Pain or pleasure

What is the erotic aspect of enemas is it the pain or the pleasure

Only pleasure with vintage equipment.

Only pleasure slow large very relaxing

Pain is not a part of it at all unless you consider the insertion of a large nozzle to be painful (I don't). The pleasure is driven by different things for different people. For me it is the exposure of a bare butt and the anticipation of the unknown and being a bit naughty.

It is all about the pleasure. There is pleasure from getting the equipment ready and filling the bulbs or bags. Pleasure from the nozzle going in, be it big or small (I use a catheter fr26 30 cc). By that time I am having small orgasms and dripping, it so much pleasure. The worm filling of the liquid first hitting your insides adds to the pleasure. Pleasure keeps growing as the liquid slowly fills the colon and adds pressure to the prostate making the dripping turn to a small stream. I take from 5 to 7 Qt. So the pressure reaches the point of some pain. However with only a touch the pain is over came by the pleasure of orgasm.

The only pain I experiance is from those who try to call me on the phone while I'm given myself an enema,now that's a real pain in the ass.The pleasure is the whole process of the enema from the prep of the solutions and the selection of the various pieces of equipment to be used for the night.The end result is a relaxing,pleasurable forefilling experiance.Let the good times flow. w/m 72yrs/W.MA

I give enemas for both reasons. I give him some just for the pleasure that he will feel as he is filled by his Misstress. The pleasure that he will feel when I allow him to have my pussy to fill while he is receiving his enema.

I give enemas for the pain (with soap, lemon juice, milk, or Fleets) when I want to know he is in "pain". I can enjoy it verrrry much when I hear him moan from cramps or bloating that he was forced to take for my pleasure first and foremost.

For me pleasure

For me it's all about the mystique!

There's something sinister and alluring about the whole thing, and that's what makes it pleasurable; a massive stomach cramp isn't what I want, I can get much more turned on by the "touch".

If I wanted a bad stomach cramp, I'd ask my wife to hit me real hard in the belly; but administering an enema carries so much more that strikes a person's sense of fear, uneasiness, humiliation, helplessness, at the same time combined with operative words like care, control, distance, detachment...intimacy...a dizzying sense of release and submission...heck, let me go get a dictionary and thesaurus! I think you all know what I'm trying to say.

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I will give my partner a large enema as a punishment and make him hold it with a butt plug in his rectum while he s getting a spanking for bad behavior ..he loves it

For me, it's pleasure to have my gf or other female submit to me. I, also, had a gf that wanted a butt plug and spanking after her enema. That was a real turn on for me because she totally submitted everything to my will.

Depends on what kind of mood I'm in....If I feel like giving myself a painful one I would go for the M&M one or the baking soda and lemon juice...If I feel like a pleasure one it's a slow four or five quart one laying on my back with a double balloon rectal catheter in and the flow on slow.....

For me its the pain. I love a large enema with a double balloon rectal catheter and being filled so much i look like im pregnant and then he wont let me expel it till he is ready. Also love the kind that make me cramp really hard,

Rikki

There is no pain. The pleasure begins with the thought of an enema.

To me, it's all about the pleasure!

I absolutely love having the house to myself for an extended period of time and enjoying a nice slow 4 quart enema with my trusty double balloon rectal catheter! Low lights, soft towels and a little soft music put me in the mood to enjoy the sensations that a well administered enema gives. The little tingling feelings that are so hard to describe that only come from enema play. The fullness that isn't painful, yet you know it's there. The relaxation that comes when you hear the gurgle from the last of the solution emptying from the bag. And finally, the stress relief that ultimately comes, either spontaneously or with a few few flicks of a lubricated finger.

All of these things are the ingredients to a magical afternoon!

Deb

I loce the feel of the nozzle as it goes into my rectum. Most of the time I keep inserting and removing it many times. It helps to relax me and get me ready for the water to flow.

Ememas should be for pleasure not pain.

Pleasure is what I receive from the thought, preparation, inserting and starting

the solution flow. I enjoy all aspects.

The cramping is erotic pain for me.....so basically it is all pleasure!

I enjoy the pleasure of an enema. The painful cramps I avoid mostly by not having anything in my enema water. I do not enjoy cramps. I go solo so I get to decide. I enjoy the thinking about the whole enema from start to finish. I like the thinking how, when and where as part of the pleasure of the enema. I do not like the pain and therefore I do not like strong enemas. Pain is not sexy for me.

Im with you Fanny. The anticipation is most important for me. It matters not if I am going solo or with my GF as the giver. I want to think about it or be told about it in detail before it happens. Preparing the place, readying the equipment, mixing the solution, and all that is soooo erotic to me. Taking a long time to get the nozzle inserted, removed and reinserted and such just makes it that much better. If not solo waiting to hear the click is great. I can tolerate some mild soap but never do any hot mixtures. I did one by mistake once and that ruined the pleasure for me.

Vicki

Does it have to be one or the other? 😃

I detest cramps. I like warm water with a little salt and ususal I give myself an enema after one BM. I want comfort during an enema not pain. and when i didn't go solo that is the way it was when my lover me enemas.

For me, when I am alone, it is all about the pleasure. BUT, in an S&M scene it is about both pleasure and pain, which can be physical and/or emotional. The enema can be used as punishment or to just be annoying at times, like when I gave my husband a one pint enema and then told him to hold it and get dressed because we were going to the liquor store while staying at a hotel on a trip in NYC. He had to hold it for an hour while we walked around the city. It wasn't a big enema, but he had to be careful not to lose it. An enema can also be good to hold while being spanked. The danger of leaking or worse, spraying during the spanking makes it very exciting. I've been on both ends of the paddle on this, so I know what it's like. Sometimes an enema is part of a reward for being a good submissive. When I have been a good submissive, my husband sometimes gives me a slow warm 2 quart enema with a double balloon rectal catheter and orals me to an orgasm. I get excited just thinking about that. The pleasure and pain of an enema really depends on the technique of the giver as well as your point of view as the receiver.

Indeed, the full feeling of the enema and the urge to evacuate are both pleasant. But the pain of cramps when the urge becomes a (perhaps forbidden) necessity is great as well -- whether with yourself our seeing it in another. All part of the pleasure of sex even if doing it to yourself although it's usually better with another. So pain and pleasure -- all part of a really good time. And the enema is a very large part of it!

It's all about pleasure for me. I agree with Viki, the insertion of a very large nozzle feels great and then the anticipation before the flow starts.

Came home from work and was supprised with 2 big enemas. Fun and relaxing.What a way to end a good day.

For me some pain :'( is just part of the pleasure 😃

Chalet

Definitely pleasure. The relaxation during and after an enema. The clean feeling of a good cleansing enema. The "feel good" feeling of a recreational enema. Okay, sometimes there are a couple of cramps involved, but I am not into major cramping for the fun of it and never use a solution that has a purpose of inducing cramping. I use cramps as a signal. Cramps may tell me to slow down, maybe even stop for a few minutes to let my body adjust to the volume. Cramps during retention tell me its time to expel.

Pleasure and relax.

I agree...no pain...pleasure and relaxing