Anticipation and preparation are best

Getting out the enema equipment, setting everything up in the bathroom---full red rubber enema bag on the IV stand, rubber gloves, rectal thermometer, Vaseline, suppositories, toilet paper---all set up for the enema that will soon be filling my colon, or that of the guy i'm administering enemas to!!!

Is there something wrong with me?? Or is it because I have yet to be given an enema by someone,but I don't feel excited about the thought of me giving one to myself. I get more excited and wanting it to be given to me at all times. I just feel I would enjoy more if being administered by someone else, am I a freak?? NOT meaning to criticize of offend anyone, just feel like I am abnormal... 😢

Lillos, I think the majority of us would prefer to take our water from another person. Too often though it is not available so for me solo is the next best thing. I imagine various mature women doing me. Wife will do me rarely but she is not into it and that spoils the episode for me. So as I said, solo with my inventive mental images and or pictures from our gallery.

Is there something wrong with me?? Or is it because I have yet to be given an enema by someone,but I don't feel excited about the thought of me giving one to myself. I get more excited and wanting it to be given to me at all times. I just feel I would enjoy more if being administered by someone else, am I a freak?? NOT meaning to criticize of offend anyone, just feel like I am abnormal... 😢

No doubt being given an enema by another person is the ultimate "surrender"...but as others have said, for many, that's not a possibility. I can say I truly enjoy the enemas I get from my DH, but I also enjoy the ones I self-administer. You're not abnormal at all...you obviously enjoy the submission aspect and that's perfectly OK. However, giving oneself an enema also allows you to experiment to find out just what really "flips your switch" so you can direct your partner the next time!

Nonetheless, have fun!

Deb

The anticipation is a big part of it. While I don't daydream about taking an enema, there is that feeling of excitement when I go to the closet, get out the syringe, and run the water. It's then that the butterflies feeling comes to my stomach. When the bag is full, I've attached the hose, and hung the bag from the towel rack the excitement just continues to build.

EMom -

You're spot on!!!!

In play, I love to "spell it out" to my intended patient. I tell her about the nozzle, how thick it is and how far it will go into her. Then its onto the solution, how much, how hot, how it will feel, will she be able to hold it. By this time she is usually anxious and needs some reassurance. A good hug and a lubricated finger in her bottom goes a long way to relieve anxiety.

Getting her into the "best" position takes some time and explanation and can help to increase her vulnerability which of course increases her anxiety. At this point more hugging and fingering can go a long way to relax her and let her know how the nozzle will feel.

By spelling out things in detail she can anticipate the enema and begin to imagine how it will feel. Usually she asks a lot of questions if this is her first time.

"just the word enema is stimulating to me"

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Some lunch breaks my friend tries to have an intimate conversation with me about enemas when others are close by and could overhear. We contrive never to say the "enema" word or any obvious links.

It's amazing what we manage to discuss.

The moment we are on our own, I get a whisper in my ear "ENEMA, ENEMA,ENEMA" which never fails to get me aroused. Confess, difficult then to focus on my afternoon work !

The anticipation of knowing an enema is planned is arousing from conception to completion. The experience is exciting and always satiating, until the tickle in the brain is awakened again, reviving the desire for the next enema.

Oh Amanda !

Perfectly written.

A wonderful definition of how I have come to re-live the deep passions of enema through anticipation, the performance and the delightful after glow. Soon replaced by an eager wish for time to speed for my next enema date.

I'll usually ask my husband to give me a warm cleansing enema if I'm sick. Even when I have the flu or a touch of irritable bowel when my insides are uncomfortable, I feel the tingling of anticipation of the forthcoming enema when I'm lying in bed. Hubby will begin by placing the tube of lubricant on a towel, along with tissues, on the nightstand beside me. Then he slips a large bath towel under me to protect the sheet. Our bedroom is next to the master bathroom, so I hear the sound of the running water when hubby is filling the syringe and the clink of the metal clamp and glass connector on the side of the sink. I'll hear the open and closing of the clamp as he runs water through the long tube to let out the air. The site of my husband entering the room carrying the full bag wrapped in the tubing and then hanging the syringe on a wall hook above the bed heightens my anticipation. I remember once when he had to take a cell call, and I was lying there several minutes looking up at the bulging enema bag. That's anticipation! Then there's the covers being folded back and being helped onto my side and my nightie of PJ bottoms being pulled down. I don't like being sick, but the enema certainly makes like during an illness more bearable.

I love the preparation as much as I do the enema itself. I make my own soap mix from shavings off a bar of Ivory and that takes a day to get ready. Then the day of, I take some my soap mix (which is very thick) and dilute it down with more water to finish dissolving everything. The final touch is adding the warm water to get it up to temperature and the filling of the bag. I just got a 3 liter barium bag today and am really looking forward to taking that for a test ride this week when I have some time.

BTW..I have yet to have one administered by another person (except for a hospital one a LONG time ago), but I am looking forward to that happening at some point.

Elaine

Mom or aunt telling me when I got home from school I was going to get an enema. WOW

I have always seen a good prep as important.

I never take any enema or laxative on a full stomach. If there is a saline like Epsom Salt or a Fleet enema involved, you need to make sure you intake plenty of water, for at least a couple of hours ahead.

As far as anticipation, some level is unavoidable, and in those last few minutes before I start mixing I do sort of step through it mentally.

Too much anticipation though is NOT a good thing! Don't know about you but I can actually scare myself out of taking one, if I can't clear my mind first.