Pegging

Hi! What do you think about pegging? What can you tell about your first time? How did you started? Who initialized this idea in your relationship, was it your idea or your partner? Was it scary to tell him or her about this fantasy? General talk, I've found few mentions on forum about pegging. I think this is an appropriate place to start this topic.

I am the peggee. My wife and I explored anal play together from the beginning of our relationship. I enjoyed when she played with my ass with fingers and then a dildo. One time while reading a sex toy catalogue together she saw a strap-on and suggested that we get one. It took several years to buy the first kit because I was nervous. After we got it in the mail I wrote out in a letter to her what I wanted her to do. Enema, lube, fingers, then strap-on. The first time I was on my stomach and she did everything as I had imagined and it was incredible. To this day the best orgasm I have ever had. I loved submitting to her while she plowed my ass.

I love this kind of sex play 😃

I would love being the "peg-ee"! 😮

This is not uncommon for me, and I've found that many women love the role reversal. They've told me how much they've loved "having a dick", and being the fuck-er instead of fuck-ee.

Probably a lot more likely to meet women who would enjoy this kind of play over enemas, but can be a good segway as well.

Pegging is something that I wanted to try for years and even though I had anally erotic partners and we both wanted to try it, it just never happened. That is until I went on a date one time to a sex expo with one of the more sexually adventurous partners I've ever known. We seen a strap on, she made a joke about drilling me with it, I said yes and the rest is history. Was a pretty memorable experience. Today, my long term partner and I do it on special occasions and both love it. I love it for the obvious and she, as someone else mentioned, digs the role reversal. I'm looking to find or build her a harness that has a built in plug for her bum and something in front for a clitoral stimulation.

MMMMMMMM first time I heard it called pegging. I love getting it with a strapon

dbl

Pegging is a major turn on for me. The buns up position is most satisfying, but the missionary and spooning positions also work. I like the role reversal as well as the prostate and rectal workout. A position I have only been able to try once, and at my age am probably not limber enough to do again (though I wouldn't mind giving it the old college try if I ever had the opportunity), uses a long double headed dildo. The dildo goes in each of the anuses, each facing the other, with the legs straddling the other. Rocking back and forth, I brought her off with a vibrator while she gave me a hand job.

I've never tried this but would love to get my wife to peg me. The thought of being the fuckee for a change is exciting, but how do you broach the subject?

On my last visit to my E-nurse, she gave me several enemas, even with a bulb, and a good butt hole massage with her favorite glass anal probe. When she was finshed with that and I was completely clean, I was at her side while she was cleaning all the toys. I spotted something in her suitcase and asked what it was.

It turned out to be a strap-on. As we were talking and petting each other, she said to lay down and wait for her. I did lay down and lit a cig. She called out for me to get on my stomach. Next thing I knew, she had her slim finger running up and down my crack, then deep inside with what seemed like some sort of vaseline. She then wiped off her hands, grabbed my hips, and pulled me to my knees and pushed my shoulders down. I felt something strange teasing my butt, then something start to enter a little at first, then back out. This went on for a few minutes, then it went in deeper, then she stopped for me to get used to it. She started to giggle, then slipped it in deeper. She took a picture of it in me.

Deep down, something inside touched. I think it was my prostate. Well, I went limp, fell back to the bed. Pulling it out, she laughed and said, "Now you know who that lady is I see in the park every so often."

It has long been my fantasy to peg a guy, or hell, a girl in da butt. I think I can talk my man into it,though it may take about 20 years to get him there.

Keep us informed on your progress with that 😃

The practice of "Pegging" actually refers to it going both ways. You do your wife/gf up the ass and then she returns the favor with a strap-on. It doesn't refer to just strap-on play by itself.

my favorite part of strapon play is that moment of anticipation where my wife rests the head of her biggest fake cock right against my ass and doesn't push so I can feel and think about how big the head is. It feels like an eternity and then she begins to push very, very slowly.

depending on the mood on any given day I dare say sometimes its better than enemas... both together is certainly divine.

I beg to differ with sensualgiver's definition -- to the best of my knowledge, Dan Savage coined the phrase in his column, "Savage Love", and it referred to female-to-male anal sex, not "going both ways"... but that sounds like a lovely scenario?

i absolutely adore getting pegged -- i use a dildo on myself in the shower almost daily, and have my g/f use it on me occasionally too...

Oh yes very yummy. I look forward to getting "pegged" after I am given an enema. The slippery cyberskin dong feels wonderful penetrating deep with long strokes as I hold the enema in. A hand-job in sync with the strokes brings me to climax pretty quickly. Love it you should try. 😘

I've had women take my ass with dildos, vibrators, strap-ons and their fist. Never found any method I didn't like.

ldb

I would love to find a lady to peg me. My wife is turned off by the idea but I think it is very hot.

I think a lot of women would enjoy pegging a guy once they got into it. Guys would get to see what anal is all about and why gentle is better. Most guys once they got use to it would want it more often and the woman could have their fun.

I love this thread!

A little background will shed some light as to why this subject is so dear to my heart. I have been sexually repressed most of my life, willing to tolerate what the men in my life have offered in the way of sexual satisfaction. Although my experience has not been as varied as some others’, I have had the pleasure of one or two memorable lovers and some truly inept ones. More of the latter than the former I’m sorry to say.

As I’ve gotten older, I’ve become much more selective as to what I was willing to put up with. Then I had my medfet “ah-ha” epiphany and shortly thereafter I met my current partner. Before we even met face-to-face, I clearly remember him telling me that he was probably the one man I’d have in my life who would happily accommodate any suggestions or ideas that I had regarding medical play and sexual experimentation.

Although it might seem pretty “white bread” to most; it took me a quite a while to work up the courage to even suggest strap-on play. When I finally did broach the subject he said “Geez honey, I thought you’d never suggest it”! Although he was a strap-on virgin himself, he loves anal play and all kinds of insertions. We purchased a traditional harness and “implement” and used it during the first extended play session we had together. Even though it was pleasurable for both of us, it wasn’t the “skyrocket” experience we were both expecting.

On the recommendation of another member of this forum, we invested in a Feeldoe (NFI) and used that the next time we were together. OMG, that’s what I’m talkin’ about!! I think the difference was the lack of a harness between us and the intimacy of skin on skin that the Feeldoe allows. It was exciting, exhilarating, enticing, even a bit of challenge. It gave me the opportunity to “take” him and it gave him the experience of being penetrated slowly, carefully and lovingly. In the end (pardon the pun), he took the whole thing and was wanting for more. Oh if only I had more to give, I would!

To say that we are confirmed in the practice of pegging would be something of an understatement. We both love it, and incorporate at least one such experience into each of our sessions together. He looks forward to it as I do, and we talk about it frequently.

Play On!

LadyDoc

Great post LadyDoc!

I got a FeelDoe for my wife to try on me, and it was pretty good. Since the Feeldoe has been on the market, Fun Factory has also put out a line of "strapless strapons" called Share, that I think improve on the Feeldoe design.

Unfortunately, I've never had the opportunity to try the Share with my wife, however the "bean" part of the Share works very well in the male anatomy, as well!

Mike

I'm a little surprised that nobody mentions enema dildos. One of the biggest thrills I've experienced is when my girlfriend takes a Doc Johnson squirting dong to me. This toy is easy to convert and stick a hose into. She slowly works this 7 inch dong in, and when the water starts to flow, it feels great! Once the 2 qts. is in, she grabs my hips and drives it deep! OMG!!! Doc Johnson also makes a realistic squirting cock that can be converted. This one is soft and very comfortable. I would like to find a large strap-on enema dildo for her. She thinks a double-headed enema dildo would be fun for simultaneous enemas while having sex. If anyone knows of a custom toy maker, please let me know!

I've pegged several of my female lovers. But alas, none of my male lovers would ever let e near their ass to touch let alone peg.

I would love to be taken this way.

I've always wanted to try this, but its been so long since I've met a local girl interested in the activity.

Maybe that will change soon!

I haven't been pegged yet, but I'd like to be some day.

My wife enjoys going at me wearing her strap-on and I love it when she does.......It has developed into one of our favorite activities !!!!! >😄

I have never tried it, but I am quite sure that i would love it. However I wouldn't really know how to ask for it. I guess the fear is to be misunderstood as having gay fantasies which is really not the case. One thing i think would be important would be that the strapon feels like an extension of my partners body and not just a dildo hanging from...well a strap. That way my partner would be able to control the dildo without having to control it with her hand. I was also wondering whether some strapons can give pleasure to the woman? E.g. by having a small vibrator or something to stimulate the clitoris while using the strapon, has anyone seen such a strapon?

Kargerrem, you need to buy a product called a Feeldoe. It's exactly what you are looking for. Trust me.

Lots of erotic fun doing this. Having a nurse for a wife adds to the excitement.She loves doing me this way,says it makes us even! >😄

Many straight men fear anal contact. What they are missing is that the anus (along with the prostate) is almost as much of a sex organ as is the penis. When I discovered that I ehjoyed anal contact my wife thought it was gay. I do not believe it. That said, however, I have also discovered that I enjoy a living penis in my posterior. I do not believe that pegging is the gateway to getting screwed in the butt, but I fell that many men are missing an etoric experience out of fear.