplay, and it's not like they didn't work, but a little over a year ago, I told him that the next time we do that he has to be the receiver. Since I said that the silence on the subject of foreplay enemas has been deafening. He has not said anything about enemas at any level since.

I don't blame the guy. I absolutely hate them but giving them is a whole different story. If you like them and he doesn't you are missing the opportunity to fulfill your fantasy, not his.

I don't blame the guy. I absolutely hate them but giving them is a whole different story. If you like them and he doesn't you are missing the opportunity to fulfill your fantasy, not his.

Moppy,

Also see my other post a few minutes ago (Best enema you ever had..........) - what exactly is it that you like so much about giving women enemas? I love both ways, but mostly receiving.

Eric

I enjoy the insertion of the lubricated nozzle, the squeezing of the bulb syringe or the Higgenson syringe injecting the crampy enema solution through my anus into the rectum and colon. I don't want the crampy enema but I know I have no choice as my girlfriend fills me up. She uses a short children's enema nozzle or a douche nozzle inserted just far enough into my anus so that the enema doesn't flow out and presses my buttocks tightly around the hose if she uses the Higgie. The enema is warm, but what she added is starting to give me cramps. I feel very full when she tells me that all the enema is inside me. I enjoyed feeling the squirting of the enema through my anus as she squeezed the bulb, but now I have to retain the enema that wants to gush out of me until she tells me that I can go. She inserts a vibrator into my anus which plugs it up and gives me pleasure even as the painful cramps make me want to go. She controls the variety of pulsing vibrations that the vibrator makes inside my anus. I feel the vibrations through my prostate. She prolongs my painful pleasure until I finally ejaculate without ever touching myself. I feel the vibrations as I walk to the toilet and squat over it to let her remove the vibrator. Relief at last as the enema gushes out and my, once full colon and rectum, empties out. My girlfriend makes me constipated on occasion and then controls my BM and makes me expel it using crampy enemas just like my mother and sisters did as I was growing up. I loved and hated the enemas but thoroughly enjoyed them and still do.

Just the way it feels those first few hours after I am completely cleared out.

The sensations I feel from a really good enema are like being so deeply engrossed in a favorite novel that it's impossible to be thinking of anything else. The warmth and tingles are cleansing my mind when my body is feeling down and out of sorts. An escape from reality, perhaps? Especially these days, I think we all could use an occasional trip to Neverland, even for just an hour or so.

1) they feel very good all the way from anus to far proximal colon or cecum, including distention pressure.

2) having serious ED, an enema is strong stimulation for my aging orgasms.

Eric

I enjoy the sensations of the enema as well as the preparation. They are pleasure and sexually arousing.

An escape from reality, perhaps? Especially these days, I think we all could use an occasional trip to Neverland, even for just an hour or so.

Amen to that!

One of the great unresolved mysteries of life. Short answer, Why Not!

One of the great unresolved mysteries of life. Short answer, Why Not!

Nope. Disagree. Easy answer. See my #255 below. Same answer last 50 years, even before ED happened.

Eric

In the past year, I think I have reached for my enema bag for stress relief more than any other reason. It's simply nice to get lost in a couple of hours of enema bliss and forget all of the negativity that seems to permeate almost every facet of life these days. From the nastiness of national politics to the recitation of the latest grim pandemic statistics, we all need a break and a pleasant diversion. For me, an enema session is that personal diversion that keeps things on track. Plus,it's not as injurious as abusing alcohol or drugs. And it feels good, too!

Have fun and play safe!

Deb

Such an interesting question for a klismophile to try and answer. As background, I became hooked on enemas as a small child. After my first enema, which was a surprise, I found that I enjoyed the feeling of the rectal nozzle in my anus and the hot soapy water flooding my intestines. I am not sure I enjoyed the cramps caused by the soapy water as a child, but I learned that those cramps were the way my bowel was working to push out the poop that would not come out without the enema. So, my primary motivation for taking enemas is to keep my IBS-C under control because laxatives do not do the job.

It wasn’t enemas that I got hooked on, it was anal stimulation. Enemas happened to be, one of several means of anal stimulation. As far back as I can remember, someone was always putting a thermometer, finger, or enema nozzle in my anus. As a child, less than five years old, I knew that it felt good. My two siblings were no different than me, they liked anal stimulation as well. My sister being more anal erotic, than either my brother or I. The older we got, the better it felt, the more we liked it. Even light to mild cramps felt good in a strange way, only the strong cramps felt bad and were disliked.

It wasn’t enemas that I got hooked on, it was anal stimulation. Enemas happened to be, one of several means of anal stimulation.

Enemas didn’t make my anal fixation, I was just wired that way. They were the earliest anal stimulation I recall. Don’t ever remember getting a RT, but I’m sure I did before I turned three. I do enemas occasionally by myself for both the stimulation and to relax. My wife and I found LOTS of other ways to enjoy anal play!

@gwhap said,

Don’t ever remember getting a RT, but I’m sure I did before I turned three.

My siblings an I got rectal temperatures until age ten at home and the doctors office. Whenever we had a doctors appointment, most of the time, mom gave us an enema beforehand. The nurse always ask mom, had we had our enemas? If she responded negatively, the nurse first took our temperature rectally then gave us an enema before we saw the doctor. Best I recall, around age eight, the doctor started doing digital rectal exams whenever we saw the him, be it at home or in his office. Home visits were made only when one of us was sick and stopped around age ten, along with rectal temperatures an enemas beforehand. The only thing that continued was digital rectal exams. I can also recall, over hearing the doctor during home visits, telling mom to do digital rectal exams, if she thought we were feeling bad, moody, complained of a tummy ache, or hadn’t been to the bathroom in a couple of days.

I was born with a bad stomach, when I was young, before i could remember, I had to drink a glass of prune juice every day. if I didn’t I received an enema from mom. As I got older mom just stopped, at that point I started giving them to myself.when I got to collage found people to give & receive enemas with. College was a great time of my life. Now I am 72 years old Enemas. Don”t. Work the way they used to. In my twenties two a week was sufficient, they always worked.

There is just something special about the experience of an enema. It’s all so sensual. Stimulating the sensitive nerves around the anus. Feeling the warm sensation of the liquid filling my colon. The pressure build up as I fill. Fighting the urge as I retain a large enemy. Then the release of expulsion. All this coupled with my overall nudity is so thoroughly exciting!

If anyone has any information that could help my stomach not be swollen and full of gas.

Why wouldn’t you want to do a enema. The feeling of being full. The cramps. The feeling of lightness after a good expel. And just loving a enema because it’s a enema.

I got enemas on a regular basis starting at pre-school age right thru my junior high years. My treatments always involved very soapy mixtures and strong, soapy expulsions that sometimes result in a tender red, inflamed butt hole. Recognizing and responding to the problem, my care-giver began insuring that my anus and rectum were extensively lubricated, not just once, but numerous times during each of the weekly bowel cleansing sessions. With her well-greased finger sliding up inside my butt several times in the course of a long morning or afternoon together in the bathroom, I was awakened to the joys and pleasures of anal stimulation. Enemas became a bittersweet event for me because they were administered large, soapy and often crampy and, of course, always in the nude...but one that I secretly looked forward to because I loved practically everything involved....especially my "lube jobs".

In the beginning, it was like enjoying forbidden fruit. I got enemas regularly, at least until I was about seven years old. But over time, my gut began to function better, and my parents made enemas less and less frequent. Around the age of 8, I took control of things. In the medical encyclopedia, I researched all the details that needed to be done, took an enema from the bathroom cabinet (which was always there), mixed relatively strong soapy water, smeared the nozzle with sour cream butter (I didn't know where to find Vaseline) and slowly poured the contents into my bottom. Waiting for the urge to go to the toilet, I enjoyed both the heat wave and the hidden prank. Why hide? I can't even answer. Apparently, in my subconscious, early sexuality is already in vogue, which was not something that children in the seventies should boast and demonstrate to others. It continued for a few more years, until I accidentally recovered my first (anal) orgasm during another enema. Needless to say, I didn't understand what was happening to me for quite some time, but the feelings were very pleasant. I started making enema series because I knew that only during the third or fourth enema would those sweet sensations of numbness in the genitals come. Later I also learned to "help myself with the other hand". Even later I got to know many different additives and devices. Now the enema serves me both for sexual entertainment and for relaxing after a hard week of work with a liter of quality coffee. Well, of course, I learned to do it and offer it to interesting women. But that's another story.

Enemas have to be part of a total package for me and I find myself taking them only as a part of the submissive side to me. It means an incredibly embarrassing, vulnerable time as I let myself receive from a top partner. There is just something about allowing that level of exposure to places no one else gets to see! I’d say it is more of an emotional need rather than a physical need for me even.

I agree with AnnG. Enemas are so humiliating, they can only be done with people in control who I trust. I have to have complete faith in the person giving it to me. It is just too psychologically dangerous to do otherwise.

My wife and I find enemas to be an intimate, loving time. Far from dominating, it is bonding for us. Also they are sexual in nature.

We share all parts of enemas, giving, getting, filling, relieving. The whole experience is the closest form of intimacy. 🌹

I am in total agreement with debgurl in #260. During these days of political unrest and Covid, there is nothing better than spending time with the bag (and maybe the vibrator). At least nobody is telling me I have to wear a mask while filling my belly with the warmth I crave. I always feel better after a leisurely enema regardless of what is going on around us.

Just because they feel so damn good and they turn me on!!!

Q :Why do i use enemas?

A: i don't know how to enjoy life with them 😞

An enema a day keeps the doctor away!!

If you want to know why you use enemas, stop using them a couple of days and report how you feel. Personally, I don't need the flatus, headaches and the miserable, depressed crude mood that a missed enema causes! I always get a psycological lift from an enema. If one enema feels good, go have a colonic and feel great! Either an enema or colonic fill that will make my/your day!

I use enemas when I can because I like them; I like everything about them. They get me aroused. Evan the word enema turns me on. I like the enema nozzle going in, the feel of the enema nozzle as it is in my rectum and the warm enema is filling me up. I even like the expulsion and that wave of good nausea I often get when expelling. I like the clean empty feeling after I have takes several soapsuds enemas and a couple of rinse enemas. I have had several colonics some years ago and they give me that clean empty feeling, but I prefer to take or be given enemas. I say enemas because I can never just take one enema and stop. They are just too much fun and give me such good feelings.

It's the pent-up bowel feeling that triggers the need for one. Whether I am suffering from chronic constipation or if I just want that clean fresh feeling, this often triggers the horny feelings developing in my backside and all over and soon I will have to act on it.