Exam by Female Doctor

I had diarrhea for about 1 week and I went to a female doctor. She was young in her early 30s. She examined me. Everything was professional, but when she examining me she asked me to unbutton my trousers and I did. There was nothing more than this. She only wanted this to examine my abdomen easier. Then she told me it's OK. I was very excited, my penis was not hard but I was sweating too much. When I dressed up she asked me why have you sweated so much and I had nothing to say. I said I don't know. How turning on it would be if I said that was because of my fantasy of you examining my penis 😃

I had an employment exam a while back and the doctor turned out to be a female. I found it extremely embarrassing to have her examine my penis and testicles. Later I found it exciting though.

I have always enjoyed being examined by medical females. However, I cans ee the intensity of the exam (and thoroughness ) vary consierably, with occ, the APRN doing a more complete exam than the doc. Many times, it;s faster than having a tricorder passed over me "a la Dr, McCoy", but at other times, the nurse practitioner will take her time. I do enjoy being forced to stand in front of them, as they examine my penis and testicles.

I recently changed to a female primary care physician. I have to admit, having your prostate checked is more fun when there is a middle aged woman behind you(instead of a fat old man).

I have had a female doc since 2000. I see her twice a year: once for a physical and a six month follow up for BP and cholesterol. She always checks my prostate and genitals. I still find it exciting but I'm very comfortable at this point.

She has another female doc in her practice and two female APRN's. I have seen the APRN's for minor things and wouldn't mind if they performed my physical. I'm comfortable being examined by women. I still have a hint of embarrassment but find it exciting.

Plus they almost always do a better job including talking and listening better. I gave up male doctors ten years ago and haven't looked back since. It is extraordinary when I think about it, but I never had a genital exam and only once got a quick DRE from a male doctor, over a period of twenty years of male doctors. Now I get both at least once and year and usually twice a year from a female doctor who actually cares if I live or die, or live healthily, and is pretty to boot.

Sorry about your run of bad luck with female practitioners- based on what I hear from female friends and my wife, not all of the are incompetent.

I had similair experience. I had a bad cold and high temperature. One young female doctor examined me and told me to get my boxers down. She said that she needs to take my temperature anally. I was 17 then and I was really embarrased. She took my temperature in my butt and gave me a suppository. It was really embarrasing

I must be the female exception to this rule... although I think most of my female friends are as well.. I have had absolutely horrid experiences with male doctors, sometimes to the point of being traumatic...

I will absolutely, without a doubt, only see a female gyn. When choosing my gyn, i only looked at practices which were all female because i wouldn't even accept the chance that I might see a male gyn.

I also see a female psych for ADHD and only saw a male as a child when the doctor was my parents choice. This male Dr also misdiagnosed me.

My GP is also female and an extremely good diagnostician. I rarely see her because I have a PPO, but i would only see a female here as well.

The only exception to this is my orthopedic surgeon is a male and that's really only because he is the only doctor in the county who does the type of surgery I needed.

Mashie, I can support your theory. I do think there is a natural coupling thing that occurs between genders not just in medical care, but in other areas like education. I hear students for instance having an affinity for teachers of the opposite gender in college etc.

There are exceptions of course and other preferences. I know that I have some friends that will not see a male gyn, specifically because " they do not want a male other than their husband touching them in that way"

My wife seeing a male gyn never bothered me. I actually enjoyed her relating, when she would, details of her exams.

When our 23 year old son was born, my wife went to a practice of 4 ob/gyns, 3 male and 1 female. She actually preferred seeing the males. My wife felt the female Doctor was less gentle then the males and the female Doctor seemed to have the attitude "I know what this feels like and don't whine about it."

I prefer the female doctors at my surgery. They're sooo much better than the male ones. Especially the nurse practitioner who I'm in love with!

In my opinion female doctors are more carefull, not to metion they are hot...

At my age (60s), I know literally dozens of men and women who have told me the same thing -- they prefer, all things being equal, a doctor of the opposite gender.

As far as I'm concerned gender attraction is one of great pleasures of being human. For the life of me I cannot understand the psychology of people who go out of their way to deny this central fact, but I can admit I do feel a bit sorry for them. That is not to say that if a person wants a doctor of their own gender there is something wrong with them. Not at all. But it is a shame they are missing out on such an easy and satisfying way to put aside a good deal of the anxiety of getting medical exams and procedures done.

And good for you for promulgating your views. I know there are some who would criticize a woman for admitting she likes a male professional after so many years of female under-representation. Or criticize a man as some kind of pervert for choosing women doctors. But the truth shall set you free and in this case, since insofar as I can choose all of my doctors now are women, I have more easily come through some pretty unpleasant situations precisely because my clinicians were women.

I prefer to see female doctors, but most of my family doctors have been male. I do find that female docs are more friendly then males, but that is just a generalization.

My primary care doc is male (been seeing him for over 15 years, like him, and not about to change), but he hired a female Physician's Assistant a few years ago. I go to his office monthly for B-12 shots, but normally only see him on every third or fourth visit. It was on of the injection only visits when Chris enters the exam room and introduces herself, then begins examining me. We chat about several things, and I mention as she is listening to my heart and lungs about how my lung function was compromised by serious complications after an auto accident 15 years ago. "Oh, I know all about that. You had ARDS, and you were lucky to survive." I have to tell you that she totally impressed me! She had read my entire chart (it is HUGE) before seeing me. Have seen a lot of her since then, and I like her a lot. Her exams are always unrushed and thorough, and she spends more time with me than the doctor does.

To answer the question that some may be thinking, no, she has not done a rectal exam on me, but if she did I have no doubt that she would be gentle, thorough, and professional about that, as she always is.

Bottom line is that I honestly don't care about the gender of my health care provider as much as their training, attitude, and communications skills.

"Bottom line is that I honestly don't care about the gender of my health care provider as much as their training, attitude, and communications skills"......Stargazer, I totally agree!

I was very sad to read some oppinions here,because, as a female doctor, I thought there was a little prejudice in some words....

Here in Brazil, most women prefer female gynos, so that their number is incredibly increasing....

Mashie said that, in the past,they thought women's education, wasn't as good as men's....it's true! But now, at 2010!!I can't believe someone could even think like this.

Personally, I don't mind the gender, if it's a good doctor....and people unsensitive, less gentle or comprehensive there are at both genders!

I have to agree with both stargazer and ninainj. I've seen both male and female M.D.s at various times in my life, and have never come to the conclusion that one type is necessarily better than the other - either in terms of professional competence or emotional empathy and support. Presently, my regular primary care physician and my gynecologist are both male. I didn't plan it that way - it's just that I found them to be good doctors, and have therefore stuck with them. I'd be equally as happy with them if they happened to be female.

By the way, I've been seeing the same female dentist for over twenty years, and wouldn't trade her for the world.

As I have mentioned in other posts, in general, I prefer female medical practitioners. Of course, there is the exception, that would be incompetence,that is not a gender specific thing. As to the present, I have over the years, gotten comfortable enough that when being examined generally,rectally or genitally by a woman and I start to become erect, I am no longer embarrassed by it. It is something that occurs naturally and to be cherished, it is a wonderful barometer showing that I psychologically and physiologically respond as I am supposed to.

Up until my early teens, it bothered me greatly to be seen by a female, the only exception was the girl across the street I grew up with, we trusted each other totally and were always examining each other while playing doctor until age 11 when her father was transferred and her family moved. Then, at 14 I needed a pre trip physical for an out of state camping trip I was going on in the southern rockies. I was seen by an on call female MD Osteopath, she was wonderful. When I became erect from having my genitals and rectum examined,she treated it as if though I was helping her and without hesitation, grabbed a disposable wipe to dab up the clear pre-ejaculate that was oozing out. From that point forward, as the years have gone by, I have become more and more comfortable having women examine me.

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I have a female orthopedist and I love it when she comes at me with a big needle to inject my shoulder. Maybe I do have a medfet for needles. I certainly like being on the syringe end.

The last time i was to a doctor was in a work relatation examination, that we must take every second year. It was long time since I had seen a doctor. But lucky for me it was a woman, I will think she was around 28-33 year. It was not a big deal. She not examinated me well. Easy in all thing she do. I was dissapointed for that little exam she gave me. She talked and write my story, took a seen test on me, listening a bit on my heart and a little on my lungs and the exam was over.

Female.

Personal physician is Female & excellent...

When i went for a job physical the doctor was a female. I had te undress untill my underwear and she examined me extensively. She listened to my heart and lungs and i had to drop my trousers.

Haven't had much luck with Female docs doing a through exam last 3 the prostate exam was about 1-3 seconds they seem very uncomfortable with it. I'm calm I even try to make it more professional by asking what they are checking for. I had one female doc about 10 years ago who as young Asian really hot in her early 30's she seemed to be very comfortable in fact she just had me stand and she sat with her face right in front of my penis. She left after about a year said she was starting a family had married some big heart surgeon didn't need to work.

My last Primary Care physician, who is an Internist is the very best physician I've ever gone to in my life. Unfortunately, I had to stop using her when I moved. She did a Rectal exam on me a number of times when I was having my annual check up. It was totally professional. But, that's OK with me, as I would be uncomfortable with anything else with her.

I have seen both male & female doctors;I tend to prefer female physicians. I once had problems with urination and feared a prostate problem. I visited a very competent female urologist who, after examining me (including a very thorough rectal exam), she diagnosed a bladder infection. She referred me for a medical test to make sure I didn't have any other kidney problems. While undergoing the test I mentioned to the technician how impressed I was with the doctor. The technician replied that my doctor was one of the most respected physicians at the hospital. I was sorry when I moved and could no longer see her.

I've also seen a female gastroenterologist for several colonoscopies due to a family history of colon cancer. She is not only competent but is quite pleasant and humorous to a patient about to undergo the procedure. The first time she performed the procedure on me I told her I had hoped Katie Couric would be present (this was soon after Katie had her own well-publicized colonoscopy on the Today show). I appreciated that she laughed at my rather lame attempt at humor. I have had several follow-up exams with her and she is one of the nicest doctors I've known.