What does it feel like being in wet / messy diaper?

For me it takes me right back to my childhood when I spent most of my life either wet or messy up until being about 5 years old. My mother had a terrible time getting me out of nappies and said I never complained when I was wet or had messed in them. Even after I came out of nappies and often wet my pants, If no one noticed I didn't care and just continued playing in my wet shorts until either they dried or I wet my self again.

When I became incontinent a few years back, once I got over the initial shock I soon realised being DL was the way to go and have thoroughly enjoyed being wet ever since. Thinking back I can only ever remember complaining once about being wet. I woke up one night having wet the bed and complained to my mother who simply told me to get back in while it was still warm. I did and realised i wasn't so bad. After that I never complained and to be honest never made any attempt to become dry at night. I think my mother inadvertently set me off being the DL I am today. Or was I just born with it and that was a catalyst.

I love the feeling of wetting my diaper. It starts to get warm and heavy and you can see it increasing in size.

This is such a subjective experience that you have to find out for yourself. What someone else tells you is their experience and may not be much like what you experience.

A wet diaper is softer in the wet area, thicker, initially warmer, and heavier.

A messy diaper usually feels like an ever-increasing layer of mashed potato between your butt and the diaper. It also makes the diaper heavier, obviously.

Reading descriptions of wetting/messing is definitely not the same as actually putting on a diaper and wetting or messing in it. And while the feeling of wetting has never been very arousing for me, the feeling of messing my diaper is incomparable, and I don’t feel that words alone can adequately describe the feeling. My advice? Just do it.

You can always try simulating eitherone. A wet diaper clings to you but will get cold. You can increase the heat retention by wearing more clothes and rubber pants. Simulate this by pouring a little warm water in the diaper. Poopy diapers can range from firm poop to squishy diarrhea. For firm poop, decide how full you want the diaper cut up a banana or how ever many you want. Put it in the diaper and put it on. For the diarrhea feeling you can use oatmeal orrefried beans. If you want the in-between feeling soak marshmallows in hot water for 30 minutes. You can either put these directly in the diaper or insert them inside you.

I've only used disposable diapers. I pack them with boosters and it feels like a fluffy cloud around my pelvis. I let my pee into the diaper in short spurts. The letting out of hot pee feels like mini orgasms. After I pee I can't wait for the next time. ??

Words can't describe the feeling of wetting and messing in a diaper. I wear tight boxer shorts to contain the mess - makes cleanup so easy. Then over that go the diapers - all cloth and thick in layers to soak up everything. No leaks. But over it all, plastic bloomers for night time. Devil-may-care, I sleep literally like a baby. In fact as soon as the diapers are in place, I can't stop myself from wetting them. Same for messing, but that's usually in the morning as soon as I get out of bed. On occasions if I take a laxative at bedtime and things happen during the night. Now that's really exciting!

Diaper pooping was definitely, for me, an acquired "taste". I've been into wet diapers pretty much all of my life--doing it myself, fascinated with others who still wore them, loving the smell of wet diapers, etc.

But I didn't really start enjoying pooping them until I was in my 30s. Prior to that I did experiment a bit but didn't really like it much (especially the clean-up). But about the time I was 35, something just seemed to "click". I was going through a rather stressful time and was wearing thick, wet, cloth diapers and realized that I had to poop--and for some reason decided "Oh why not?" and totally loaded my diapers. Only this time, I found that I loved it.

Since then, it's been a regular part of my diaper fun. I don't do it all the time, maybe just once a month. And unless I'm all alone in the house, I usually don't do it in my cloth diapers because it takes too long to clean it up. Instead, I put on a pair of white, nylon wide-crotch panties which contain it all, and over those I wear a pair of adult-sized training pants and plastic panties. Much less to clean up that way.

Now I find that when I poop, the bigger the load, the more fun it is. I'm not able to hold it in for days at a time, so I often experiment with various foods and the addition of fiber with a goal of getting up the next morning, putting on my poop pants, and making a huge early morning mess which I sit in for an hour or two, if possible.

Hello DKN117

I've thought a lot about this reply over the last few days.

The feeling of wetting and messing is so unique that the only way to describe it is incomparable.

I agree with Luv to mess that messing is better than wetting - Its a matter of how secure you feel your diaper is. A diaper will accommodate just about any degree of messing but is too easy to flood with pee and then leak. Don't drink too much.

Mamas boy gives good advice (except for drinking too much). Some suppositories to get you messing will give a taste of this. Diaper up and find a comfy place to sit and surf while things happen.

First thing is to decide on what type of diaper - cloth or disposable - pull up or wrap round. Personally I prefer pull up towelling knickers with plastic pants over.

Next is to decide on laxative or not. A quick acting laxative is best - a slow one or non at all can leave you waiting ages for something to happen. Personally I favour glycerine suppositories. Four of them plus or minus will do nicely.

It's a matter of taking the plunge - yes you'll be nervous but it will be worth it.

Pick a day when your bowels are full and you will have time to yourself.

Choose your comfy chair and protect it. Choose your time and set an alarm.

Diaper yourself and sit down making yourself comfy - and start surfing. So what if you become aroused - your diaper will cope.

When the alarm sounds it is time - go to the rest room and empty your bladder only.

Now, using a latex glove and a dab of cream insert the suppositories into your bottom. A full finger deep. Then readjust your nappy and sit back down.

Your tummy and anus may feel a bit unusual - ignore it and surf some more.

Now make two resolutions - first to sit there until it is all over - second if at any time you have any accidental or deliberate loss of control you will immediately relax your tummy and let whatever happens happen.

Don't worry - it will be a while before anything happens and nothing will be sudden.

After 20 to 30 minutes you'll feel your tummy starting to remind you you the laxative is starting to work. Play with it - let your tummy relax while the urge builds before clenching to control the spasm. You'll be able to do this several times before the laxative begins to induce stronger spasms.

You'll probably feel aroused to - it is perfectly alright to stroke yourself through your diaper. Being aroused will help your bowel control.

Soon now you'll be becoming desperate. Maybe you will have a small escape from your bottom into your diaper - maybe you will decide enough is enough. Either way it is time to let your tummy relax. It is perfectly normal to have a moments panic as you relax and the pressure on the inside of your anus grows. Concentrate on being relaxed.

Then as the spasm takes hold you will begin to mess yourself. Don't worry if it takes more than one spasm to empty you - just stay relaxed.

At some time as you mess yourself you will become aware of a warm glow in the crotch of your diaper. Without any effort you have started to wet yourself too.

That's what it feels like - but you have to experience it first hand to get the greatest enjoyment!!!

Nappiednow

Lately I'm pretty much diapered for pleasure all the time. In the evening I would put on a thick disposable and first thing in bed empty my bladder in it then go to sleep. In the middle of the night, I often need to pee again, so I just do it without moving. If my bed gets wet, it's OK as I have a plastic sheet to protect my mattress. It is usually early morning that the urge to poop comes, my best moment. I don't resist, but let it all come out. I would stay messy for breakfast doing my best to avoid poop getting up in the back by pushing it through my diaper between my legs. Often I would end up masturbating, my cock already pretty messy. Many of you seem to have a problem washing up when the fun is over. What I do is fill my bath with nice warm water and then get into it without taking off my diaper. Water dissolves the shit in it as the bath water get nice and brown... I then to clean myself up, I use the shower hose and some liquid soap...

Depends on the consistency of it. Solid poop isn't bad but diarrhea is the worse

I think it feels amazing when it's at least a medium firm poop...squishy and slidey...and a bit naughty :-P but that's part of the fun for me!

I’ve only used disposables so far and only pee in them. The first time I wore it was actually quite hard to pee. I wanted to but my brain was telling me not to. After a few minutes I let out a little pee, then a little more, then I just let go.

The feeling was amazing. The warm liquid gushing out, the diaper and my cock getting a good soaking. The feeling of the liquid dripping down to my balls and the crack of my bum was fantastic.

Once you do it you’ll love it

I only wear pull up disposables. I love the warmth and wetness after peeing in them. The more pee in them, the better it feels. I don't make a mess in them. That's not my interest at all.

It is hard to explain. Pee for me is just kind of par for the course. I have pooping accidents less frequently so they are always a shock. But, also (when I am feeling ok otherwise) incredibly....cathartic.?. Often I have been plugged for a awhile. Sometimes it is so profound it gives me cataplexy. I hate loose that is just ucky. But, there is something about a solid on that is amazing. I will just be going about my business and all of a sudden I feel it hit my cheeks a bit and then bam! A 6" long 2-4 inch diameter stool fills my diaper out of no where and in seconds. I have literally been lifted out of my chair!

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I have used disposables in the past and they are OK. But i prefer terry nappies I love the feel when i wet them and feel my pee all over my bottom. It is good when they get very wet and start to sag in my plastic baby pants causing me to waddle just like a baby

It's pretty rare I end up messy, but I feel exactly like a kid messing himself. When I was a kid I wore night diapers until I was 10 and "just in case" diapers after that when mom and dad thought I should be in a diaper. Sometimes I wet my diaper and on rare occasions...#2. I felt like a toddler...almost like using my diaper regressed me a bit. I also felt a bit nervous because I knew a diaper change would be necessary...and because it is pretty hard to hide a cloth diaper when you've done your business in it. Even a wet nappy sags a lot.

As a kid I was always in cloth diapers and plastic pants. I usually wear cloth as an adult when the occasion arises. The feelings of being wet or messy are exactly the same as they were years ago.

I usually wear Depends pull-ups 'just in case' since I take water pills. While I don't do so often, I will occasionally put on a pair of plastic pants, cause diarrhea and sit in it for while. I enjoy the squishy feeling and the sense of being naughty. I will also warm it up with pee while I am at it.

Wetting or poopoo it just happens when your a adult baby i mean jeez thats why we are in diapers isnt it

Putting on any diaper is much like imderwear,except it hugs the anatomy more and can be more variable as far as thickness or "bulkyness" depending on brand, style,and level of protection you need or want.

A cloth diaper requires Plastic rubber ,vinyl or PUL pants over top (they aren't required for disposables ,but to keep training the same I wear them on the occasional times I wear disposables)

Wetting to me I can't really say because I am a constant leaker with an occasional "tsunami" ( i have to catheterize my bladder every 4 hours to help prevent the violent weting ) so veing wet dor me is a more gradal event , i always wear more absorbency than I can use ( I am diapered for 6 hours of need ,my aide changes me every 4 hours when he catheterize's me .so being wet is more or less a constant feeling in cloth ,once your wet you stay wet ,a disposable has a stay dry top sheet and SAP , the cellulose gets wet and spreads it ,the SAP then starts absorbing that urine ,so the cellulose can be ready to trap and spread new wetness.

Being messy for me is like being in mud or a clay pit that doesn't dry out and refreshen and cleanse the skin ( I use medications that control my stool frequency and consistency . I don't feel a need to go ,it just happens when it needs to ,I average 4 times a day and the stool consistency is supposed to be "soft formed" /&!/ is into a toilet ,there is alot more resistance in a diaper so for me it spreads out everywhere it can ( I wear a harness on a posturing cushion in a wheelchair so there are limited places it can expand to .

Also in a cloth diaper ,wet is an all over condition and feeling because the entire garment is absorbent unlike a disposable that when very saturated will still only transmit wetness through the main crotch and relatively small wings .even a low profile contoured cloth diaper will give you more of a wet feeling than any disposable .

Been diapered and incontinent almost 28 years ,so if you have more questions ask away ,if it can happen well diapered I have probably done it more than once or twice in this life anyway.

It's simply amazing. The way my balls are soaked with the urine... It can't be beat. Try it and you will like it

The best feeling ever!

The feeling of warm urine going up the back and up the front of your diaper is so amazing. While I am incontinent, when I switch positions, I will have a gush of pee come out. If you are a woman, it will caress your clitoris and if you are a man, it will hug your foreskin and glans with warmth.

Pooping is kinda the same except it will be more on you butt cheeks or may go toward and in your vagina.

I pee in pullups sometimes, not as a regression thing, but for kicks because I'm a nasty bitch. It's exciting, not just because it's taboo but because the spreading warmth feels great.

I've only messed with solid waste twice, didn't really enjoy it (the cleanup was too much) but I do consistently wear a pullup or a diaper after enemas in case of leakage and sometimes I have expelled quite a lot of leftover enema in them. That's more of a fun feeling, with the wetness and warmth (usually) akin to a peed-in diaper.

I love how it feels as I am peeing. The warmth is amazing and makes me very horny. I always have to find somewhere to mastrubate. Pooping is very good as well. The warmth of the turd coming out and your ass being spread apart can not be beat. I wait til I get home to change because I enjoy how it feels when I sit down and it squishes up in my vagina and all in my labia. After I get home, I will take the diaper off and mastrubate and play in it. But that's me.

I tried it for the first time last night and actually enjoyed it

Since I was incontinent only a few years ago, I like my wet morning diapers with my pee, it makes me feel good. I like to keep my piss diapers on for a while and warm them up with another pee, then when they get really wet and start sagging in my plastic baby panties, making me waddle like a baby, and wait for that my wife tells me it's time to change my piss diapers. I never rush to change them when she gets up. For the poo in my diapers, I didn't really start to poop in my diaper and it was never very exciting for me and especially for my wife, when I happened to find myself in a wet diaper and messy with the diarrhea and I also have the nervous feeling because I knew that a diaper change would be needed and it's hard to hide the smell of my cloth diaper and her plastic panties when I do a big poo inside my diaper, I'm in trouble and scolded by my wife.

Wetting my cloth diapers protected by rubber pants is a feeling I just can't get enough of. The warmth and wetness that slowly expands from my pee-pee to my balls, down the space between my butt cheeks, pooling around my butt hole, slowly spreading above my pee-pee and around the smooth hairless skin above is about the most wonderful feeling I can enjoy, short of cumming in my potty soaked diaper. After going potty I stay in my wet diapers for as long as I can, waiting for the next time pee wants to leave my bladder and empty into my already wet diapers allowing to once again enjoy a fresh new stream of warm pee around my privates. This time, my little pee-pee comes alive, grows a little bigger and much harder, hoping my fiancee will notice and gently stroke the outside of my rubber pants asking me if her little boy needs his mommy. I tell her I just went potty and I think I need to do poo-poo and mommy says to me “Sweety, you know how much I love you and I know you want to make a big mess for mommy and mommy wants to watch while you fill your diapers.” As she says this, I suddenly lift my bottom and a huge log fills my diapers and then another. I'm so excited my pee-pee gets hard again as I sit on my bottom again and feel my poo spreading all over my pee-pee, my butt cheeks, up the back of my diapers and around my thighs. My fiancee looks at me smiles and says “honey, you look so happy now" as she leans over, her boobs spilling from her blouse and her nipples brushing against my lips until my lips open and I begin to nurse from her swollen nipple. I have everything I ever wanted-my love lying with her little boy in his soggy and messy diaper while she suckles him.

At first grose then not so bad when it dries up a bit. I can be stuck in it for hours