How many of us think of enemas during regular sex

I know I often do. My partner knows of my special interest and probably knows when I am not totally "into it" with her. But over the years this has sometimes bothered me. I love all kinds of sex play, and of no surprise to many here have always been an ass man. But an enema thought or two during any sex play greatly effects my performance. How much do you think our partners know or care??? Has anyone else thought of this or discussed it with their partners? Phil

I know that my enema interest is definitely a fetish ... probably clinically as I cannot reach orgasm without the thoughts of enema, medical, or some other such play. I have told my husband this, he doesn't care. Occasionally he will even indulge me 😃 Actually, most of my thoughts happen while receiving oral sex, not during during penetration sex.

J.

Good question. I'll answer. I think of enemas during "regular sex" quite often, but not all the time. Usually I think about my partner getting an enema as he penetrates me. If I'm getting oralled, I think of receiving an enema at the same time. Lately, my boyfriend has been doing a lot of oral in a 69 position on top of me and I get to see all of his goodies which are quite attractive as far as goodies go. I get terribly distracted thinking about a hose emerging from his very fetching-looking bottom. I'm terrible! I know it!

Arianna

I can't come without thinking of enemas. None of my partners until recently had a clue because I was too ashamed to admit it. Then I found this site, and while I still figure that I'm a freak, I now know I'm a freak in good company (love you guys!). I got over my shame,told my (now ex) husband, and he didn't care. I told my last several partners, and while they were somewhat receptive, we never played.

My darling now knows about my fetish and loves it. He knows all he has to do is say "You need an enema, sweetie," and I'm putty in his hands.

I am so lucky, I know it.

Alot of good things come from this site-it just takes time! 😁

How might I feel if a sex partner had a strange (to me) fetish that drove her up the wall with lust. I do not think I would have a problem indulging it as long as I felt some appreciation and closeness with this person. But I am sure there is a line for any of us where it might start to get unconfortable.

My wife is not really into sex and hasn't been for 28 years or so. She will indulge me but her referring to herself as a "receptacle" does sort of take the hard breathing out of it. I think most sex is mental and so I find myself thinking about the enema stories I have read or maybe the barium hospital enema I once received to be able to come. I wish it could be better but guess it could be worse.

I do ... that's how I get off. My husband likes to play with my anus and have anal sex but, he doesn't know anything about my enema desires. So, when we're having sex and he's playing with my anus and fingering my ass I fantasize about having my temperature taken rectally and then being given an enema.You know - being made to bend over and take it. Works every time😃

The problem with me is when I think of enemas during sex,well,I cum too soon and that aint good for my wife.

Let the good times FLOW to the max,three quarts would do just fine.

I'm actually more inclined to go the other way!

When I'm not getting a clear return, and don't feel like taking another enema, fairly often, thinking about having sex "when it's all over" gives me the strength I need to continue until I achieve a clear return!

Speaking for myself, many times I think of sex when taking enemas. When one partner loses interest in sex, at least enemas are a nice way to orgasm.