My girl friend and I had briefly fooled around with a cheap travel squeeze bag as a wine induced different thing to do. That was her first experience with an enema and she simply commented "it was fun." A few days ago when I knew there would be some anal play and that some rinsing out would be in order I decided to take the next step. I hate that stupid little travel bag as it just gets water all over the place and makes a big wet mess. So I went out to my car where I just happened, that day, to have my personal equipment bag with me and I got out a Higginson Syringe and a reasonable nozzle, took a deep breath walked back in her apartment and said to myself..."here goes." I didn't entirely know how she would react. I showed it to her and how it worked and explained how this would be so much better than that cheezy little travel bag that you have to fill up 3 times and to my pleasant surprise....she agreed. What took place was a slow, warm, loving enema over 15 minutes with lots of caressing, nipple sucks, bottom massage, you name it. It was pretty awesome. My purpose in sharing this is to all of those who have had trouble breaking the ice. Go slow and make it loving and pleasant. I know that her personal attitude and willingness to explore had a lot to do with it (my ex-wife would've called me a pervert). It was a really pleasant surprise.