My new and my first

I got into a relationship with this girl who I knew from the 5th grade and she is really my first BF-GR relationship i ever had.We only have been BFGF for about a few days now and I don't know if i should tell her or not. If I should how should Ido it.

You never know she might be into diapers already. and all you can do is ask and be yourself.

No no dont tell her yet at this time! Cos you might scare her off and both of you are just in a relationship so just spent more time with her and find out more about her. When times fly like maybe 1 year in relationship then you can slowly tell her abit. But if you really wanna tell then i cant stop you who knows she likes! 😜 Good luck.

Just tell her. If she doesn't accept it then you two were just not meant for eachother.

Cold MJ, Kim is on a better track here I think. Or listen to our sage, Sandy and be a little patient. There is more to life and relationships than diapers. As much fun as they are, they should NOT be the only determining factor to your life. Go it slow, get to know, then, maybe you can show.

Imagine you being told by your partner that she gets off on hurting you physically when having sex. Would you feel weirded out? If your relationship was sexual from the start, this might not be a problem. Actually, in that kind of relationship it could even be asked for to be truthful about that kind of thing, and to break up if it doesn't fit in.

On the other hand, if you are having a "normal" kind of relationship, stuff like that should wait until shortly before or after you have had sex (And I don't mean that it should be included into your sex life just then, either. Your partner is the one doing the decision then). You might also consider not telling her for a long time about it, but personally I don't think this is a good idea as you can't hide it forever if the desire is strong in you.

I hope you learn how to talk to your girlfriend about touchy subjects before trying to tell her. There will probably be a lot of occurrences where it's good to know how to talk with your partner seriously, anyway. Other people have told their partners about their fetish during "bonding time" (i.e. when lying in bed, telling each other about dreams, cuddling etc. usually before or after having sex or before sleeping), so this might also be a good way to tell an open minded partner. You will probably know when the time is right, so don't rush it 😃

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(Personally I told my girlfriend even before we were together, but that's because she found out about it by chance. She doesn't like to participate)

The Way that I did is that I waited until me and her where comfortable with each other then I slowly brought it up until finally I had brought up enough courage to actually buy them and where them in front of her while we where about to do it. I would take it slow then ask her about her opinion about it. Then I would go from there.

I told my girl friend that I had a fetish shortly after we started dating, and once I felt comfortable telling her what it was, I did. I then let her know where she could find info on the internet about it. We talked about it after i asked what she had learned and let her know I would answer any questions she had. then about a week later i brought a diaper to her house and let her know that its there so she can check it out on her own with out me there. That way she can get familiar with it without any pressure. Then last night we got to use them while making love. The point is, to go slow and have fun with it. Let your partner go at there own pace.

At times the partner may not want to hear it all.