I love it that I have found this place where things can be so openly talked about.
I only had one friend that I could talk to about it and I introduced him to the topic.
We both liked water sports and we played a lot in the bath tub/shower.
One night while we were playing and the shower was running, I impulsively unscrewed the showehead from the hose (I had one of those shower-head attachments) and playfully started to squirt us. He was on top at the moment so I took the moment to sneak the hose up to his ass. It wasn't long enough to penetrate but the pressure of the water was enough to force it's way in.
To this day I remember the expression on his face! :-) His eyes opened wider than I have ever seen them. He gasped and then the biggest grin I ever saw spread across his face. I only gave him a couple of seconds, but that was enough. The sensation of the water forcing it's way into him converted him.
After that I felt free to talk to him.
We rarely played together again as years of smoking had given him lung cancer as I found out later.
He passed, sadly. But his friends and I had the most raucous funeral service I ever heard of (I want mine to be that way!!!) :-)
I would like to find another enemate. Talking is fine but nothing is better than giving and gettin! :-)