Response to: "No, I'm hairy. I'm proud of my bush its a sign of manhood."
Hmmmm I'm not sure about that. Some of the hairiest and bushiest people I know are as gay and queeny as they come.
Indeed, lol.
i'm gay and not fem at all. It's sometimes frustrating to have to come out yet again to a woman friend hitting on me, or her wondering why i haven't hit on her, because i am (apparently), not obviously gay.
i'm not super hairy, but kind of in the middle? When i was married (to a woman), my wife used to call me "cotton tail," if that's an indicator? When i shave, i shave my chest and ass, very closely trim my V and shave my balls. i like the way it looks much more, and love the way it feels (especially my ass).
i had let it grow because i've been crushing back on a guy who has been crushing on me and He likes hairy. Even though He's in Missouri and i'm in Oregon lol, still let it grow in deference to Him (He didn't even know). Then about a week ago i got all horny talking to a Dom guy online and ended up shaving everything from the neck down. i hadn't shaved anywhere below the neck in about 5 months, so it was kinda like cutting the lawn for the first time in spring. For the first time ever, i included my legs.
i confess, the psychological impact of being shaven is pretty big with me. i feel fucking sexy, very bottom, and love the way it feels when i shower and wash my ass with moisturizer soap lol. i can see it as a psychological control place for a Dom who might want to 'feminize' a non fem guy, it sure works on me internally anyway.
i don't feel the same way when i am hairy. i will do what pleases my mate in that area, but my inclination is towards hairless.
Many of the gay guys i have known who sport hair, do so because they consider it "a sign of their manhood." Some are indeed "as queeny as the come" and others you'd never know are gay. I.e., they are masculine and being gay doesn't alter that.