His secret is out

My husband confessed to me that his step mother used to give him enemas. he said that it got to the point that he would do it to himself because of the feeling. she used the bulb type syringe. when he told me about it i almost came in my panties. now he claims he doesn't like that sort of thing anymore but i think he is a big fat liar. once you get a thrill up your ass you don't get over it. am i right???

See if you can get him under your bulb just once, relaxed and in an environment of total positive enema vibs. Then see how he reacts. Maybe even a little help from you will get the event stimulated. PS I think he is just trying to bury it and not let it bother him in that way.

Thanks for the tip. since finding this site i have been leaving my bag in the bathroom in plain site...no comment from him so far but i am not giving up.

Ooooh Suzy, if you are able to give him a warm seneual enema - he will beg for more.

You're right Suzy, once he gets the thrill up his ass he will beg for more. I'm sure of that..... 😁

But remember that if you do get to give him a sensual enema and he still says he doesn't like it, then take him at his word. If he was lying to you or yourself, he may ask to have one. But if he doesn't like them you won't be beating a dead horse.

Oh no...i would never want to do it to him if he didn't enjoy it. but i have my fingers crossed. 😉

Just so you have your fingers on his bum and spreading his cheeks for some nozzle insertion. LOL Good luck.

Suzyjul:

Since his step mom gave him bulb enemas, perhaps you need to leave a bulb laying around instead of a bag OR maybe both....Good luck...Jimbeaux

You might try making light of the situation by buying a bulb, painting his name on it and leave it in plain sight in the bathroom. I'll bet it will bring some sort of comment.

I'm thinking you'd be correct!

If it felt good once then chances are it will feel GREAT again. It may take a bit of role playing or imagination, but I'm betting you can rekindle his desire, or perhaps he is fibbing and is testing you. You may have to become the Stern parent or Grand parent, but I'd say you have a darn good shot at filling him up.

I'm hoping for you he will ask you and I would like you to post how it goes so if my wife decieded to I will know what to do

Update...after leaving my bag out and getting no comment i said something to him. i told him that i have been giving myself enemas since i was young. he asked why i had never told him before and i said i guess i thought u would think i was weird. he said 'no, i don't think u r weird.' i asked him why he had not made any comment about the bag left out n the bathroom. his comment was, 'honestly? i thought u had been douching' ??? i had left the enema nozzle so that it could b seen and when i said that to him he said he didn't know the difference. when i brought up his stepmother giving him enemas when he was young and that he had once told me he got a kick out of it he claimed he never said it. i did not push the matter any further... but now he knows that i do and i am still hoping something will cum of it.

If you supply a little gentle encouragement to him, and make sure he understands it is a sexy game that you are going to play with him, I suspect you will get all the cooperation that you could want. Maybe he is waiting for you to "talk him into it!"

If I were you, I'd ask him to give you one. Tell him you're sore and it would be very relaxing for you if he could do you the favor. Hint at a reward too. I'll bet that doing so would get him in the E-mood and hopefully fantasizing.

Sounds like a good possibility coming up,

when he gets to give you one might just bring back the memories for him

Try using some role play as his "step mom". Explore similar scenarios that might stimulate a response.

Dear Suzette:

Perhaps he feels that liking enemas -- even small ones -- might mean that he is a latent homosexual. Or perhaps the fond memories of liking the bulb enemas threaten his manhood or make him feel like a sissy. Our egos can be awfully weak and anything that threatens him (even a little) can evoke a strong defensive reaction.

Keep wearing down his defenses, Unless he can't remember when you've had intercourse, he knows that the bag hanging in the bathroom isn't a matter of you douching.

Maybe you should let him catch you in the act of giving yourself an enema in your bedroom (if that's where he might look for you when he gets home); or, whatever bathroom he uses to urinate when he first comes home, park your fanny aimed right at the door and let him see you giving yourself a large-volume enema when he walks in to pee. And while he's there in either case, ask him if he'll help you out with using the vibrator you have conveniently parked near you.

We men are such visual creatures -- he's been thinking about the bag hanging in the bathroom for some time. Now give him a really powerful visual suggestion that will get him to think about you -- and enemas -- for some time to come.

Support his ego. After you've had the chance to plant the image in his subconscious, let him know that enemas, rectal pleasures and anal response to stimulation doesn't make him gay. Tell him that it makes him more of a man.

Let us know, okay?

Suzette, If he hasn't had an enema in a long time you may have to start out small. It shouldn't take long to get to larger amounts. I'm just thinking about what might be most pleasurable for him.

Massage his penis and testicles as you, lube up his hole and slide in the nozzle, do it as part of the massage

As far as I am concerned you are definitely right. I received my introduction to enemas at the hands of my aunt when I was 16, and was caught masturbating with her panties. This was supposed to be a "deal" to not tell my parents, but I got such an erection with that first one, that I came all over her lap. I was hooked, and this continued until I was 28.

You need to take him over your lap for a good big bulb and don't forget a hard nice spanking on his little bottom with you slipper for being a big dam liar

Try bringing up the topic in a breathy whisper in his ear when he is already "up" for other sexual experiences.

Are you sure he is not taking them without you even knowing it?

Its always best to check a persons profile before commenting. The original poster has not been on the site for 2+ years.

Noted in advance, Crankshaft. Too bad for Suzette. But I don't think that in itself makes the thread not worth adding a current comment to.

Hugs,

Diane

I didn't really mean it to sound bad or that no one should add new. Was just a heads up for people that may think the original one that posted the topic would be seeing the new ones.

You must feel deep inside yourself that enema it is a sacred, mystic, outstanding thing which owns your and make your free and strong and light at the same time...Join your soul with enema...You must want surrender to your enema and you get the lighting inside you and feel great pleasure, joy and wellness...Just relax and get it into you...

An enema is a warm sensual thing between two people - it shouldnt take too much to convince your partner of that.