if that person causes an accident cause of my actions than that is his fault for not concentrating and not mine.
I really don't mean to offend however I feel that you may not have fully read my previous point. I understand fully that it is not your fault and yes people should watch the road when driving.
Let's use this scenario - Supposed you are driving along a main road, you see a car drive out of a side road but it is too close to you. Do you maintain your speed in order to prove the point that you are in the right or do you take evasive action to insure that there is no accident?
What you do is totally up to you however I have to question is what I am doing will cause issues to those around you. Sometimes being an adult is making decisions that you do not like for the greater good.
As a coping mechanism - Have you tried other things like a lolly-pop or chewing gum? I mean if it a last resort and nothing else works then be my guest and suck all the way until kingdom come.
The main point of this and this web site is that many people do not understand ABDLs and when ABDLs decides to push their barrow with the "It's my life and I do what I want" then people like us are going to wear the brunt of this. Boy my eyes really opened once I have to wear them.
Maybe in my case I am incontinent due to a motor accident this is very much fresh. The decision to have nappies because I chose not to use a catheter. My life is changed as I have to shave my southern hemisphere in order to keep myself clean from getting rashes (regular trips to the waxing clinic). It did not matter who was in fault I still was injured.
Putting that aside, I also love wearing nappies and look forward being intimate with my BF when he changes me where sometimes he treats me like a "little girl" that still has a wetting problem. It spices up the life after a tragedy.