How to get her/him to share t… | Enemas ARE Romantic! 2/2

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Hi Everyone!

My name is Naughty Nurse, and I am Naughty Doc's wife. I just signed up for the forum, because Doc asked me to get involved with the online community.

I read the postings about enemas being totally non-romantic, and I really disagree.

Now, please consider that Doc and I have been together for over ten years, and so I cannot speak for people who give enemas to acquaintances, or strangers (maybe even clients), but in my life, enemas are usually a very romantic activity.

When Doc gives me a treatment, whether for health reasons, for punishment, or for fun, he is taking wonderful personal care of me. He pays attention to my entire body, even the parts "society" doesn't want to know about. Just this feeling of closeness and ultimate intimacy is enough to make me feel romantic. He makes me feel cared for and really loved, and I get the "warm fuzzies."

Besides that, enemas, and anal attention in general, tend to make me aroused. The major muscle groups between a woman's legs are all interconnected. Therefore, when my anus is stimulated, my vagina gets indirectly stimulated. Kind of in the same way that when my clit is stimulated, my vagina wants attention too! So generally, after a good series of enemas, I feel pretty romantic and sexy, and our sessions most often end with intercourse.

There are slight variations, and after my treatment, things will feel different based on what kind of an enema it was.

If it was for health reasons, I usually feel a lot better, and more energetic. Combine that with the "fuzzies" and I am usually ready for some romantic time together, with lots of cuddles at the very least.

If it was for punishment, Doc holds me and forgives me, and tells me he loves me. Once again, I get a lot of romantic feelings. We most often will make love afterwards.

If it was for fun - then there is really no other feeling to have but happiness and love! We just enjoy each other's bodies, and laugh about everything. These enemas are obviously quite sexy in nature, and it always ends in love-making.

On the other hand, when I give Doc a treatment, I get to be the "caretaker" which already makes me feel pretty loving and romantic. He becomes my little patient, and I work really hard to make sure he is having a good time. As a result, I also have a good time. And as I explained above, if we are having fun, then we are happy and feeling romantic.

On top of all these emotional and physiological factors, there is also something to be said about enemas being so taboo. Our treatments are quite private and almost entirely secret. Sharing such a special "secret" is something that makes us feel closer and more romantic.

I know that sometimes people feel so ashamed of their "dirty" parts, that they can't really enjoy enemas, or any sort of anal play. Or maybe they don't have someone loving and trusted to play with. At this point in my life, and my relationship, I don't fit into those categories anymore. However, I can understand both those points of view, as I myself had to start out many years ago with no experience, and work my way up to feeling confident enough in my body to let myself really enjoy anal play. It always helps to be with someone who is gentle and understanding.

In MY fantasies, I am a Princess, and MY Prince doesn't always ride in on a white charger. Sometimes he worships me and my body. Sometimes he stomps in wearing boots and leathers and flogs me until I am sore. Sometimes he plays Doctor, and we have an enema-tastic time. And all of these pleasures can exist within one bedroom.

edna

I agree completely that enemas can be romantic. They are certainly stimulating.......

SwitchableSusie

I wouldn't say enemas are romantic, but they certainly are intimate.

MissStress

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I wouldn't say an enema is romantic. But the sex during, while my sub's ass is being filled, is pretty darn good.

My sub might think being given an enema, just as an enema, would be a good way for me to say "I love you". I'm not demanding anything else from him except for him to relax and enjoy.

nytwatch1

Yes N N they are .... and they are not .Barbara could say come here and I would dam near com in my pants . She passed in 2011

my new lady was so munch into pot I had to ask her to leave it didn't matter how much she liked to play with me and yes she even pegged me as it is I want a nouther Barbra

edna

Viva la difference.! Enemas are decidedly different things to different people and it's all acceptable unless it is causing harm.

n/a

I would venture to say, the enema between 2 people can be a very sensual and romantic act. Also the feeling of being close to the giver while she administers the enema gives a true feel of trust and sometimes complete release to the other person.

n/a

Maybe I need some good enemas to get energy! I'm hoping to get an enema set this weekend! I want to share it with my love! I am hoping he will be up for it! Even if he isn't, I may have to force it on him. Maybe a dirty nurse coustume would help him get into it!

naughtydoc

Sounds like we are both lucky Hubbies Tanya. I hope the e session went well and was plenty romantic.

ShamanE

I can't be with a woman if she is not into enemas...

tip

In my long life the women with whom I have been most deeply involved-especially my wife of 30 years- have either been enema erotic or learned to share my fetish.If approached gently and firmly I think that most sexually sensitive women will find them intriguing.After all,in my experience,Ive never known a woman who didn't like to have a finger gently inserted in her anus during intercourse.What say youi ladies?

Mashie

By now we all know my real feelings about receiving enemas. They are not my favorite. But I did have a pretty romantic enema as I was coming out of my sickness. I remember it like it was yesterday actually. We were both on our left sides curled up completely naked. He had the bag sitting up on my right hip. He was curled up against me. We had full skin on skin contact at all times and he ran the warm water in nice and slow. It was nice, actually it was wonderful, but I won't tell him that lol. So we will just keep that between the good folks here on the board, lol.

Mashie

jimmyt44

Damn Mashie, Doc may turn you into a klysmo. after all.

n/a

Mashie's hooked on enemas!!, nee-ner-nee-ner, nee-ner!! That feels nice, going up yer' butt, doesn't it??!! 😃 Curling up together, is my favorite way of giving an enema, too!! 😉 Glad you enjoyed that, Mashie!! Mike.

docinny45

It was nice, actually it was wonderful, but I won't tell him that lol. So we will just keep that between the good folks here on the board, lol

I promise I won't tell him.. Oops, too late!

Mashie's hooked on enemas!!, nee-ner-nee-ner, nee-ner!!

Don't taunt the newbees, you'll scare them away! Hehehe

Doc

n/a

Not taunting our Mashie, as I don't think we could. . .In reality, we are all celebrating. . .Way to go, Doc & Mashie!! 😉 Mike

eneturk

Yes they really are. The biggest regret of my life is that I have never had a wife or female partner who was into Enemas. In fact, most made fun of my love of them. Even today visiting various E-nurses, most are much too clinical, not that i expect anything more from them. Before I check out of this world, my one desire is to find a woman who could fulfill this desire to make Enemas a part of our Intimate times together. It is such a turn-on which is something that I miss as I get older. Sigh, perhaps my nurse/partner/soul mate is still out there somewhere. I can dream can't I?

gdfru

Eneturk,

Yes they are, and I did have such a partner for 46 years. Now alas I miss it as do you as far as having someone. Of course there is so much more to a relationship, respect, shareing experiences and looking for ways to help others and develop our own contributions to society.

On this, or some other board was suggested some kind of pin or symbol we would wear that only those with a similar interest would share/recognize. Does anybody remember that?

tip

Although I had had enemas as a child-1930s Dr next door-I really didn't become deeply aware of their sensual possibilities until I started dating became a very close relationship.Unfortunately a nursing student when I was in college.What started as "OK,Ill let you practice on me"to "you sit on top while you give me the enema"Unfortuneatly,she wanted to,and did,marry a doctor.But we are still in touch.I think that nothing is a better basis for closeness than a shared enema fetish!

jimmyt44

Before you "hook up" with a nurse, make sure SHE IS INTO OUR KINK! While in undergrad. school I dated a new R.N. and married her my senior year. I ASSUMED she's be into erotic enemas. She was an expert at giving them, but couldn't figure out why I'd screw her brains out after she gave me one. I got many from her, because I'd make her think I really needed them, but she saw nothing sexual in them. I talked her into taking a few from me for probable health needs, but she never liked getting them at all. We had 3 kids (2 that lived), but divorced after 12 years. After that, she went to seminary and became a Lutheran Pastor. (She never remarried) I ask my sons how she is doing and they tell me she is STILL the world's expert on everything.

Cedar

(She never remarried) I ask my sons how she is doing and they tell me she is STILL the world's expert on everything.

Hi, jimmyt44, I married her sister, Mrs. Right. Her first name is Always. Her middle name is Always.

Heavy sigh.

jimmyt44

Cedar, when I wanted to be "snarky", I'd say to her, " I never dreamed the massive amount of info. and subjects that nursing schools taught.; taxes, accounting, small electrical repair, landscaping, automotive maintenance, etc." Her expertise on taxes got us audited by IRS 3 times.

She was often wrong, but always SURE! The first Lutheran church she got in Cleveland, she was the associate pastor and the church council asked the lead pastor to get rid of her, because she KNEW the best solutions for all church issues. I could go on, but it's pretty boring.

Cedar

You can always tell people who know it all. You just can't tell them much they don't already know.

She was often wrong, but always SURE!

I like that line. I think I will borrow it from time to time, if you don't mind.

Mathgirl

Yes, for me enema time with my SO is very romantic. It is part of our love making -- the ultimate intimacy. NaughtyNurse said it so well so many years ago when she started this thread. As with anything sexual, it is what you believe it to be. Giving an enema is part of my need to care for and nurture my SO. I am privileged to be able to connect so personally with him. We call them "loving" enemas.

anitaanne

Gynedoll ,

You are right on ! What a beautiful explanation of the romantic aspects of being given an enema.

Ms Lila

Yes, for me enema time with my SO is very romantic. It is part of our love making -- the ultimate intimacy. NaughtyNurse said it so well so many years ago when she started this thread. As with anything sexual, it is what you believe it to be. Giving an enema is part of my need to care for and nurture my SO. I am privileged to be able to connect so personally with him. We call them "loving" enemas.

@Mathgirl, I'm fairly new to enemas and my husband and I began about the same time. I love having sex with him and have for the past 25 years, but our enemas started out as erotic sex play. However we noticed that giving and receiving enemas from each other was more intimate and caring, especially when we used enemas during the afterglow. There is a little more to an enema than meets the eye and gives us a chance to show we care for each other above and beyond our sex.