Below is an edited quote from a posting I made on http://enemas4fun.zity.biz/index.php?action=forum;topic=29340.msg277238#msg277238 in a similar thread regarding penis size, it might be appropriate here also.
G.N.
Enemas / Anything but enemas / Re: Small Penis
2010.02.18 16:02 #8
Until my early teens I was somewhat below average @4 1/4" erect in length, yes I measured it, in the same manner that many young girls are concerned about their breast size at that time in life. Then my length started to grow significantly over a period of years until about age 23 to it's present length of just a bit over @7 3/4" erect, my width/girth came before that and remained unchanged. Somewhere around 17 and just barely 6" erect, being frustrated at not knowing enough about what my personal endowment should or shouldn't be, or what was right for me, and not getting straight information from parents who would not talk about it, I turned to the medical library of the nearby medical college for answers. From there, I not only gained excellent physiological and psychological knowledge and references to texts readily available at the public library, I began to realize and accept that I was right in the middle of average, and then began to get back in touch with not really caring about how long I was. MY particular size and shape of my penis is part of my unique specific individuality,separating me from the next individual.
Please forgive the coming bluntness. There are women who will not be satisfied unless they are "stuffed full" by the size of a penis that borders on being found on large animals, and there are men who are not satisfied unless the woman is "so tight you can't use a Q tip".
Obviously, by definition,those are two extremes. The important thing for me to keep in mind is that a woman who is going to be concerned about my "lack of size" is an individual that is not right for me,and to ensure that I am not one of those men who obsess about "lack of tightness" in a woman, that would make me a man who isn't right for her.
There are other factors to penile endowment that influence a partners attraction and often don't get the light they deserve...how long you stay erect,is the shaft smooth or veined & muscular, how long the ejaculations and orgasmic twitch's last, the shape of the head, the texture of the penis itself, is the pre-ejaculate a constant flow or several large crystal clear prismatic drops...to name just a few. I remember quite well several girls in high school and a number of ladies into my twenties speaking clearly and distinctly commenting positively on these and additional aspects of what they found attractive about my penis and why they wanted it. One in particular a year after graduation, from Texas who was visiting up north for two weeks, came back the following year and stayed for a month and a half. One night, I asked her what the attraction was, she replied with out any hesitation at all with genuine sincerity..."In addition to just flat out liking you, you are one of the few guy's I can take completely in my mouth without gagging, or get filled in the front or back without it hurting".... That particular statement along with others like-in-kind before and after did wonders in helping me to realize that girls and later women did indeed find my penis attractive and ultimately allowing me to be comfortable with what I have. Being smaller in some respects than others allows women and myself to do things they absolutely would not consider out of fear of physical harm with men who have a larger penis.
G.N.