For me, the most important aspect is the doctor to have a cold, clinical, detached professional attitude. Make it embarrassing for the patient but maybe not even aware that it is embarrassing. The more thorough, the better, but I prefer little to no intimacy.
For me, the most important aspect is the doctor to have a cold, clinical, detached professional attitude. Make it embarrassing for the patient but maybe not even aware that it is embarrassing. The more thorough, the better, but I prefer little to no intimacy.Thank you. You put words to my fantasy.
Echoing most of the other comments, I'd like it to be very clinical. No attachment at all. I'd like the doctor to be polite, an older gentleman, but stern as well. Of course I'd be embarrassed because I'd have to be in just my underwear for the exam, and then be totally naked for the genital exam. The doctor may decide to have his associate doctor come in to assist with the exam. And they may decide to run invasive tests for young men's health research.
My best fantasy is male doctor examine group of young guys. Genital check anus check with latex gloves. Best part when doctor ask to bend over and spread buttocks apart to open anus. I wish to be a doctor.
I have strong fantasies (straight male here) of being examined by a male. The idea of loss of control for this type-a personality is what is most exciting to me. Being ordered to strip, being exposed in front of another man and having him touch/examine my penis is super-exciting. If made to ejaculate, all the better.
My fantasy involves a thorough exam with subsequent intercourse between doctor and patient. The exam should include intimate questions, auscultation, taking all kind of measurements (including the genitals). The testicular exam should include measuring the volume of the testicles with an orchidometer. Of course, the temperature is taken rectally, followed by a DRE and prostate exam. I am not too much into enemas but since in my fantasy, the exam is followed by intercourse, the doc can perform one if he deems necessary.
I like it pretty clinical too.Being asked to strip down to my briefs then sit there as he asks me questions about my medical history.Then being thoroughly examined before the dreaded lowering of the underwear š
Man, this takes me to the heart of my power inequity fantasy.... older, kind coach or physician getting his younger patient through an exam - talking about how the exam is going - calling me "son" (not in the dad way, though i have no prob with that - more in the coaching you through and asserting authority of you way... "your not my dad!" - haha), making sure he comments on how its normal for me to get an erection, comment about my balls as he examines them, apologizes but is firm about my need for a rectal temperature and the prostate exam - "you're doing great, son. Not everyone can handle both fingers in their rectum for the deep prostate exam"
I am a straight female. Having said that, the idea of a male Dr examining a make patient is so hot to me. The patient is in a typical legs in stirrups position. Doctor does a very thorough and professional exam. Cath used to get urine sample, rectal temp taken, prostate exam and massage, and of course forced ejaculation. The patient is very embarrassed because others (women) are watching the proceedings. If one of them is his wife, mother, aunt, etc. all the better.
I am a straight married male and haven thru countless exams mostly male doctors. I think being told to strip and bend over and rest arms on chair or stand makes me nervous. I have had more than one DRE and did not enjoy any of them. I worried about the usual things am I clean. Will the procedure hurt. And the obvious one will I get an erection. And I am not sure that it matters whether it is a male or female doctor the fear is still there. I guess that shows how strange the mind can be.I do wonder what it would be like for the doctor to sense the feelings and thoughts and push the boundary to see what would happen. I am not talking about a violation of the oath just wonder. What do guys think and what goes thru a medical professionals mind in that situation
I'm straight and I'd love to be examined by a woman, but yes, recently my fantasies have shifted more towards being examined by a male. Obviously it is the humiliation factor that does it for me. Being checked out by a woman, the nudity and exposure are enough (although the more the better). With a male doctor it is the humiliation. My big fantasy these days is to be getting an exam and he tells me he needs a semen sample but offers me nowhere to go to give it."Here?" I ask?"Yes" he responds."I don't think I'll be able to do it." I say."Don't worry, you won't have to. I'll be right back" he says as he steps out of the room. He returns with a nurse (male or female, dealer's choice) and introduces them as the chaperon for the last part of the exam.He has me stand up and proceeds to start masturbating me from behind, or from off to one side, while the nurse watches. Because I am so uncomfortable/nervous it takes a long time and he has to beat my cock very hard and use lots of lube. Maybe at some point he sends the nurse out to get a prostate massager from the supply room and proceeds to use it on me. Maybe it takes so long that at some point someone else comes into the room to check and see what is taking so long and sees what is happening to me.
but yes, recently my fantasies have shifted more towards being examined by a male. .Older male or younger male?
I'm a (flexible) straight guy, but I've become very interested in having an exam from a male doc that goes beyond the boundaries of the exam I get from my current GP. I always envision that the doctor would be older and authoritative. Aside from the stuff that others have suggested, I love the idea of asking candid embarrassing questions. How long have you been sexual active? How many partners have you had? How many were male and female? What do you fantacize about when you masturbate?Another fantasy is that the doctor would have a set of sexual fetish cards and ask me to describe each one. That would ensure that I'm not looking away. He would be watching my penis for anything that elicits an unusual response. He'd also check the relative response to nude photos of different ages and genders.
When I was younger I'd have wanted older, now that I'm older I want younger.Good that you're like that, because like it or not, it has a tendency to be that way anyhow. I find most of the people I deal with in a lot of professions are now younger than i am. Like now looking to buy a new car, sales folks are all younger, so how the older ones were more persuasive in talking me into things, I'm not as likely to be swayed by younger salespeople.@perkins2505 , it sounds like you need to find an older male play doc, after having prepared the sexual fetish cards.
Let's face it if you insist in being examined by a female play doctor/nurse you're probably going to have a long wait or possibly never have a play examination.I've had two examinations and I was lucky that my first was conducted by a younger female but accompanied by her male partner. It was a realistic examination and didn't include taking or giving a sperm sample.My second more recently was with a male doctor and again was a realistic examination but did include him taking a sperm sample. I'm straight and the doctor was a fair bit younger than me but I can say here that when it came to having to drop my underwear for the genital examination it was no less an experience than doing that for the female examiner. Only real difference was the rectal examination with the female doctor for which I was positioned on all fours but with the added embarrassment factor that her partner was also behind me watching everything she did.If youāre holding back for a female doctor then Iād say give it a go with a male doctor but discuss with him first what sort of examination youāre looking for and any limits you want to set first.
As @johncrossley says, female play doctors are very rare. I think there may be males who have considered trying an exam with a male play doctor but have not done so perhaps because they believe that it conflicts with their sexuality. I can understand this but when I think back, all my "real" medical examinations have been conducted by male doctors. I'm certain these examinations were the catalyst for my medical fetish.Personally I don't think a male seeking an examination with a male play doc is a sign of a particular sexual preference. It may be just a desire to re-live examination experiences from the past.
It is sort of paradoxical that because I want a woman doctor to examine me that having a male doctor do it turns me on so much. Since I'd choose to have a woman do my exam, if a man is doing it then it must be happening against my will to some extent. If I have to have a male do it then I must have no choice.If I don't have any choice then that opens me up to having any number of other things done to me and to my body that I may not normally consent to; being on open display, being sexually stimulated in ways I wouldn't choose, having sexual responses to things that I am obviously aroused by even if it is humiliating.I like the humiliation of getting aroused by being handled by a doctor I don't want get aroused by.
CumSlave. I think most of us males have an ego that thinks we do some things better than others, be that sport, driving, sex or what ever so submitting to another male's control is always a challenge. Agreeing to be examined by another male is perhaps the most submissive thing we can do. An hour of answering personal questions, undressing in front of him and allowing him to examine our bodies including the most private areas and in my recent case allowing him to assess my sexual health and performance is, certainly to me, the most complete submission.
I think about this topic.i think about a male interested in being a play doc, helping males fulfill their fantasies of a male/male play exam, that they could travel to various places, engulfing the majority of locations of the guys who post here about desiring such an exam.The common denominator. Seemingly, an older male posing as the doctor.Reaching out, and having the right resources. Which likely leads to a gay or bi man posing as a doctor, willing to satisfy the males posting here, and perhaps a mutual gratification on some level.Question is: Which of you are only a matter of finding that play doctor away from actually going through with what you post? i ask that to determine what effort I should give toward reaching out to get you that male doc willing to give you your ideal male/male exam scene.I wouldn't pose the question if I didn't have a gay/bi community to reach out to.......
I always want an older male for a role play exam. For me at least, age projects experience and authority--and a big turn on for me with these scenes is the element of power imbalance. It's too big a stretch for my imagination to feel that I could submit to someone closer to my own age. And similar to other posters, having an older doc is more evocative of the exams I got when I was younger--and those were the exams that first got me thinking about doctor/patient role play.As far as what my fantasies are... there are a lot š They run the gamut from maximizing the ways in which I'm exposed (having a chaperone or role play physician's assistant in the room to having select procedures being live streamed) to incorporating elements of kink (like e-stim and restraints). I write out the different scenarios and add to them from time to time. I'm doubtful I'd ever act on those fantasies, but it's fun mentally playing through them all.
I imagine a handsome, virile doctor who already makes me nervous because he seems a total stud and has a beautiful assistant, male or female. I am nude; there are comments about my body that suggest I am not as perfect a specimen as the doctor himself. The exam gets intimate (the details would make a full story) and at some point the doctor strips so he can show me how he would respond to a test/procedure such as prostate exam or semen extraction. His semen misses the cup though and winds up on me or in my agape mouth, with his assistant making sure it is all licked clean.for starters.
I always fantasize and masturbate to male to male exam scenarios. I've had my share of real and play doctor experiences but none that has been ultimately stimulating. For me it's all about the nudity and exhibitionism and the desire to have my penis looked at, touched, examined and masturbated. It could be someone young or old, gay or straight. In fact straight would be better to maintain an atmosphere of clinical though sexualized.
I give attention to the exact words the doctor uses as he instructs the patient as to what he wants him to do going through the exam. Have the patient strip to his undershorts to begin the exam and then take him through a full body exam. Make it totally realistic and examine all body parts finishing up with examination of the penis, testes, hernia, rectal.
I give attention to the exact words the doctor uses...I'm a lot like you @exam_doc. Whenever I have an exam, I mentally try to pay close attention to the exact words used by both the nurse and the doctor. This is especially true for something like a full physical exam where many of those instructions are quite embarrassing. Replaying those exact instructions in my head later provides some authenticity as I try to relive and savor the experience.
Like others on this thread, i like the idea of an older mature male doctor. who would calmly but forcefully put me in embarrassing situations, use restraints to make me uncomfortable or make is so i could not stop him from exposing himself to his advantage. to end an exam, one thing a male doctor could do that a female one cant is produce a thick salty worm liquid for my medicine that he would carefully ensure i drink before sending me home.