How many have been spanked in front of witnesses?

My childhood spankings often had witnesses, and lately some of my adult ones have as well. You'd be amazed at how fast someone will shut their trap about how much squirming is allowed when they are on the receiving end of 100 swats of a paddle.

How can an adult talk about anything being 'allowed'? Surely an adult spanking is consensual, so that it is just a form of role playing. And role playing is by mutual agreement.

Agracier my friend, I can absolutely see and understand what you are saying. But I have actually known a few married couples who are not kinky at all but they believe in domestic discipline for lack of better terms. Sort of like what Ricky and Lucy would do on the I Love Lucy Show. Once in a while he would take her over his knee and give her a spanking when she had done something to deserve one. They admitted to the public that they did this at home behind closed doors as well. To the non-kink world I believe it's called marital spanking. There are quite a few religions that also believe in this practice too, or so I have read.

Now, I will be completely honest with you if Doc and I ever got married or lived together I am guessing that we would live this way too. Actually, I know that we would. I will be the first to admit that I am pretty tough to control and Doc is the only one who can. Even though we don't live together now, or are not married when we get together we have two kinds of spanking. One naturally is for our kink and sex pleasures, the other times it's for just cause. And for us, it goes both ways might I add. It's amazing that even as adults a little "hand to butt" therapy really helps us to remember what we should and should not be doing.

I know that you didn't grow up being spanked and you in turn didn't spank your own kids. So I am not sure that marital spankings would work for you or your wife, but it honestly does for us, especially for me to be 100 percent honest with you. Also, when we spank each other for real there are never any smiles. It's definitely not fun time, nor is it sexy or kinky. It is discipline for real. Another thing, and I am not sure how Doc actually feels about this, but I would much rather him spank me when I am wrong or have done something bad than to have him be mad at me or even worse, disappointed in me. Spanking hurts in the moment but when it's over it's over, and over and done with. Then we move forward. It really works for us. It would be better if we could spank each other in the moment, or in the same day but we just don't have that luxury to do so, so, we do the best we can.

Mashie

Agracier my friend, I can absolutely see and understand what you are saying. But I have actually known a few married couples who are not kinky at all but they believe in domestic discipline for lack of better terms.

Spanking for sex play is something I of course understand. A no-brainer.

But since marriage is an agreement amongst equals, or at least supposed to be and let's assume most marriages are like this. Then how can one equal partner decide to punish the other, without the second partner agreeing? In other words, without the second partner consenting and acquiescing to the punishment?

And if they still decide to punish someone without consent, then surely it is physical abuse?

I don't see how adult partners in a marriage (or relationship) can get around the actual consent issue in matters of physical punishment, without it then becoming abusive and incidentally, strictly speaking, illegal and grounds for divorce or restitution?

Maybe I'm too literal on this, but if a couple is going to punish one another physically, then at some point they are going to have to agree that it is by mutual consent.

Sort of like what Ricky and Lucy would do on the I Love Lucy Show.

I really wouldn't use that as an example of normality ... ha ha ha ha

But I have actually known a few married couples who are not kinky at all but they believe in domestic discipline for lack of better terms.

I've been thinking about my friends and acquaintances, married or couples, and from all the signs that I've picked up over the years, from conversations, allusions, from going on vacations together and so on, I honestly cannot think of a single couple who would, in my opinion, be comfortable or agree to engage in physical domestic discipline. Really and truly, not a one comes even remotely to mind. I just haven't seen any signs in any shape, way or form. And after knowing each other for 30, 40 years, I don't think people can hide such things all that well. There should be some sort of sign or indication, however slight or subtle.

Sex play I'm not going to even surmise about, that's a different can of beans altogether. But domestic discipline? No, I can't see it happening. Not that there are no arguments and rows and breakups (temporary or not). But one or the other actually laying hands on the other? I just don't see it happening.

And while we're at it, I see the same lack of signs that any of them ever spanked their children either. Strict? Oh yes, but without physical punishment - as far as I can tell.

That is the bet kind of spanking... I love being displayed and spanked in both private and semi-public. I once was instructed by a woman (few years back) to stand facing the wall of a public storage facility, cross my arms behind my back. I was thoroughly and firmly whipped with a riding crop over my snug fit Wrangler Jeans. Two random storage customers parked by the storage unit and watched my spanking, I was embarrassed yet at the same time very turned on. I yearn for another similar experience.

Yep been spanked a few times in front of her girlfriends, one example happen last weekend, Got a spanking for backtalking my Girlfriend's best friend, they doubled it up and she gave me 20 each with the bathbrush and hairbrush on the bare, let her friend give me 50 hard whacks with the wooden paddle and too finish it off got a good dose with her leather belt she was wearing...let's just say won't be backtalking her anymore!. But the worse part of whole thing was she had two other girlfriends over and they just set their and watched and enjoyed the show as they said after and was so pleased how red she and her friend got my butt!.

Yep been spanked a few times in front of her girlfriends, one example happen last weekend, Got a spanking for backtalking my Girlfriend's best friend, they doubled it up and she gave me 20 each with the bathbrush and hairbrush on the bare, let her friend give me 50 hard whacks with the wooden paddle and too finish it off got a good dose with her leather belt she was wearing...let's just say won't be backtalking her anymore!. But the worse part of whole thing was she had two other girlfriends over and they just set their and watched and enjoyed the show as they said after and was so pleased how red she and her friend got my butt!.

Were you given a real spanking or is that just your way of play-acting and putting on sex shows? Sounds like fun btw, so I really wouldn't classify this kind of thing as punishment. To my ears it sounds more like a reward ... ha ha

I once had a girlfriend who was annoyed with me and and arranged for a female friend to spank me as a punishment, her friend being experienced in this area.

Friend turned up, nice legs and cleavage. I got an otk bare bottom spanking from her. They exchanged girlie chat about my penis and the shape of my bottom. I did find it a very arousing experience!

Recently we were drinking with some friends. It was getting silly and dares and spanking threats started. Without going into a bunch of detail it would have required being spanked bare ass in front of everyone. There were 6 of us there.

While the idea of spanking my wife in front of people has actually been a fantasy and turn on for me, being faced with the prospect of actually doing it was daunting and I was regretting going along with it. Fortunately the girls were able to come through so they avoided getting spanked.

I was relieved but I think all of the guys who would get to witness we're very dissapointed.

Wonderful topic!!! love to especially hear the stories of adult spankings in front of witnesses of the opposite sex. I have been a spanking enthusiast for as long as I can remember but aside from spanking some girlfriends playfully and on occasion, being spanked by them, I never had a witness to any of my spankings. My wife isn't terribly into spanking (unfortunate) but at least there's always an OTK bare bottom birthday spanking for her, or an occasional swat to her cute bare backside whenever I happen to pass by her in the bathroom, it's as if her cute tush is just begging for me to give it a crisp little SPANK! , (and oh, by the way, I LOVE it more than she realizes whenever she slaps my bare rear end and smiles or giggles !

So along the lines of this thread (spanked in front of witnesses), I must say, sadly, it has never happened to me. . .But this forty-something year old, happily married guy would just sooooo LOVE to be spanked on my bare bottom in front of several pretty Ladies i know. Many of them being my wife's good friends !!! Some are a good 15 years younger than me and are VERY pretty with VERY sexy and teasing demeanors - OMG !! my stomach is just doing backflips thinking about them, witnessing me being SPANKED !!

Got to admit I have JO thinking about this more than once and there is a list of ladies I would just DIE OF EMBARRASMENT if I was ever somehow cornered into having to drop my pants in front of them, bend over their laps or over a bed or couch, have my wife, the lady spanker (or spankers) yank my underpants down and administer a good crisp spanking to my naked backside, ensuring that all four of my 'cheeks' were blushing furiously!!! . Ohhhhh the emBARE ASSment of seeing these pretty ladies with their sexy hair, in their sexy skirts, dresses and high heels all decked out for an evening on the town and their shocked faces turning from disbelief to smirks to smiles and teasing manners would just be unreal.

Would soooo love to have that happen but have no idea if I would really ever enjoy it (at the time, or as a memory) or be totally humiliated and it would change the relationship I and my wife have with these women. Maybe if it was something as innocent as losing a bet to a them, or a truth or dare game, or having them 'gang up on me' for a birthday spanking when we were all a bit drunk, I could pull it off. If these ladies ever knew of my spanking desires and how some of them would be at the top of my list to be the witness to my spanking.... oh WOW... a guy can dream.. cant he?? anyone else feel the same way?

In school yeah I was spanked in front of another teacher or administrator, only because it was the state law (and probably still is in the areas of NC where spanking is still legal). That was pretty embarrassing to have someone you may or may not know see you get a paddling.

I was repeatedly spanked in front of stepmom

I spanked my ex wife numerous times in front of friends, she hated it but i could tell it turned her on. She would do something that would deserve a spanking and we would act it out in front of friends, they were always in shock.

As an adult, never, but it's a game that's long tempted us.

As a child, I was not spanked in view of witnesses - my mother went alone with me to a room. However, she did not make a mystery of it or attempt to hide the soundtrack. Once I acted up at some relatives' place and she asked for a room that she could use...

I had a girl friend right out of college that I worked with & occasionally i would spank her or tie her up. For her birthday I told her we could do whatever she wanted. Well what she wanted was to get even for all the spankings I gave her. She invited her sister over for her birthday dinner, after dinner she said it was now time for her present. OK, what do you want, thinking maybe a 3 way, "You are going to take my birthday spankings for me" her and her sister burst out laughing. from both of you? yes!

Since it was her birthday she wanted to go first, she pulled a chair into the centre of the room and pointed to her lap. I started to go over and she stopped me, "are you forgetting something", I knew immediately what she meant and very embarrassingly lowered my pants and underwear and put myself over her lap. I got along good with her sister but i could see the huge smile on her face as i went over the knee. I couldn't believe how hard she could spank, all the while her sister laughing.

She finally let me up and her sister sat down and the spanking continued. When she was finally done i stood up and started pulling my pants up but she told me she wasn't done yet and that i still had to stand in the corner with my red bottom for them to look at. This was not the last time the two of them spanked me but from that day forward i was strictly on the receiving end of all spanking

Within a great marriage I seem to need and totally deserve a bare ass paddling from my wife about twice a year. She has put up with way too much by the time she has to vent her frustrations by paddling my naked butt, no argument from me, I got to make things right, I just bend over out of the shower and hold my shins as she paddles my naked butt and it hurts big time!

Once over, things are once again very fine between us. It is a very private thing between us and only the two of us know. We could never have anyone else know or certainly witness when its got to happen. Since its just the two of us, no matter of embarrassment or shame, when it has to happen it's just a matter of taking what I have coming. There could never be anyone else know or see !! Do other guys need total secrecy when you take a deserved paddling and of course take it bare??

I've never been put over someone's knee in front of witnesses, but I have been given some fairly firm warning whaps on the butt.

My wife and I have always spanked the other for bad behaviour. My wife uses a riding crop on me to give me usually about 6 strokes. I have to strip naked, bend over the desk and receive the required punishment.

We had been married about a year when her sister was visiting, I behaved really badly and my wife decided a whipping was in order. She told me to go to the office and I was horrified when not only she but also her sister followed me. I protested but to no avail. I was forced to strip and stand full frontal in front of both of them, I bent over the desk and my wife told me to spread my feet. I could not believe I heard my wife saying to her sister,'watch his balls jump when the whip connects'

Of course, by the time the whipping was complete I had a full erection and had to turn to face wife and sister in law. It was a fantastic turn-on and phenomenal sex followed. We have repeated this many times and my wife has also spanked me in front of one of her girlfriends.

I was once spanked in front of my master's friends for a bad attitude. He also let them punish me as well.

My wife has let me spank her in front of my brother. She has to strip naked so my brother started with a full frontal. The position she has to adopt is kneeling on knees and elbows on a low table, with legs spread. This means a great view of fully exposed pussy while she gets the paddling. I think she got quite excited by turning my brother on.

Though there may of been people that heard or suspected I get spanked, only my eldest daughter has ever seen me get one, which to me is still one too many. Obviously this does not include my childhood spankings, for these my siblings saw at times, as did aunts and uncles.

Donna

Most of my spankings as a girl/teen were in front of witnesses. Growing up my younger brother and I shuttled between two families, my Father and Stepmother and Mom and Stepdad. All four parents believed in bare bottom discipline and that included our step brother and two step sisters.

Spankings were most always "family affairs" given in living rooms/kitchens and in front of whomever was around and felt like watching. Our combined families were huge, and I was spanked in front of every relative at least once. Dozens of people, several grandparents/aunts/uncles/cousins. I was always extremely embarrassed when people were there to watch me bared and spanked to bawling/kicking/begging.

Worse were non-family spectators. My parents' friends, my siblings' friends, neighbors, babysitters. I still remember some of those "public" spankings with some resentment. Like the time I was 12 and had a "peach fight" over the fence with the neighbor boy, Ted, who was 10.

All fun and games until I hit him in the face and he ran into his house crying.

One phone call later and my stepmother was marching me next door to apologize. Dragging me by my arm while I was pleading "please don't do this to me!" because she had a hairbrush in her other hand so I knew she was going to spank me in their house!

Ted was still "fake" crying and his mom was mad so they both were pleased when my stepmom apologized for my behavior and promised they would see what "bullies" get. My desperate protests of innocence and pleas of "take me home please!" were ignored and when I was saying how sorry I was stepmom said, "You will be sorry" and sat and began taking my jeans down.

"Please don't spank me like this in front of them!" I was begging but she bared me and put me over her lap.

They both watched me spanked to swollen red bare bottom and bawling like a baby and I after I finished my spanking dance I had to leave my jeans and panties down while I apologized to both of them.

Of course, I got to see my share of bare bottom spankings for both boys and girls. Once when my step brother was 14 he got caught smoking. He got switch whipped, naked, in the living room where he was hopping in a circle while the switch slashed his buns and legs as he screeched and I could see his boy parts bouncing around.

Fair compensation for the times he saw me half-naked and howling.

Still, I can't forget a few other really humiliating spankings in front of certain people I really hated watching me get it.

I've read so many accounts here where even teenagers end up bawling and crying and begging during a spanking or punishment.

Now, I don't want to act the tough guy or anything and (luckily) I can't speak from experience, but weren't there any members, especially when older in their teens, who just didn't give the satisfaction of crying or begging in front of your punishers? I have this idea, probably overstated but still something I'd certainly wish to do in such circumstances, which would be to never give any satisfaction by showing tears or begging to stop. I think I would try to glower and stare back with the utmost contempt I could muster, stay as composed as possible and let them know what bullies i thought them to be.

Yes, I know this is supposed to infuriate punishers even more at times, but as helpless under-aged persons, it's about the only way I can think of to get back and enjoy some payback. And of course there is always trying to be more sneaky next time by thinking things through so as not to get caught. Also something I seem to see a lack of in many accounts.

My husband takes me to our bedroom and shuts the door when he administers the belt to me, as did my stepdaddy growing up, when only my mom was in the room to witness.

When I was 16 I broke a neighbors window. My neighbour came and told my dad, In addition to having to pay for the window my dad gave me a spanking in front of my neighbour

On occasions when growing up and also sometimes as an adult!

On occasions when growing up and also sometimes as an adult!

@JohnHill57

I'd like to read some of those experiences of yours as an adult.

I have been it's kind of exciting

I was spanked in front of my aunt, by Mom, my brother and cousins were outside and could hear it.

About 12- 14 years old, then told to play in the sand box like a little boy! Damn cousin told her mom that I goosed her, I only pinched her ass!

Wish my wife would watch me getting a hard and long spanking by a neighbor woman or one of her GF, she would prefer me being spanked to total submission by a man who is submissive to her, like me!

Count me in. I have my Dominant girlfriend that also spanks me in front of her friends. It all started one day, they had planed this a while ago without my knowledge of consent (not that I had a word in it). I thought she kept our spanking and enema play private. I was there as her friends came in and sat down in the living room. She put me in a no win situation and I knew I was going to be spanked. What I didn't know that I was to be spanked not only by her BUT also her friends. What a turn on it was. My buttocks were such a dark red from being spanked by four ladies. We do this about once a month and I know she is going to use the enema bag as all her friends also enjoy them.

I know it is also posted elsewhere----spanked bare in front of my 2 best friends at 17 for taking my fathers car to school without permission---I was humiliated and avoided and didn't talk to him for months after