How do you stop your parents from snooping around for your diapers?

How do u stop ur parents from snooping around 4 ur diapers cause my mom wont acept me 4 who i am

Move out of their house?

Exactly lilm!!! dont like the rules move out!! its the only way for you to wear on your terms and not theirs.

I'm afraid there is no easy answer for you there Lilm. Your options are to do a better job of hiding, talking it out with your mother some more, or making a move. I don't think giving it up is really an option, so I didn't include that.

All I can offer is, try and live under a don't ask, don't tell kinda policy. Hide your actives best you can, and try not to talk about it if it comes up. That's if you don't think talking it over more with your mom will help her come to terms it. Good luck, if you have any other questions, don't hesitate to ask.

Umm i have one luvs!!!! um did you talk it out with your mommy LMAO????? yeah didnt think so LOL.. probably one of the most embaressing things to tlak about with mom im sure.

so son why did i find diapers in your room ??? ??

well mom its like this i uhh ummm i had this bedwetting problem and was too embaressed about it to tell you and i thought if i just use diapers it will get better when i grow up :😃 and uhh umm ya see well the pacifeir is a extra i got with buying the diapers at the store and the baby bottle also 😉 . so instead of throwing them away i figured if i keep them and then one dya have a chilid of my own i got some already for him/her and this way its cheaper in the long run. 😁 😁 😁 LOL

yeah dont think i want that convo with mom seeing she could tell i was lying thru my paci 😁

Nope, can't say I ever had that conversation with my mom. Couldn't wouldn't, didn't want to. But that's just me, somebody else might??? And I was just putting what options there maybe, out for Lilm. As I said, there's no easy answer to that situation.

If I had, had to have a conversation like that. I would say, it would be very embarrassing to say the least.

But, one thing would still stand afterward. I would still be her son and she would still be my mother.

And yes, mom your boy is still a little bed wetter, but now by choice and for fun 😁 ???

I would say move out or let your mom know that you dont appracite her snooping

I know how hard it can be if you are a teen or have a hard time moving out of your parents house. I used to have the same problem when I was a teen and living at home, only it much harder for me as I had only cloth diapers and plastic pants to hide, I could hide the wet diapers in among my youger brothers and sister but my mom would find my stash of plastic panties under my pillow or in between my matress and would rip them up in front of me

I'm sure moving out isn't possible right now, I mean, who would voluntarily live with their parents? My living situation is a little different, I live with my parents, but I'm with my mother on the top of the pecking order, so what we say goes.

Moving out is a good suggestion when possible. But what you're describing here is gonna turn into an ugly game of cat-and-mouse with your mother. You hide the diapers, she finds them, she lectures you, you hide them somewhere else. It's going nowhere.

This is gonna sound a bit crazy, but you may consider not wearing diapers at all for a short amount of time. She snoops around when there are no diapers to find, eventually she'll let her guard down. After a few days or, if your mother's as pushy about the subject as I suspect she is, a few weeks, she may think you've given in and given up the diapers and won't bug you about it. Once you're absolutely sure she's forgotten, go right back to wearing them.

I want 2 move out but i have been laid off from my job since november and my mom wont ever let her guard down but im going 2 change my door knob and start locking my door everytime i leave so she will stop snooping

Mom obviously knows you wear diapers. Not much other reason to own them. Since you've been outed, you maybe should have that hard sit down talk with Mom about the fact that you like them and they really don't hurt anyone.

You have been trying to be discreet about it because you thought that she would flip out if she knew. You obviously were right about that, but now that she knows could she please give you some space about it. Tell her you will move out as soon as you are back on your feet if she prefers.

Good luck and happy diapering.

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She wont ever listen 2 reason 4 anything she doesnt want 2 realise that im diffrent

I understand what you are going through. I look at it this way; Your business is your business and when your living at home it's your Mom's business to take care of you, If you can find the common language and let her. She loves you, after all, and your not a Drugi I hope. A couple of diapers pails in comparison of some of the troubles you could be having. Give her a kiss and tell her you love her and she'll understand.

Many have good suggestions on here But I think you may want to try the a few of these

1. Get a speaker from a stereo like the kind they had in the 80's that was about 2.5 feet high. Unscrew the woofer in the bottom, remove all the internal guts of the speaker box leaving just the speaker cone intact. Now you can general hide as many as 30 diapers in there. Just screw the woofer cone back over the hole and bingo, instant hiding place.

2. Buy a small safe from wal mart for about 50 bucks

3. Under your bed, you should have a thin fabric that covers the underside of the box spring, make an access hole that will not be noticeable at a glance, than tuck the diapers in, and onto the wood that the springs attach to.

Lastly, use a remote storage location such as am old toolbox in a shed or a box in the attic. you don't need your whole stash with you at all times so just retrieve what you need and stow the rest.

Good Luck and may diapers be with you. LOL

I sorta nuked the issue - had them (and me) talk to a professional, and she was great about telling them, "You need to accept this is who your child is, and that's not going to change, so respect privacy limits". That helped a lot, and it must be said that my parents were fairly chill about it. I was very pleasantly surprised. If that doesn't work, clever hiding... maybe split them into smaller groups, hide them in binders on a bookshelf? If she solves that, she's just psycho - not gonna lie.

You're welcome to it Lilm. Hopefully thinks get better for your situation. And hopefully some bit of the advice has helped you some how. One thing is clear however, you know you got people here who care and want to see you happy! 😉

If she knows about your diapers,

quit hiding them. Just put them in your dresser. As long as she doesn't throw them out.

Eventually she get use to it.

No abswooper she would throw them out

Lilm dude, I don't like the idea of hiding things from your Mom. Not a good relationship builder to say the least. If you can't talk it out with her, this of course being easier said than done, and can't wait until you get your apartment, then some sort or hiding may be necessary. There is plenty of good advice on that. The psych remark seems top notch but expensive.

good luck with all this, but if you look or dress like your avatar, no wonder she snoops in your room 😃

As long as you're living at home, you can't stop them from snooping. Outside of confronting them on this and basically saying this is who I am and deal with it, you need to find a spot in the house where they would never look, and then stash your stuff there.

Im having the same trouble with my parents except i havent really started to explore it for that very reason, i have a complicated relationship with my parents, so untill i can move out/ or find somewhere out of the house lol.

theres not much i can do but hope soon

Oh simple answer... you dont. they are your parents theyll always snoop through your stuff.

I'm lucky. As a girl I wave a huge locked box for jewlery, only I don't keep jewlery in it. That is where my diaper stash goes.

I know what it's like. When I was five to ten years of age, I would hide my plastic pants hat I either took from my baby brothers or that I stole or bought in the baby section of the different stores that I would visit and hide them under my mattress or my pillow. But my mom would find them and make pull them on and rip each pair off of me or she'd rip them in front of me. The last time I was visiting for the Christmas holidays and I was sleeping in my younger brother's room while he was away; and when I left I forgot that I had left a pair of pink plastic pants under the pillow, and not wanting my brother to find them when he got home, I phoned my mother and told her about the plastic pants and her reaction was "Do you want me to tear them up?". thankfully she didn't and I got my plastic pants back. My mom now knows I still wear cloth diapers and plastic pants and still doesn't approve but she has come to accept how I am.

Best way to stop them is to move out then you have all the freedom aha

Dig a hole in a closet to store your diapers

You can never completely prevent them from going in your room, but you can live in ways that make them think they have no need to go in there. Keep your room clean, don't leave dirty clothes / dishes laying around, wash your sheets, empty the trash. Also don't behave in any ways that make them think you're up to something. For example, don't smoke or do drugs or any other behavior that makes them think they need to go snooping around for "evidence".

As for your diapers, if you use disposables, don't keep the wet / poopy ones around. If you use cloth, wash them often. When I lived with my parents, my mother only went snooping around once. I'd made myself a pair of "training pants" by taking about four pairs of white jockey shorts, putting them inside of each other and sewing them together. It was summer, nobody else was home, and I'd spent the entire day wearing them, wetting them, wearing them until they dried, wetting them again, etc. By the end of the day the smelled really intense (something that I love, by the way) and I took them off and put them in my closet, figuring I'd wash them the next day when my parents were at work.

I went out for a while and came home and my mother was standing there holding them between her thumb and forefinger and asked "Are these yours?" Apparently she smelled the pee odor and went looking for the source and found them. I got really embarrassed then angry about this. She later apologized for invading my privacy, said "if you have a problem and need to go to the doctor, let me know." I told her I didn't. I never heard another word about it (but from that point on I was very very careful to not ever get caught again).

I agree with Lil Jester - you don't. Parents will be parents, and they snoop.

When young living at home, I only went in my pants when I was alone and could wash up right away.