Should I lie to her?

I have been with this girl for about 6 months, I am really into her, I really love her openmindedness but I am very reluctant telling her that I like to wear, But the reason for being reluctant is that I have a strong feeling that she might think the wrong thing. So i was wondering if i should wet the bed intentionally once or twice and blame it on the current stress in my life, and maybe then she would participate? Please help me with this topic, I really need a creative way to present this to her

One thing you might try Eurobaby, if you haven't already? Engage her in some conversation about sex and kinks, or kinky things. For example, maybe you could ask her if she likes anything out of the ordinary? Or, what is the kinkiest thing she's ever done, or thought about doing? Ask if she likes anything along those lines, or close to those lines.

This may open up the door for her to ask you, or for you to bring your diaper wearing to her.

Don't lie to her - It will catch up with you in the end and she will not trust you.

Don't fake it, because that will be found out later, too. Again, she will lose her trust in you.

If she is as open-minded as you think, then just sit down with her and talk about it. If it repulses her, then it is better now than later, when it will be much worse.

One thing a friend of mine did was to ask her to write down the 5 kinkiest thing she liked...and he did the same. Then they swapped notes! Amazingly, she was in to a couple of the same things he was, and the rest were fun to learn!

You should totally be honest with her. if she leaves then it was not meant to be.

I mean, if she found out later that you were lying, it will probably be alot worse!

I agree with everyone above, lying is not the way to go.

I speak from experience. I was introduced to this fetish by a guy I was dating. He was straight up with me about everything. Told me not to google it or anything (so I wouldn't get the wrong idea), but he answered all of my questions. It's all about baby steps. I accepted his fetish, role played with him wearing, and now am at the point where I'd be open to wearing. It'll happen in due time my friend, if she's as open as you say.

Good luck!

Never be dishonest. It comes back to bite you big time later!

Dishonesty will kill the relationship. Just tell her about it flat out.

I guess the answer here is do not lie, but there is some difference of opinion about how fast and how much you should tell her.

It's all about baby steps

is my suggestion also. I love the irony of this statement DiaperGirl102. Bill gave some good stuff too if you can work it into a conversation.

Does she have a kink? When I was dating my ex, she had a beautiful pair of leather pants she would never wear, because they were "naughty". In talking with her about "naughty" she revealed she really liked wearing the pants, liked the way they felt, but was nervous people would know they made excited her. I asked her to wear them indoors for me, and pretty soon she went out in public with me.

Well, a few months after that, I started off with "You know how you feel when wearing your leather pants? ...Well, it's the same kind of feeling I get...." She stayed with me for 4 years of marriage. We split for other reasons.

Lying will get you no where and oftimes backfires. if you are serious about her. Be straightforward. I always have been in my relationships. im mariied now 10 years to a beautfiul women who shares this lifestyle now with me and more.

Honestly........if you have to lie about it, they arent worth keeping around. Whoever you decide to share your life with should accept you for who you are.

ever hear the saying "I would rather be unpopular for who i am than popular for whom im not"?

or "to thine own self be true"?

honesty = the best option

I just got my gf at the time to tell me her weirdest kink. Turns out my dl lifestyle was pretty bland to her. After that, I had no problem opening up.

Maybe you should tell her about your diaper fetish. But if you feel your fetish could harm your relationship I do not think it is a good ide to tell her about it. You could bedwetting and tell her you might need diapers when you sleep. Maybe she will agree

The worst thing to do is to lie to her or not tell her if you are really having feelings for her. It will send you down the wrong path and if she can't get a good grip on it, it will make both of you miserable.

The simple answer is to be upfront and hoenst about your likes.

If she freaks over it then you know early it isnt going to work, if you doesnt then you have a friend for life.

If you try hiding anything it will alwysa catchup with you.