An Offer of Encouragement --and Apology

Arianna's post of a few days ago made me think that perhaps some of my posts and replies were a bit smug or hurtful to some---

Please understand that my struggle has been long and difficult and that I have only recently begun to be at ease with myself and life

I just want to offer encouragement--a little solace--even some cheer to those who are at an early stage

I have a Scottish friend who uses enemas and she told me once--"life is supposed to be fun"---it doesn't matter--enjoy without guilt--

offering respect for feelings

Badger

Hey Badger, not exactly sure what's behind the apology, but it takes a big person to write something like this.

That's one thing I like about this website....I've noticed over and over that folks are NICE here and not looking to start fights, form cliques, etc. I was on one adult website that got virtually destroyed because of backstabbing from a few people.

I think most of us have "long difficult struggles" of some sort in our lives, so while we all gotta struggle with those struggles, it's nice to have somewhere fun like this to visit. AND enjoy talk about our fantasies and practices!

Hugs to you, badger, Sandra 😘

Thank you Sandra

I agree about this place--thats why it is growing rapidly I think

badger

Is this where we say in our lighthearted manner to "take two enemas and call me in the morning" kind of thing?

Glad things are going better for you.

You're never truly alone here - there are many, many good people on this site.

Peace!

I truly understand what Badger is talking about because I was one of those who replied to Arianna's post.The post describes Arianna's guilt with exposing the feelings of enjoying enemas with those who are close to her.My responts was not to be ashamed if you enjoy enemas,and not to worry what others think.Perhaps my reply was a little blunt and should have been more sensitive.Enemas in my life were much more open because of the twelve years I spent in a childrens hospital.However I now realize some people need more time to go through a process of accepting who they are and the enjoyment of enemas.I hope I have this right.Let the good times flow. w/m 72yrs /W.MA

Hi Badger and Twobagger,

I think both of you are talking about the "enema fears" post? Both of you are true gentlemen...but no apologies are necessary! Many of us on this site are at different levels - whether it is personal acceptance of our "fetish", openness with others about our interests, etc. That is one of the benefits of this wonderful forum and why I actively participate - we share information and views, with a healthy understanding that not everyone is going to agree or have the same experiences/opinions.

Arianna

I concur with the comments, and have been most impresed by the level of converstion I've seen on this site. It's been a terrific outlet for me personally, primarily from the perspective that I've had to enjoy my enema fantasy's stictly in private for years before finding this site. We're all social creatures, me included, and I enjoy having an outlet to be able to express my own thoughts on various topics surrounding my own enema fetish and experiences. Definately, a "class" group of folks on this site.

I'm sure many of us have at one point in time replied to a post that when read by others may have seemed insensitive or harsh but wasn't the intent of the poster.I know I have.Because we can't discern the true meaning of words written without hearing tones of voices or see our faces,we tend to take the wrong meaning away from the post and say something hurtful back or write something not intended to upset the member.You have to guess how your words will impact the others on here without knowing them personally which is hard at best!There are so many personalities here so we run the risk of saying something wrong without realizing it.I'm sure no one here purposefully wants to upset anyone so trying to make amends is important if we want to keep this site a success!

As always you hit it on the spot, Girl. Its funny though, just say the word "enema" in mixed company and watch/listen how ALL conversation comes to a stop!

Oh well, WTFO.

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