How do I get my girlfriend interested?

Basically, my girlfriend is already well aware of many of my different fetishes, and there are quite a few that are considered 'odd' by the average person, but diaper fetish is proving to be the most strange for me. i don't remember how she first found out about it, but that's irrelevant now anyway.

basically, i keep implying that i want to buy some diapers and she keeps saying okay, sure, do it. but i have the feeling that it will be awkward. last night, she called me a weirdo when i mentioned it. i don't want her to think i'm a weirdo, we're getting married next year and i don't want this to ruin our relationship.

i personally think she'd make a great mummy. she's caring, supportive and she babies me anyway, even if i'm not dressed in cute clothes. she does everything for me and i love her to bits.

how can i get her to accept this and participate in it? what if it turns out to be a total disaster? how did you guys work around it with your partners?

I personally think, that if you have any doubt in your mind about making that big step to marriage, there's something wrong. I think you and your partner should have an understanding going into something big like that.

If you want to be with someone who will participate in your fetish; and all you gotta make sure your on the same page. Don't make a mistake; and brush it in the corner, and than have the marriage broken off couple months or years later because you aren't on the same page..

Either she is comfortable with it 100% none of this "Weirdo" stuff; or she's not.. It can't be "Im sorta ok with it" "Im okay with it as long as I don't have to be involved" could be an answer but is that the answer you want?

Seriously think about this. Marriage is supposed to be forever!!!

Happiness forever...

I sure hope things work out for you and your partner. Anything is possible she may need time to get used to it. Either way. Make sure you know what your doing. 😃

LOL snow are you comfortable with your man in diapers ?? gosh i hope so or im gonna be a lonely boy the rest of my life LOL!!! once you snow you never go back isnt that what they say??? ???

I basically agree with Snowy, with one question: was that wierdo as in "Ick - what a wierdo!" or wierdo as in "I love you, you wierdo!"

In romance, it cane be wise to remember how things were said, rather than concentrate on exactly what words were said.

Getting her to accept it is different from getting her to participate. If it's not her thing, it just... isn't. It might take her some time to fully accept this part of your life, and it's natural for others to be hesitant to try something they don't know about. Don't worry about her joining you in on the fun until you're sure she's comfortable enough to accept it first.

Hey there Bee, we don't know a lot about you but the advice so far is good. I also think that if you decide to show up with a diaper on for a date have one for her just in case she wants to try it. It might be better to show up with a package and then encourage each other to try one on just for fun. For heavens sake don't use it on the first date unless she dares you. Little steps, lots of time. Best of all, 2b

I belive what every one else says it is true if you realy are ready to take that big step then how hard would the little step be i told my girl and we are engaged she said you can do it just dont bring her into it. Just relise her comfort level and never push it on her if she loves you and ecepts you enough to take that big step then the lil one should be no problem

My wife loves to wear diapers and to change me

My wife is the same way. She accepts that i have a diaper fetish but at the same time she hates it. She will mention it every once and a while and ask me to diaper her but those moments are far and few between.

Just be yourself. You may have to be discrete for a while.

Be patient.