Female members

Hi ladies,

As I may have mentioned in my intro. I was a member of the old LEJ, when it was for ladies ONLY.

Now I understand that the majority of the members of this board are men. Not that I have anything against men. I am married to one and have been for almost 30 years.

But we all know that men's approach to enemas is different from we ladies. This does not suggest that I think that the men on this board ejoy enemas any less that we do. It is just different.

I would like to open some discussions with other ladies; but I know that some men abuse the opportunity for private conversations. I do not know why, but I have had men try to hit on me in the past. What their motivation is to do this with a 68 year old, currently married. great grandmother; I have no idea.

So, can I hear it for the ladies? Is there some kind of head count that we can do? Maybe if each lady would go back to their profiles and indicate that they are female, maybe indicate a decade of age and a region of the country or coutries of residence;we might be able to sort out the wheats from the shafts.

Hugs,

Joan T.

Joan,

I enjoyed reading your post. I think all of the suggested information is already in my profile. I am in my early 50s, single, and currently unattached. I was in a relationship with a man who would have nothing to do with anything anal. I haven't been on this site long, just a few months and have only posted a few times. I have enjoyed reading the threads.

Lynn

I wish that more of the female members would say so in there profile and also the males It would be nice to know what sex is posting

I am not female. I did raise this question on other place here (see fantasies) and I did suggest that:

a. there are very few women.

b. I do suspect there are at least a number of men impersonating women

c. It is interesting to here women's fantasies related to enemas (from genuine women of course). If you read across here you will hardly find a word on that.

Women - tell us why?

carmiavi2000

As a gentleman, I would NEVER pose as a woman, anywhere, anytime. If you ladies want to discuss enemas among yourselves, more power to ya. Love to read what you have to say, but won't interfear with your scene. As for the post just above this one, it would be very helpful if women (and men for that matter) would identify themselves as such. Maybe we need a verification system as to age group, M/F, etc. Sure would make things a lot simpler for Both sexes. Lets NOT play games here, please.

I am not on the site regularly, but do enjoy reading the posts and sharing my thoughts from time to time. I enjoy chatting with males and females and don't mind men joining in this particular board (just my own opinion). I do agree that I don't like men posing as women. What is the point in doing that?

I think to part of the beauty of the internet is to be able to express ourself freely without worry of being judged based on sex, race, location etc.... i could care less who is what.. i am just heaar to learn and to relate to others who share my interest..just my thoughts

Joan T Well Done! Much Insight Into Our Special Community! Am a long time gentleman of the bag, was married for 15 yrs to a non e spouse, and seeking that new special woman for a ltr that might include a journey into the enema erotica genre. Look forward to reading more female comments. 😉

Hello!

I am one of those females who surfed enema forums/sites and read stories, etc. for several years. After reading posts on e4f I decided to join the forum and determined that when I joined, I would become an active member and post messages instead of passively lurking (as in the past).

I see posts concerning men posing as women, women posing as men, etc. I also see angry posts about female members being too shy to show ourselves on the site. People have their devious motives, and in this wonderful cyberworld, you will come across all types.

What led me to join this forum and "come out" (so to speak) about my interest in erotic enemas, is that many of the members are genuinely helpful, supportive and altruistic. An enema fetish is little out of the mainstream realm and is often misunderstood. It's comforting to know that there are others - both women and men - who understand and share a passion for enema fun!

Arianna

I tried not to say anything about this perticular subject but it is time to say it. This entire forum, website, call it what you wish, is about ENEMAS and people, I say it again PEOPLE( not females, males, gays, etc) who are interested in them. it is to exchange ideas, have conversations and who knows, perhaps learn a thing or two.

I simply don't like sections in this environment called 'WOMEN ONLY' or 'GAYS ONLY' etc segregations. Freedom of speech, remember our core values? If a female wants to just read and never show herself, so be it, if a guy who wants to act like a women, so be it. WHat's it to you? Are you going to date him? Do you feel more comfortable to talk to a female then a male? In that case this site may not offer you much since it is unisex and it should remain that way. More than half of so called users in this site do not display their age,gender and picture. Some who has picture, if you think, it is their real picture( I know, I know fewer acceptions, very little that it does not add to statistics)So be cool!! And let it be...

Joan:

Your post tickled me. Although not a great grandmother or, sadly, not yet even a grandmother, I have no problem being "hit on". If the guy is under 40, I will not respond. That would be a little too creepy. It does bother me that a man may be posing as a woman, especially if we began to send personal messages. Although, should I ever decide to actually meet an enemate, it would have to be a man. I am totally hetero and the idea of a woman getting that intimate, well, it doesn't seem right, but I may be seeing it a little too closed minded. Have to give it some thought. But I might talk on a more intimate level with a woman, so I would want to know. I have received some personal messages, some banal, some intelligent. I should commmunicate further. HAve been really busy, and maybe a little chicken to pursue something that could turn from fantasy into reality. I'm rambling. Enough for now.

San

Hi Joan,

There should be no mystery why some men are motivated to contact a 68 year old grandmother. Remember what this site is all about and that many if not most, started

their enema experience very young. It was usually the female(mother or grandmother) that administered the syringing in the family. Don't you think that some of us men would like to relive this memory with a lady who is now matronly and up in years?

Just talk would be fine for most of us. The word 'hit' may be a little strong when the intent may not have been sexual at all.

I am most definately male. I think it is very telling at a bright, intelligent 68 year old female gets "hit on for enemas". We all are here for a mutually shared fetish experience.One is never too old to enjoy a happy experience.

Sandor

This is in response to Sanwoman41's post about contacting a mature woaman for enemas.

He is right in thinking that as young people we all got our enemas from an older member of the house. In most cases it was the woman of the house, or some ther member of the family if they were staying with them for vacation or other times. I for one got my enemas from my mom, and an aunt while staying with her family during the summers.

Over the years I've had an urge to get re attached with her and perhpas pursue her giving me more enemas. Her family is all grown,married, and her husband died a few years ago. Being single now, I have more time to do things that I want.

In that light, I did make contact with her again, and after several months of reminessing, I aked her for an enema one night when I was dealing with a bad cold.

She took to the idea readly, and I really must admit, going through the motions of preppeing,and getting the enema was so great, bring back childhood memories of her and those earlier enemas. there was no sexual intent,and no frontal nudity on my part, out of respect. Just having her open to the idea of giving more enemas was a great thing, and I don't want to spoil it with any actions that may seem weird to her.

By the way, I'm in my 50's and she is in her early 80's but she looks great for her age, gets along super, and to me, is nice to have back in my life, reguardless of the enema involvment.

Joan

My first wife didn't like it at first but after we played with enemas during making love she liked it. My second wife doesn't want anythng to do with enemas She doesn't see how they could be fun. And although there are allot of women that attends this web site not very many will reply to a man's offer to help.

I'm a 44 yr. old female. I myself don't like enemas, but am trying to slowly work with my sub to some what enjoy them (he'd just love to fill me and fuck me to death). My sub has loved enemas since before we meet. He shared that love with me and for over 20 years it was a part of our sexual fun. He is the one who told me about this site and have enjoyed it ALOT. I've learned new recipes, suppositories, and even picked up a few ideas for role playing. I don't have an email on my profile because I don't want just everyone contacting me. You can contact me through the site. If I feel comfortable enough and both want to continue just talking, that is fine with me. I am much more open using the internet to talk. So contact or ask any questions you want.

46 yo. male here...checking in.

Several years back, I had a 'personal ad' on Yahoo where I explicitly stated I wanted to hear from a 'mature' woman for discussions about enemas. After quite a few fake leads, I received a very pleasant email from a 60+ yo woman who took enemas daily. She told me straight out she always masturbated while either taking the enema or while holding. We exchanged many emails (loaded with *lots* of motor-revving details) but then one day my emails to her started to 'bounce' and we lost contact.

The females are out there, if you are patient. Just don't be obnoxious.

Female, 47, Straight but curious about bi males, Married, not looking for enamate

Joan -- I DD or Dee. I'm a 54 year old female living in the southwest and am happily married. I love to chat. My Yahoo ID is dee_deedell -- DD

I am sorry to interfear and I am male age 65. I can appreciate Joan's dilemma about males and the raunchy, foul letters you get. You are not the first woman to run into this type of problem. I am not very proud of my gender.

I've been looking for a woman who is married ( I am and intend to stay that way)) just to talk about enemas. My wife does not participate giving or taking nor wants to. So I've been doing it by myself for over 25 years.

I would love to start a communication with a mature woman who is serious about enemas. I am homophobic so if I find out you are male I will cease immediately.

Any mature woman please write. I do not use foul language, am educated and have been into enemas all of my life.

Carl

I have never posted here before but I love to read all the post from all of you but I to think that every one that post anything here should tell if they are male or female why try to play game and act like some one your not be who you are and just talk to the ladies or guys and be your self if you realy love enemas or want to know about them that is the best way to find out what you want to know.

I agree with the previous post. Why be deceitful in any way? This does not imply dull and boring. Dishonesty belongs in politics where it is a way of life (but shouldn't be).

I agree with Ginnie and Ozzyne, this is a site for mature adults to discuss their passion. Why play games? While some members of the site may indeed meet off-line, or find enemates through the site, most of us realize that we will never meet, or play with anyone on this site.

I joined this group to learn from, and be titillated by, the comments of the other members. My schedule restricts how often I visit the site, but I always anticipate logging in. I will check my profile as soon as I send this to make sure that I have listed the basic info on which this thread has dwelt.

I look forward to reading from, commenting to, and learning from everyone on this site. I would suggest that we simply honestly share our thoughts, without concern for gender, as we all share the interest.

A lot has been written about the dangers of the internet, but I would suggest that the internet offers perfect anonimity, and therefore is very secure. Of course, there is risk in meeting anyone in person...whether it's a co-worker met at a bar, or a stranger from the internet met over coffee. In either case, you do not know the other's true intentions, so caution is always warranted!

By the way, I chose a canned image to go with my profile as, like the rest of you, I hesitate in posting images of myself. Besides, while the female butt and breasts are the best of God's art, I never thought much of the male backside.

Best wishes to all of you!

Hi Joan

Single female living in NJ. Seems like a number of females lurk in the shadows of this site. Sometimes, I don't blame them, some men see a female name and, well you know the types of e-mail you receive.

I'm a male, and clearly indicate it in my profile.

While I am sure some of the gender symbols are bogus, it does help to know what gender you are responding to in your comment.

Most questions are not gender specific.

Here is what the survey says about gender:

Enema Survey Results

Monday, 26th of May, 2008 10:36:48 AM

There are 368 records in this survey.

What is your gender?

Answer Count Percentage of 368 responses

Female 64 17.39%

Male 304 82.61%

Wish there were more female's on site It's great to get a female side to what they like and dislike about enemas and sex

DEAR LYNN:

I thoroughly enjoy chatting with you “lovely e-loving gals,” especially if you enjoy sharing enemas with good-natured “TLC guys”!!!

Which style or type of enema bag do you prefer:

Wide-mouth/open-top bag?

Combo water bottle/douche & enema bag with screw-in stopper?

Pumpkin bag?

JBL cascade bag?

Also, Lynn, what style or type of nozzle do you prefer:

Traditional black/white rectal tip?

Long, 24-36" colon tube?

Shorter, 12-20" rectal tube?

Inflatable, 500-750 cc balloon catheters?

I would really love hearing from you, Lynn! Tell me all about your enema loves, etc. When did you first enjoy enemas and have you found any enema-loving guys (like I am!) who enjoy sharing enemas and sex with you?

I grew up in Norfolk, VA with a gung-ho, enema-enthused mom who enjoyed 2 to 3 times a week enemas herself as well as giving us enemas for virtually any ailment. I have a B.S.B.A. in Bus-Admin and Journalism –f rom Old Dominion College (now O.D.U.). I've toured 47 of 50 U.S. States, virtually all of Canada, Western Europe and Nigeria doing undercover work for Uncle Sam and have enjoyed enemas since age 12 and would love hearing from you and hearing about your enema interests, etc.

All my tender-loving hugs, kisses and happy enemas, ALWAYS, Lynn!!!

--Mike007678, Newport News, VA 23601!

I am definitely mature male. I have no desire to communicate or relate to another male but have no problem with those that do. I do enjoy reading of the experiences of other males with women. I do very much enjoy reading the female point of view. It is my thoughts that there are just about as many female enema lovers as men. They just don't like to or feel reluctant to express themselves near as much.

All the more reason to reveal gender. I dont understand the idea that someone would come to this site and interact with us,but be too shy to tell us which sex they are and which sex they prefer.

Ditto. As a male, I prefer to know the physical gender of whomever I am communicating with (for some things, it doesn't matter, but for others...) Purposely misleading folks (as in a male pretending to be a female) serves no real purpose - as far as my experience on this site (and a few others) shows me, most folks are understanding of others. LOL - look at us, we enjoy getting water shot up our bums - some folks would consider that weird!

Rock on!