Enema-love

Why are so many women in the USA so close to give and receive enemas as a wunderful warm vision and reality in sexual freedom and satisfaction,they do enemas often and feel high-arousement by the waterflow

The vast amount of women I have met in enema play aren't into it for an erotic or orgasmic results. I'd say that less than 2% react to sensual feelings. The rest aren't really into it for a sexual feeling.

I have never met a woman who enjoyed enemas for sexual stimulation. Instead the many women that I have given enemas to wanted the trusting closeness and uniquely personal experience. This never stopped me from using a vibrator on them during the third rinse.

I'm just outta luck.

My wife hates them and absolutely dosen't understand my enjoyment of them. I would love to change her mind...

I guess I'm in the minority. The number one reason I am into enemas is for sexual pleasure. I get orgasms from them, nearly every time, even if the original reason I started taking it was nonsexual (i.e., being constipated). My man knows all he has to do to get me in the mood is say the e-word.

I wish my wife would feel the same....I asked her once to give me one as I was in a severe case of constipation and all she did was buy me a fleet and leave me to do my own thing....

I love the feel of an enema but I've never had an orgasm from one. It is a turn on and does lead to other things for me. But an enema in its self does not stimulate enough. Being clean does help make it easier for other things though.

Personally speaking, sexual pleasure is not my primary purpose to enjoy enemas. It is alright when it happens or if it does not. My wife will sometimes ask me to give an enema to her so that she can relax without having to bother with the preparations. In all the 40 plus years of our mariage, she never indicated any pleasure or stimulus from enemas. I think for both of us, enemas can be used to satisfy personal desires or accept whatever happens.

My first wife did not use enemas for sexual stimulation,instead,we shared enemas to enhanced our sex lives. Let the good times FLOW.

May I suggest that for a woman to orgasm while receiving an enema depends as much on foreplay and technique as it does for her to orgasm in a variety of different positions with penile penetration.

Or if I may use a different metaphor, a Formula I racer is built for the rigors of a 200+ mph race on a flat surface, while a military Humvee is intended for low-speed, off-road, high-angle driving. Both vehicles have a driver, fuel, wheels, transmission and an engine but there, the simularities end.

The kind of foreplay that will produce a strong orgasm during enema play is vastly different from that which will produce orgasm from vaginal or clitorral stimulation -- similar in many respects, but it involves different afferent pathways and is much a learned response as it is a natural one.

I have found in 56yrs of enema experinace and talking with females about enemas is this;Females who have experiance enemas at childhood tend to equate enemas with sex just as I do because of my early childhood enemas in the childrens hospital.Females who get into enemas later in life because of boyfriend or marriage will still enjoy the enemas with a partner,but they don't usually take the enemas alone to achieve orgasm.

I never get an orgasm from an enema by itself, but it is part of the complete experience. It is foreplay of a different type. Very pleasurable by itself, but the end result of an orgasm is the result of either a date with Mary Fivefingers, or some actual sexual activity. But an enema certainly speeds things along!

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I have found in 56yrs of enema experinace and talking with females about enemas is this;Females who have experiance enemas at childhood tend to equate enemas with sex just as I do because of my early childhood enemas in the childrens hospital.Females who get into enemas later in life because of boyfriend or marriage will still enjoy the enemas with a partner,but they don't usually take the enemas alone to achieve orgasm.

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I totally agree, that describes me completely. It's a totally bogus assertion that women aren't as stimulated by enemas as men.

One thing is for certain, it's is not accurate to generalise about men and women on any score. Why do any of use like what we like? Preferences are either innate or learned. Enemas are either stimulating or they are not. Give me men and women who are openminded. I enjoy what both have, for sure. Justin

Anne B,

I have had lady friends with all different relationships with enemas. A few who want absolutely nothing to do with them. You couldn't touch them with a ten foot nozzle. A couple who were happy to try them once (for the first time) or twice just for curiosity, and then that was it. Some who have not gotten highly aroused, but sorted like the intimacy and the feeling after evacuation. One who found enemas mildly erotic, and finally a couple for whom they are a great erotic turn on. One of the those two had enemas in childhood and the other had her first one with me in her early 30s. So, I find it very hard to generalize. Different strokes ... our perhaps different squirts.

In GENERAL, Women are more about the stimulation between the ears than men and react to enemas based on how it makes them feel emotionally and sexually. It may feel great but the excitement isn't from a direct PHYSICAL sort of stimulation...I HAVE met a woman though that swears that it is like she has a clit in her ass!!! Males have a prostate and the only good way to access it is via the ass. For most straight men the ONLY experience that they have with the prostate is when they are given enemas or the annual finger wave from their Doctor which is about as exciting, I imagine, as a pap smear. Prior to the last few years, straight men didn't go out seeking anal stimulation because of the "queer" stigma. Anyway, men do actually receive direct PHYSICAL sexual stimulation from an enema. As a male, the above statement is totally based on study of anatomy, personal experience and from discussions with a LOT of very fine Ladies about their experiences. As with most general statements none of it can be applied as a hard and fast rule to individuals.