Getting Hubby involved.

After my last complicated pregnancy, i had to start wearing diapers at night. I have started to like it, and when husband isn't around, I wear them all day. I would love it if he could chanage me, and enjoy it all with me. He is very staight laced, any suggestions on how to tell him I am enjoying the diapers?

Well this is tough mom. but i would suggest you get a lil playfull one night and keep the diaper on you while doing so.

then when hes ready tell him honey you take it off of me like a present your opening and come and get your present!!! this would make any man wild with passion. but beofre he gets to far just say to him when your done big daddy with your lil girl you need to put my diaper back on and show me you care !!! he will get the hint and diaper you after im sure.

now the next day after all this tell him you got so excited with him diapering you and caring for you like that you would let him change you anytime. this makes the man feel like hes done good and that makes him proud !!! tell him anytime you want your lil girl in the room to come and open his present . after a while he will realize this is good foreplay for the two of you. i know i would go nuts with passion shoulld a girl say come and open your present . but im kind abiased on this sooooooo, take it for what its worth

My fiancée is pregnant with our first, whilst I wouldn't wish your complications on her it would be great if she needed to wear diapers and like you grew to enjoy them!

I don't know how you could tell him, I'm facing the same dilema telling my fiancée, it's so difficult. Hopefully just dropping a few random hints here and there and some good timing could work for the both of us! Good luck!

I like mamasboy's advice on how to tell hubby you like them now, it would work for me. Again, however, I am biased but since he knows you wear them at night any way, it wouldn't hurt to get ready for bed a little early and then get playful. Kudos on that advice MB. Tim, you're in a tougher spot. Maybe you could say you are going to be jealous of the baby getting all that sweet attention in those cuddly soft diapers and see if she takes the hint. Or since this is pre-baby still you could maybe volunteer your services for her to practice on and then ask if she would return the favor and let you practice on her. It could work, good luck.

Well, I think most of the work is already done. You're already married, and he's aware that you wear diapers. It may not take too much to explain to him that you like them, but start out small. Talk about how they're soft and comfortable, and just keep going on about what you like about them.

The idea is to put it in his mind (slowly, I must add) that this is something that can offer joy and excitement to his wife. It might bring you two a lot closer.

I absoluteley agree. Diapered loving spouses are made, not found. I would gladly welcome that in my life, all that added intimacy! Tell him you need em, and youve grown to enjoy them.

I love to have sex on a diaper, and then tape my woman back up into it, without cleaning off any of our fluids, so shes soaked in it. She loves it. Maybe your husband would like doing the same, marking you with his essence? Tell him how hot that idea is, see if he cant find his way to give that a try....

I have never had a medical need for diapers. I have always just loved diapers and wish that my husband would want me to wear them all the time. We have talked about it a few times and he says that he has this mental thing that when I am wearing diapers that it is like he is doing something wrong. I told him that's not the way that I want him to look at it. I want him to look at it like you are putting me in a modern day chastity belt and its like you are sealing me in my diapers to keep me safe and secure for only you. He said ok but he has yet to do it. I just don't know what else to do. I guess I will continue to wear my diapers in secret and maybe one day they will have to be a part of my daily life.

In my experience, if they truly love you, they'll be willing to do anything for you, even happily in many instances. Just be careful, if they don't like it and do it just for you, ask them to join in moderation. Don't make it too much of a habit if it's something they 'put up with.' If they enjoy it because it makes you happy and don't mind, then I'd still play it safe and just do it in moderation. Only unless they feel the exact same way you do about it should you do it really often.

You have a very good start.

as long as you need to wear diapers at night, just tell him you feel it's good for you to wear also during the day.

after some time, ask him to help you get in the diaper.

do it in steps, you may ask him one day to change the diaper for you.

you may never know.

Barb was just married to Joe and he had no idea of Barb's love of diapers. Barb told him she had a very bad bladder infection, and needed to wear protection for a few days. Joe not ever being around women before other than his mother thought this was just a normal thing for girls. Plus he was too shy to ask anyone about it. Barb started cruising around the house when they were alone in a t-shirt and a Bambino Diaper. Joe could not keep his hands off of her, can't blame him she has a great body. By the third day the two of them were in diapers together and having a blast changing each other. Joe is now a full member of our little Saturday Night Group. Barb you bad girl taking advantage of a younger man like that. 😎

I think honesty is still the best policy. Some playtime in bed together is always a good way of getting a person involved. There are a lot of Hubbies that give there sexual loved ones a lot more than just dry diapers at changing time. Have fun with it.

My ex girlfriend, borke up over other reasons, and I were into diapers. I got her hooked. I kind of set her up. I had her drink a few beers after dinner and then we had gone upstairs for some intimacy. Now her and I were into prolonged bondage. After I had her all tied and bound, I put a diaper on her. And left her alone for the night. The next morning she wasn't upset at all. She admitted to me that it was great not having control of anything. We then began diapers as a public bondage for the both of us. If this helps, I don't know, but if u can do something like this then go for it. Ever heard of self bondage? Just before he gets home from work, get in a diaper, dress like a little girl, and tie yourself up. Gag yourself if u have one, and leave a note for him. Say that u have been a naughty girl and need to be taken care of. To really give him a shock, mess or at least wet your diaper before he gets there. Hope this helps.

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It is definitely a BAD IDEA and POTENTIALLY DANGEROUS to engage in S&M or bondage when you are under the influence of drugs or alcohol.

Having her drink a few beers as you said, put your ex under the influence. You need education on the topic.

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It is definitely a BAD IDEA and POTENTIALLY DANGEROUS to engage in S&M or bondage when you are under the influence of drugs or alcohol.

Having her drink a few beers as you said, put your ex under the influence. You need education on the topic.

[Good call Susie, drugs and alcohol for diminished capacities is not only dangerous but an insult to your partner's feelings and wishes. Straight up and honest I feel is the way to go, the worst thing then that can happen is they say no. That is a far sight better than ending your relationship.]

I wear diapers, but hubby doesn't know. I have address the subject with him casually but his reaction has never been "OH great lets try it" thus I wear in secret and have for years. I wish I knew the answer as to how to get another person engaged with diapers. I wish I had an answer!

I would start wearing them to bed and discuss it when he asks why you are wearing them.

Jen1234, you could try the old fake bed wetting trick once a week or so. Use a glass of water so you don't stain the mattress. After a couple of times you could suggest wearing diapers to bed.