Sex while catheterized?

I read once in a handbook for disabled people that it is possible to have intercourse with a foley cath inserted. The instructions just said for the male to fold the tube along the base of the penis & use a condom, & for the females to just tape the tube to there abdomen... Has anyone ever tried this ? I'd be interested in hearing what it was like for both partners.

Ah, I think you forget that almost all men who have had a TURP (trans-urethral resection of prostate) end up having retrograde ejaculation. I have this and it in no way is dangerous. I believe the real issue is comfort. It would be very uncomfortable for both partners to have sex while the man is catheterized. I have never tried this. I have had sex with a catheterized woman with no issues. I also know when we arranged for a 47 yo male paraplegic to loose his virginity, we removed his cath first. The girl was a great sport and really helped his self-esteem as he had been injured when he was seventeen.

She was a friend, I thought she might find this an interesting experience, so I asked her. After the initial shock, she was receptive to the idea.

Speed

When you had sex with a girl while she had a catheter in, did it increase her orgasm at all? I know when I play with my girl's peehole she cum's like crazy so it would make sense that a catheter would be like massaging the urethra from the inside out.

Well, it was not a matter of choice for her as she was paraplegic from an improperly applied cast. A spur on the cast damaged her spinal cord. Thus,I could not possibly answer that. I know she claimed to have orgasms. It would be an interesting thing for someone to explore and report here.

Speed

I am afraid it would pull and hurt. I have had an orgasm while catheterized and that was really hot but I don't know about out and out hot sex. I guess I am just chicken.

I've had a number of patients who really enjoyed vaginal intercourse with a flexible sound embedded in their urethra. The flexible sound is slick vinyl with a diameter equal to about Fr24. It has an enlarged stainless steel tip size Fr28. I insert it until the tip enters her bladder. That helps keep the sound in place. It's easy to feel the bulge made by the sound with my finger pressed against the patients' upper vaginal wall. The patients typically report that there is a lot of extra stimulation due to the flexible sound keeping her urethra full. I prefer the flexible sound over a catheter because it stays in place better, and it doesn't need to be pinched or capped to prevent leakage. However, a catheter just before vaginal intercourse can also be useful as inserting it generally tends to sensitize the woman's urethra, and sterile water can be administered through the catheter to fill her bladder. Some women find intercourse with a full bladder to be especially stimulating.

I've added a few photos showing a recent patient who underwent therapudic vaginal intercourse with my flexible sound in her urethra. The albbum name is DrW. Here is the link www.zity.biz/index.php?action=album;sa=itmshow;catid=3202;sorto=ASC;sort=date

I may be a late comer to this party, but I have had catheters in frequently, and getting an erection while they are in leaves no room for the cath to do anything but stick straight out front. I'm not a big guy (penis wise) and so I find it hard to beleive a guy could have sex with a cath in unless he was very very small. If I try to "fold it back" when I am erect, it pulls very severely on the bladder and the whole urethra. It hurts..

I too have never had "sex" while cathed but have had oral or got jerked off with the cath in. I've read a lot of articles to be careful not to cum while cathed but I haven had any problems in the 15 or so years I've been doing it.

This is true, you can fold catheter alone the underside of the penis & roll condom over but wife was not keen on that idea so we choose to remove catheter instead.

(This was the advice giving by NHS in UK)

I don't think it would be very comfortable for the female anyway.

Ive still yet to have intercourse with a foley in. however I did roll a condom over it and masturbate which didn't seem as painful as without.. but the dried ejaculate on the foley hurts like hell.

I agree with Shavdnude. Although if somehow there was a way to do it comfortably, I would love to have sex with a catheter in.

I think alot of it depends on endowment... if you are on the larger side, there is no folding the tube back... unfortuntnatly I wasn't blessed that way. so even rock hard I can bend back 4 inchs or so.

For the record, it's the most intense sex a guy will ever had, albeit very short lived.

After my wife had several drinks, and I still we wearing my Silastic 16fr + belly bag(1/3rd full), she mounted me before I had a chance to remove everything..

With a lot of lubrication, you'll blow your load in a minute(at least I did), there is some pressure/pulling because the balloon is being pulled up against the bladder hard with each stroke.

In this case she was a bit irritated because I was 'out of service' in about a minute instead of the usual 10-15.. oopps. 😃

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For the record, it's the most intense sex a guy will ever had, albeit very short lived.

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Did you bend the catheter back or how did it work so that it was not extremely uncomfortable?

To add to my earlier post,

Although I never tried it I can understand how enjoyable it could be because the difference between cathed & uncathed masturbation, but the risk of cleavage of the glans must run high with this practice.

There was a story some time ago about a mother who inserted a cath into her daughter after she was found having sex with her boyfriend, the cath was suppose to be a type of chasity belt - - well it didn't work and the girl and boyfriend continued to have sex. Although carefully to prevent peeing on the bed.

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Did you bend the catheter back or how did it work so that it was not extremely uncomfortable?

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It wasn't bent back, I was still wearing my belly bag, laying on my back & my wife lowered herself on me. we were both lubricated, so it went right in, but I didn't last long at all..

I'd like to know where Dr. Wellhung gets the flexible sounds. I enjoy sound play and want to incorporate it with others but a flexible sound would bring another dimension to the play.

I had sex with a woman with a cath in and she loved it.

How did you make it so that it was not uncomfortable for you?

I read this very ambiguous one sentence post to mean he had sex with a woman who was wearing a catheter. The poster needs to clarify.

Speed

It's possible to have sex catheterised simply buy inserting a spigot in the catheter to avoid leakage,and then rolling the condom over the coch whilst support in the tip of the catheter in front.It causes very rapid orgasm as the catheter tip causes a high level of stimulation as it slightly stretches the urethra with thrusting. It's also possible (but messy) without a condom.

You'll find a video of it on Lobstertube .com

Must be a very intensive sensation..

My wife had a bad bladder infection an had to be catheterized and it was hot to see her pee hole with the tube coming out.

She had the bag tied to her leg and boy did I want to bang her while she had the catheter in.

I was also hoping the doctor would teach me to catheterize her but nope.

I did taste her pee though every time I emptied the bag for her and she would be laying in bed all spread out waiting for me to attach the bag again.

I've never done it, but would certainly be willing to try! Orgasm feels wonderful with a cath in, and for me it heightens the sensations leading to orgasm considerably. As another poster pointed out; I can't imagine it would take long!

I have had a catheter several times, but have never had sex while cathed. This sound like a very interesting idea and might have to be attempted sometime.

My wife recently had to have foley put in due to her tilted uterus. i've not talked her into intercourse yet. but I was able to give her a few good orgasms with the catheter in. it seemed like it was very much enjoyed.

Just tried sex while my wife had a fr26 catheter inside her bladder. It was soo hot! One have to try it to understand the tingeling sensation. Definitively something we are going to do again!