How long can you hold your enema?

Not long at all yet. When I was using a bulb, I could three bulbs full and hold that for a little while. But now that I am using a bag, I can only take half the bag before I need to release. I can usually hold the second half after expelling for a few minutes but that is it.

My bottom gets pretty sensitive pretty quickly the more enemas I take, but I enjoy them so much that I make up for it by large volumes and long retentions, which I've been practicing for many years. My usual used to be 2.5-3 q for many decades but recently with a lot of Zity reading I've increased that to usually 3.5-4 q, sometimes over 4, And I adore not only feeling it run into me and fill me but also letting it sit inside me and having the large volume stimulate me from feeling so full and distended. I've loved feeling distended ever since my first enemas as a teenager. I almost always enhance the distention and retention with two or three things. First is a good deal of massage and rolling around to let me really feel the effect of the large volume inside me moving around completely controlling my insides. Second is engaging in a strong D/s fantasy while having the enema so I feel like I'm the sub or victim of a strict Domme making me struggle through the humiliation of a huge long enema. It's almost impossibly erotic which I love. Third is a lot of sexual fantasy, usually with an orgasm at the end after a good long retention, at least 15-20 minutes and sometimes over an hour. I've had a few 3-4 q enemas which I enjoyed so much that I've fallen asleep while holding and awakened to find I've been holding over an hour. A good long large enema enduring a submissive fantasy is truly an intense joy to experience. Even better when I had a real partner..........

Eric

About 10 years ago I had an exwife who one night decided to treat me to a long rubber bondage enema session without telling me beforehand. She dressed me in head to toe black latex and calf-tall thick rubber Converse sneakers to add even more restrictive rubber to the suit. Then my hands were cuffed to ankles so I couldn't extend my legs or use my hands, and a spreader so my knees stayed forced apart. She gave me about two quarts of water without permission then covered me in a comforter to enhance sweating under my rubber suit. She made me lay there sweating for close to an hour just struggling holding the enema, occasionally coming back to masturbate/edge me without climax. After the hour of this she came back with another full rubber bag and asked if I was ready for my next enema. I pleaded for leniency but she gave me at least a quart of it anyway. Finally she let me go but made me stay on the bed full of 3-4 quarts so I could crawl over to her and service her with as many orgasms as she required. After a good deal of PIV and oral orgasms, she finally took a postorgasm nap while I still lay there sweating and distended. When she awoke she finally helped me have my own orgasm plus a nap. By the time it was all done I estimate I had held the original enema at least 2-3 hours with all the things she made me do before releasing it. The interest/enjoyment I experienced from the long fairly large enema hold was accentuated by the whole time spent sweating under the rubber enclosure she had put me in for the enema. Fortunately I do enjoy rubber-induced sweating which adds to the submissiveness of the enema.

That's probably my record long hold except for a couple of overnight holds she made me endure so she could get me to give her orgasms whenever she wanted them all night and in the morning with me still submissively holding. Those were maybe each 6-7 hours total but a lot of it sleeping. She was really fond of watching me struggle through very long enema holds while making me do other things, mostly servicing her orgasms. While I was struggling to hold, she'd enjoy telling me how sexy she found filling me and watching me struggle and squirm and moan and beg until she let me go. Fortunately, I felt the same way but from the humiliated submissive end. There was even a particular sound I made that she loved, sort of a combination of a moan and chuckle, that she said meant I realized I was totally resigned to my fate of doing whatever she wanted until she was satisfied. I finally figured out what the sound was, and that's exactly what it felt like to me. I've actually heard the same sounds expressed by occasional video models in the midst of a particularly long and satisfying session on film (FetishKitsch, et.al.).

We're not married anymore but those nights were something to remember. I'm sorry we weren't long term compatible.

As my standard enema hold time now is about an hour, occasionally I'll try to exceed my prior time but not usually a contest for me.

Eric

About 5 minutes, interestingly about the same as my childhood enemas once Mom determined that I could hold it in without an "accident." She did keep a bedpan handy as I ran to the toilet frm my bed and did not overload the Ivory soap in the enema can.

There have been enemas that I was able to hold for 30min or more and other times when I could barely get the nozzle out before releasing. It depends on many factors, is this the first bag full or is it the third or fourth in a series. Of course what I have in the bag matters, strong soap brings about a short holding time. All in all my enemas are not a contest but a relaxing good time.

Exactly. Hold time and enjoyment is multifactorial depending on nozzle/catheter, balloons, solution, volume, speed, position, number of enemas given, other kinks involved in the enema (sneakers, rubber, bondage), required chores during holding, presence of orgasm, etc. 10% glycerin lasted me only 10 minutes, but saline or mild soap can go for over an hour. I've been "forced" to hold for 2-3 or 6-7 (overnight) hours with an ex Domme partner which was spectacular and challenging. Like vandan33 said, the goal is prolonged enjoyment, not a contest. My usual 4-4.5 quart hold now is about 30-60 minutes followed by orgasm and nap then evacuation.

Eric

Occasionally I take an enema purely because I am constipated, in which case I usually hold the enema no longer than 5 to 10 minutes. Prolonged retention is counterproductive in this situation because the longer you hold it the more your body absorbs and the less pressure there is to void.

However most of the enemas I take are for sexual gratification and those I usually retain for 2 to 3 hours, repeatedly stroking myself to nearly the point of ejaculation and then backing off so I can let the pleasure slowly build again. A good masturbatory enema is one of the few great pleasures I have left at my age.

..........However most of the enemas I take are for sexual gratification and those I usually retain for 2 to 3 hours, repeatedly stroking myself to nearly the point of ejaculation and then backing off so I can let the pleasure slowly build again. A good masturbatory enema is one of the few great pleasures I have left at my age.

Acerbas,

That's an impressive hold time for frequent enemas! Similar plan here at age 66. My holds are usually an hour but I could easily extend that much longer. Maybe I'll try a much longer hold next time. I do really enjoy the retention phase. I'm usually running a Domme fantasy in my head while I'm filling, so any extension of hold time would be very pleasant just imagining Her forcing me to hold and do some submissive chores as I struggle to retain the 4-5 quarts she gave me. I just fill, hold and later masturbate until I can manage an orgasm with ED. Doing it and backing off is pleasant but sometimes I can't control it so only have one chance to orgasm. Still very gratifying.

Eric

While this has all the marks of a medical myth, I generally don't hold mine for longer than 10-15 minutes, especially if large. I already have slow, uncooperative bowels and don't want to get them used to having lots of volume in them. At 10-15 minutes expulsion goes pretty well, but the times I've pushed it to 20 or more it takes longer.

As I've said pretty irrational, but we all know that people aren't nearly as rational as we want to think we are.

I hold for at least 10-15 mins. I watch my watch.

Although I have often tried, once my butt hits the toilet seat I cannot seem to hold it more than a few seconds.

I can hold it for a while sometimes by maintaining the position I got the enema in, usually 5 minutes or so is my max, lesser a lot of time depending on how backed up I might be.

I never release everything at once though, and if the initial expulsion is just part of the water (often is) and relieves enough pressure, I can usually hold it a few minutes more to help it work.

At 67 my usual is 4-4.5 q for 30-60 minutes, usually with a strict Domme in my head running the show and forcing me to hold as long as she wants, embarrassing and humiliating me the whole time which I love. Several times my ex used to dress me in full latex and sneakers and make me hold for a few hours. Once or twice she did it overnight (6-7 hours) so she could watch me struggle filled for her all night with as many orgasms during the night as she liked.

Eric

@ericmacson

sounds devious - butt fun ?

@ericmacson

sounds devious - butt fun ?

It was. Waking up occsionally to realizei I was imprisoned in rubber and full of her enema with no immediate escape was very embarrassing and erotic, We traded a lot of orgasms those evenings and mornings. Really memorable.

Eric

Since the last post I have increased volume to 5 L = 5.3 quarts . I used to hold the 5 L for 10 to 20 mn. Once I hold it 1 hour while chatting with my master.

With less volume 4 L. I can hold 1 to 2 hours.

I think the longest I have ever held a full size enema (2+ quarts) was approximately 1 1/2 hours due to an extremely important phone call that occurred just as the bag had emptied into me. It was a soapy enema (Ivory) and one can only imagine how strained I felt having that conversation hoping that it would be over with very quickly. Oh my gosh, I have never struggled so hard in my life to maintain control. I was talking on a land line phone with a sort cord but it did not matter as the explosive release that would have been overheard on the phone had I gone to the bathroom.

Needless to say, that was one excellent enema as it produced absolutely remarkable results when the phone conversation was over. I had a second rinse enema as I did not want to have carry over effects throughout the day and have to make unscheduled stops during the day while out shopping at the mall. Denise

I think the longest I have ever held a full size enema (2+ quarts) was approximately 1 1/2 hours due to an extremely important phone call that occurred just as the bag had emptied into me. It was a soapy enema (Ivory) and one can only imagine how strained I felt having that conversation hoping that it would be over with very quickly. Oh my gosh, I have never struggled so hard in my life to maintain control.

Never had to hold one for an hour and a half, but have had an important phone call a couple of times. It is a difficult exercise to maintain what seems like a near-normal tone and demeanor as the enema gets to work! I do wonder what the people on the other end of the phone thought. Did I carry it off or were they wondering what was up?

I have become a non -holder it seems. In the past, I would take 2 or 3 liters of soapy water and hold it for 30 minutes. As I have aged, I prefer to take as much cool water as I can, but I only hold it for a few minutes. I guess I could hold it longer, but I don't. I will repeat many times during a day, and the final one of the morning will be a 1 liter coffee enema that I will hold for fifteen minutes or so. But that's it, I don't hold for any longer than the first urge to go.

I very rarely mix anything in my enema water other than coffee once a week. Just cool clean water, sometimes warm. That's it. If I'm with a woman, we will sometimes fill each other several times before we get down to business, but we both love the feeling of playing with our bums and sliding nozzles of different shapes and sizes in and out of each other.

The actual holding of the water doesn't make me feel any cleaner than a quick fill and expel. I guess I just prefer many fills over one or two long holds.

I think the longest I have ever held a full size enema (2+ quarts) was approximately 1 1/2 hours due to an extremely important phone call that occurred just as the bag had emptied into me..........

Made mye simile reading this - happened to me at least once where the phone ring just like you mentioned and the call needed to be answered and I wondered if I could hold the enema and take the call. Anyway to answer the question, I never held my enemas for all that long - 5, 10, maybe 15 minutes..

Depends on if its my 1st flushing, have l gone previously, how much in volume, am l alone, and solution. If l have had my morning enema and went, not ate heavy the night/day before. I can take 2qts of just plain water and hold for almost an hour if l am laying down and comfortable. Also, depending on which nozzle l am using. A regular tulip nozzle or douche nozzle, eh, MAYBE 20 mins. My double balloon or SN SBN, or even a colon tube l have been able to hold almost an hour. Alot of factors come into play.

Also, am l taking this enema solely for the fill and hold or fill, come, hold, come then expell?

@paula: Amazing that you can hold a plain water enema for almost an hour and not have problem of "the dreaded dribbles". Maybe because I'm some use to soap that without it, plain water just stays in and dribbles out in small urges to go that annoyingly repeats for the rest of the day.

@paula: Amazing that you can hold a plain water enema for almost an hour and not have problem of "the dreaded dribbles". Maybe because I'm some use to soap that without it, plain water just stays in and dribbles out in small urges to go that annoyingly repeats for the rest of the day.

Rectal or bladder dribbles? I'd guess that plain water would just be absorbed and make urine for you but that soap might stay around longer and produce rectal dribbles, no?

Eric

I love large 4-5 quart salt or water enemas held for long periods just for the pressure, distention and erotic feelings from them. I may do some urinating on the commode during emptying, but almost never need to get up to pee before the enema hold and orgasm are over. Maybe just from practice. Very enjoyable.

Eric

My longest hold was a 2 qt green tea enema held for about an hour as I laid on the bed and rested my belly, with the help of a small plug to aid in retention. My body relaxed and got used to the feeling of fullness, so I followed that with adding another 2.5 qts of warm water prior to expelling, taken on all fours. I wasn't able to hold that additional volume for more than about five minutes, though.

Longest holds:

5 quarts saline, alone, with orgasm: 30 minutes

4 quarts saline or Castile soap, alone with orgasm: 60-70 min.

3-3.5 quarts water, with Domme, with tasks, orgasms and PIVS: overnight, ~6-7 hours

3-3.5 quarts water, with Domme, with tasks, orgasms and PIVS: ~2-4 hours

All the above given and held with a latex 250/250cc DBC inserted.

Eric

I try to hold for an hour. Sometimes longer depends on what kind I end up taken. Usually put my butt plug in.

Flames? An hour? You Are My Heroine. What is in your enema? I have a feeling it's different than what's in mine. The only enema I can hold that long, is wine.

I'm like Jenny. The only enema, other than coffee, that I hold for any length of time is with wine. A "special" suppo first, then after it's melted, 8 oz. wine along with 8 oz. of warm water. I will hold it for up to one hour, but I usually can't go that long. My typical cleansing enemas are cool water. I prefer to fill and release many times over holding one large, warm one.

My usual enema is 3 qts of strong Ivory soapsuds. I usually hold it for 30 minutes to an hour, plugged. If I go to 4 qts, I usually hold 30 minutes, plugged. If I am enjoying it, I may put on a diaper and hold til I have an involuntary release.

Flames? An hour? You Are My Heroine. What is in your enema? I have a feeling it's different than what's in mine. The only enema I can hold that long, is wine.

Jenny is Kinky2,

Notice she (Flames) said she usually puts in a butt plug. I hold 4-5 quarts for over an hour usually, but always with a DBC in. Do you use anything to help you retain your enemas?

Eric