Is it gay to change each other with the same sex?

Ok i have to say this bothers me, is being changed by someone of the same sex gay, and some ppl are saying yes?

NO!

It is NOT, although i will admit it can be, for many a diaper change is a diaper change. For some it is something more. To the original poster of the question, i would have to ask a couple questions

Do you enjoy it sexually in any way?

Do you get aroused by it?

Do you do anything else while getting changed, or after?

Would any of those answers change if the person changing you was the opposite gender?

If you answer yes to all 4 then yes it may be gay for you.

If you answer no to all 4 questions, then to you it is just a diaper change.

Anyone who thinks i am wrong.......

PROVE IT

I hate ppl saying "Oh you do with another , that is so .

You are aware that statistics say a major majority of ABDLs are male, sometimes if you want to experience a changing you need to find a guy, if you get one and it turns you on and need release, then it may be gay.

Now i wish to apologise, i know this seemed like an angry rant, and it kind of is, we have enough trouble being understood by non ABDLs, having abdls stereotype us is even more wrong. But back to my apology, I do not mean to offend anyone, and this isnt targeted at anyone specific, i just wish some people would think more before they say narrow minded things.

And if you have a problem with my post feel free to send me a message and tell me why.

Its not, unless someone gets aroused....

At least in my experience, i didn't feel gay when my diaper was changed by another guy. First, I'm not gay (as Sienfeld says, "not that there's anything wrong with that"). You are or you're not. During those times I was sharing diaper play with a guy, the focuss was always on the diapers for both of us. We had spent the day on a public adventure and some prior "fiber supplement loading" led to sevral enourmous loads. I had never done that with another person and it still gives me chills when I remember the feeling of him feeling the seat of my diaper and telling me what a naughty boy I had been. Back at our room he was more firm in his manipulation of the load while he massaged the front of my diapers. It was without a doubt one of the most intense orgasms of my life. He treated me like a naughty diapered bedwetter who had a poo accident. My hands were free to suck my thumb I didn't feel it was gay at all. Later in the afternoon it was his turn. He filled his diaper with a mega poo and I had just as much fun 'doing" him.

No in no way is it gay in any way to be caring enough to give a friend a hand with his or for that matter her diaper change.

Its only gay if there is a sex act involved . PERIOD!!!!!

Simply put...no lol