Life as a real dr/nurse...

To all of you on this site who actually work in the medical field, which came first the chicken or the egg....meaning was your fetish discovered through your work in the medical field or was your work in the medical field sparked by your existing medical fetish??

For me, it was both.... seeing people's various openings being violated, at times, made me want to BE in that position of helplessness and humiliation, and I have been a urethral addict ever since.

The fetish came first.

I was tying up my friends in middle school.

By the time I was in high school, I was violating boys very severely. 😁 😁 😁 😁

I am not at all a medical professional, but I find this very interesting. It seems as though it is a pattern on this site that "real" medical fetish is developed at an early age, even if it is not later discovered. I also couldn't name my fetish for quite some time, but later discovered a name and began to make some sense of it. I am eagerly awaiting more replies!

My Medical Fetish developed in Child hood / adolescents

Became an EMT and am all professionsl on the job but wish I could trade places with some of my patients. Especially some of the patients that are Post opertive and have tubes

I didn't really think of my interest as a fetish until a few years ago - but my early years recollection of playing doctor with others when I was 7 or 8 still turns me on - so I agree that most do have a fetish

Thanks for all the great responses...i was hoping that this thread would go somewhere and not get buried under the more popular topics 😃

My fetish started when i discovered masturbation, around 11 y/o, i don't know but somehow, everytime i stroked my clittie, i was pretending i was being examined by the doctor. and then when i became an RN, i noticed how seeing women in the lithotomy position turned me on. that's when i started researching about medfet, found this site and got hooked. now, i feel liberated, coz i finally found a place where i belong;D

I believe both started together. I was the only male in the Nursing school I attended. This was 39 years ago, the girls wore very short white nurses dresses, always had a nice show to watch and we all were models at one time or another for the various procedures we practiced. I really enjoyed Nursing school and the fun times.

Fetish first,

Like most though, I keep the two seperate. There is a time to work and make money and take care of people for real,

then there is a time for play. That play time is understood by both...

I work in the surgery end of the med field. I don't mix work and play but the enjoyment of womens bottoms started at a VERY young age (second grade).

I'm not in the medical field... but I am a teacher and my ex teacher love interest was very much into wanting to be treated like a student... I think you cant help fantasizing about your work... its wrong if you act on it...

I think I started looking up women's skirts while I was still crawling. One of my earliest memories was while I was crawling from the dining room into the kitchen when I had a face-to-face encounter with a mouse. We startled each other and turned in opposite directions as fast as we could. I never again saw a mouse in that house. I do remember becoming preoccupied with developing ingenious methods for peeking up women's skirts. That only persisted until I became adept at getting them to take their skirts off. My experiences are fairly common, my abilities merely mediocre, yet I have been privileged to enjoy an exciting life that has been immensely rewarding and it is all in some way related to my fascination with looking between women's legs. Who'd a thunk it?

Do those of you in the prefession find it more of a turn on or turn off to the fetish lifestyle, and since majority of individuals reading this are obviously into this lifestyle how do your co-workers feel?

Well,palms, the thing is, although our profession is related to our medfet, they're totally separated. at work, we see naked bodies all the time that it ceases to become an issue, we just get used to it. and doing procedures such as cathing a patient, doing an internal exam on a woman on labor, getting RT's, etc is our job, it's routine. like the way a gardener plants, prunes, waters gardens, plants, flowers day in and day out. the only time we get off on our experiences at work is when we get home, log into erotic clinic and allow our medfet to run wild. as to your other question, about our coworkers' reaction, well, they don't know about our fetish, and if they did, i don't think they'd get shocked at all, they'll most likely find our fetish as over rated.

Toughie, cause I always had a slight interest in the medical field even when I was a child. I use to play doctor with my dolls my sister would be my assistant sometimes. My dad even got me some medical supplies for my birthday one year. Even now I'm a certified phlebotomist and am going for a degree and certification as a medical assistant. So I guess a bit of both.

As a former nurses aide my medfet came at the tender age of 6 so thats what influenced my career choice

I myself am not a doctor nor person of any medical profession, but I don't think that I would be able to do it. I think I would be waaay to self-conscientious about touching and examining people to do it... I would just freak out.

Although I sometimes wish I was a medical professional, Im sure it has its less than glorious moments too.

For me the fetish came first being in the hospital at age 8 and several other "situations".

As a physician, it made me more conscious of the vulnerability of being a real patient and so I am exceptionally conscious of that vulnerability for patients.

I thought there was a great scene in the 1991 movie "The Doctor" where he brought all the interns down to an empty ward and had the nursing staff do various procedures such as enemas, shaving prep, caths etc to have them get a sense of what it was like to have your clothes taken from you and your privacy invaded and violated.

Since I had my own stay in a hospital as a child I received my own, first hand, lessons in compassion and awareness for my profession later in life. It made me a better doctor as I go out of my way to make sure people are aware and empowered of what is going on with them and that nothing is done to them without their knowledge and consent.

It doesn't make for any future medfet people though. Although people will go there on their own. I have witnessed that as well.

Remember, you don't get pearls unless the oyster was in discomfort by the grain of sand.

Two ways to ponder the subject.

Dr. B.

Wonderful explanation Doctor_B. I, too, thought that the end of movie "The Doctor" was a wonderful lesson in empathy for young docs who think medicine is all science. And I love your anaysis of the birth of the pearl. You certainly are one of the pearls around this board.

Hey I like that quote about the pearl in the oyster

The fetish came first. i am medfet since my childhood.

How do you go about meeting a professional nurse who is also interested in medfet?

Good question. I guess I knew i was interested in doctors and medical things when i was younger but wouldnt have said it was a fetish. but as i get older perhaps it is more of a fetish lol. i dont know. I'd say my INTEREST came first!!

I definitely had my enema interest long before getting my RN degree. I have had a fascination for enemas and the equipment used to administer them since as early as I can remember.

However, in a professional setting giving enemas is most of the time routine and and not the least bit exciting. The one exception to this rule being when I would administer to a person of my own age or younger, which when I was younger, was rare because most people in the hospitals tend to be older. So years ago when I was giving enemas, inserting catheters or whatever I looked at it as simply looking at another wrinkly old butt. However, now that I am older (59) I look at these wrinkly butts and go, "Hmmm ... not too bad." (smile)

I have a question to those of you medfet-ers who are also real medical professionals. I got the point made by several posters that work and play don't mix, etc. But I have one question for you, a hypothetical situation:

Imagine that you are at your day job as a real doc or nurse. Suppose that a patient comes into your practice for some procedure: say, an enema, a gyn exam or a dorsogluteal IM injection. The patient does not admit to having any kind of fetish and claims a legit medical reason for whatever s/he came in for, but you can tell that s/he definitely seems to be enjoying the procedure and you very strongly suspect that s/he is requesting it for medfet reasons. (For example, suppose that an adult came in to catch up on immunizations - how many adults do that? - and is requesting it in the dorsogluteal site on top of that.)

My question is: how would you handle such a Pt in your day job? The "standard" handling seems to be to red-flag that Pt, find whatever good medical reason you can to deny their requests, discourage them from such pursuits however you can, maybe even send them to a psychiatrist. But how would you handle the situation as a real doc/nurse who is also secretly into medfet on the side? Would you give them the "standard" treatment, or would you be a little more understanding, a little more accommodating, and try to grant some of their requests within reasonable limits as long as it isn't likely to cause them measurable harm?

^^^^ Referral to a psychiatrist is not in order. (Should we all be referred to psychiatrists?) You cannot refuse treatment just because they seem to be enjoying it. Refusal to treat, when a patient comes in with a complaint is not ethical and could have legal ramifications.

If they came in more than a normal patient without anything verifiable, I would probably refer them to someone else along with my suspicions of them acting hypochondriacal just to have procedures performed so the next practitioner could do further evaluation and then possibly refuse to treat based on a lack of real findings. That way more than one person would be able to state the patient had nothing wrong.

Also, just because a person comes into an ER, that doesn't mean you have to give them injections or an enema if they ask for it because they say they are constipated. They do not dictate treatment.

I agree also. If the patient is due for the vaccinations and needs them I will give it to them. I always let the patient pick the injection site. I suggest injection sites, but I do not demand.

I recall one time that I was going to give an injection in the hip because it was a particularly irritating medication. The fellow was in there with his wife and insisted he be given the shot in the arm. I said, "Okay, I'll give it to you wherever you want it but I don't want you complaining about it when it starts to hurt like hell." He assured me he wouldn't and I gave it to him in his arm and a few minutes later he started to complain about the pain.

I said, "I tried to tell you and you didn't want to listen."

By then his wife was joining in the show and said, " I am glad your arm hurts and I hope it hurts all day long because you don't listen to a thing anybody tries to tell you."

By that time they were walking out and I have no idea where the conversation ended with them.

In summary, I have to say that if people enjoy a necessary procedure, all the better. We need to get over this Puritan mentality that if someone enjoys something it is morally wrong. In other words medicine doesn't have to taste bad to work, medical procedures do not need to be painful to work, even though that is what we were raised to believe.

I think mine started around puberty, not 100% sure as i have only just 'come out', but i have worked in nursing/medical background for 3 years and i am now studying to be a RGN, completed my 1st year and also have employment in medical setting, full time, even when studying