How many women like catheter play?

After my first delivery my (now ex) husband had to cath me regularly for almost a week so I could pee - I was so traumatized y the birth. Wasn’t much fun at all and any kind of play is tainted by that memory so I don’t find it erotic at all.

That is understandable @Nurse_Phillips . When my then wife had major surgery, she was cathedral for three days. Then her doc had the cath removed, but she was unable to void. Three times she called the nurse. Each time the CNA who responded said the nurses were in shift change, but she would tell them. The third time I forcefully requested she bring me a cath kit. I had the foley inserted by the time several nurses came running into the room.

She was fine; one of the nurses told me the catheter was perfectly seated. But all of the nurses were transferred to another floor the following day.

That experience always makes me wonder why women enjoy cath play.

I have a sacral neuromodulator to help with bladder issues . I get the feeling to go but can’t pass any urine myself. So I self catheterise about 6 times a day. I can’t say I enjoy it . It hurts sometimes. When I’m in hospital they generally like to insert a foley and leave it in for a few days. I have to say that I’m now so used to in and out cathing that I hate having a foley in for days on end. They are very uncomfortable. I’ve had numerous UTIs from self cathing and using foleys. Also had urosepsis too many times to count . I definitely wouldn’t enjoy cath play.

Nik

I did inserting a catheter into my GF’s urethra a year ago during foreplay. I just told her that she would have a really good feeling, I didnt tell her what I was doing because she had told me she had a catheter once in a hospital and that was were scary to her.

I just told her to close her eyes and enjoy a very new feeling, when I inserted the catheter she was like waauuuuw how wonderful this feels and she could hardly believe it was a catheter in her urethra.

Now she really likes it and sometimes ask for it, she doesnt want to do it to me though but I think with time she will do it to me.

I've only been catheterized twice and both times was two completely different experiences. The first time was when I was at a party and got to drunk and blacked out. My girlfriends all freaked out and rushed me to the nearest hospital. I woke up feeling this intense burning sensation from my urethra, only to open my eyes and find my legs spread eagle while two nurses were inserting a catheter in me in the ER. I begged them to stop because the burning was so intense and my legs were shaking. Once they finally took it out hours later even my inner labia sore from being spread open twice to be catheterized.

I never had one and I think it is very painfull.

I’m not female, but I think I would like to try. Both ways - cath my wife and her cath me. I just ordered a box of 30 straight caths with sterile lube packets. Just need some betadine and I’ll be set. I may go solo the first time. I will let everyone know how it went.

I forgot to add - I had my bladder scoped by my urologist once. They used the lubricant that contained lidocaine, so I didn’t feel very much, just a little bit of pressure.

I have a funky bladder and i get botox bladder injections every 6 months , and i have to use a catheter to pee , so for me its not an issue cause i have to admit its fun , but then again , seeing how i have this issue i try to make it a positive one

Have never played with them, but it sounds fun!

I dream about having it done painfully

I dream about having it done painfully

Be careful what you might wish for.

I never thought so may women would be interested in this subject. For a guy the feeling of something inside the urethra is very intense. Once you get down around the prostate the feeling is hard to describe. Lets just say mind blowing, if you are still young and things are functioning 100%. Myself, getting up in age, I can see an evolving market for this to help with stimulation in older men. The problem is with a catheter in, ejaculation causes a bad burning sensation that immediately kills your enjoyment. Also peeing burns for about a day afterwards.

Actually, if you look at the availability of toys for urethra stimulation it looks like this has recently become much more popular. As for UTI's, women don't have to worry too much about them. They are much more common for women, therefore you probably would not have to explain anything to get a prescription filled.

@water_wetter said

As for UTI's, women don't have to worry to much about them. They are much more common for women, therefore you probably would not have to explain anything to get a prescription filled.

Women AND men have to worry about them. Bladder infections can spread to the kidneys and then you are really screwed.

Getting a prescription filled would be the least of your problems.

Well said. DO NOT LOOK FOR TROUBLE

I've never done this, but it's definitely intriguing. It definitely gives me anxiety (it's the only orifice I have that has been insertion free so far!) but I do think I'd like to give it a try. I'm still a bit confused about how they work (don't worry, doing my own research in the forums, no need for explanations) but the idea of them is really erotic to me.

I've never done this, but it's definitely intriguing. It definitely gives me anxiety (it's the only orifice I have that has been insertion free so far!) but I do think I'd like to give it a try. I'm still a bit confused about how they work (don't worry, doing my own research in the forums, no need for explanations) but the idea of them is really erotic to me.

Love it. dont get to expirience it often

The Women's urethra is relatively short, therefore, one is fast in the bladder and there the risk of infection is very high. In the area of the vulva, it is almost impossible to work sterile. As be careful. In men, a meatus external and urethral stretch is relatively safe because the urethra to the prostate is about 19cm long. If one does not penetrate into the urinary bladder is the risk of infection is not high. Because the urethra can always rinse with sterile urine.

I do!

I love the loss of control that comes with it, the shame that a stranger needs to take a very close look at my private parts and shoves up the catheter inside me. Works with every kind of tube, like a nasal tube.

I adore that stuffy feeling though.

@yespleasenurse, @Toastylady, @switchablesusie, @annmarie All refreshing comments.

It seems that UTI's are the big excuse for not playing with foley caths. All of you seem to be well versed in prep an cath insertion technique .. Also are not afraid to keep antibiotics on hand or get a lab test and culture if needed Very nice to see and read your positive attitudes. Men also have to watch for Uti's it is not just a woman thing.

The biggest problem I run into is is finding partners who are first comfortable with these routine procedures like caths ass play and enema. The limits some wish to place on play are so restrictive that here is nothing to enjoy. Please understand reasonable practical limits or part of our word. I do enjoy playing with as few limits as possible and if you are with the an experienced person(s)who trust each other, the flow is fantastic.

Sorry for the detour, back to catheters ,short term and longer term like 2-3weeks24/7 , bladder irrigation, sounding with silicone and metal sounds become personal choices for doing and intensity. That seems to have enema ,ass play and depth play with fisting and long larger silicone colon tubes as a companion activity.

Our interests make us the plumbers of our bodies. It also seems that those who are serious players acquire good caths, and insertion kits for each and extra ones for sounding, good sterilization programs. I also use the nylon pouches in the sterilization process. Also have started using Duette Caths for the multi day procedures.

Same with bladder irrigation the correct solutions in big bags can be purchased. Please don't forget those Enema nozzles ,colon tubes, and plugs that become our favorites

As a natural progression do any of you engage in saline play such as inflation( really infiltration) and injections and even some needle play . Electro fits into here somewhere. Not trying to overload your thought process, but trying to keep a linear progression to facilitate discussion. Finally there are various types stomach tubes and stomach/ esophageal devices like Sengstaken-Blakemore tube. next level are feeding tubes and NG or Levins tubes. Last but not least are laryngeal air ways ET style in various sizes.

I know I did not get it all listed and I made general assumptions about your attitudes and preferences. Please feel free to expound about your feeling and opinions. This meant as a starting point at hopefully a more elevated level for those with experience, interest and desire to have a creative exchange. I Have no idea where this goes. Just expectations

I definitely enjoy it. I love having someone insert it and giving up control.

I love it! But I take certain precautions and of course, keep Cipro on hand, for those pesky UTIs. First, I take a shower, then prep the area I'll be sitting on with sterile drapes. Another sterile setup with catheters of various sizes, Betadine pads, sterile latex gloves, syringes with water to fill the Foley baloon and lube. I start with the lowest size (14-16 Fr) and then go up to 20 Fr. I feel best with a 22 Fr but my urethra needs to be stretched....getting up to 30 Fr would be nice....maybe some day....and I've got the 1 liter sterile solutions but how does one make it flow down there...connect through an i.v. drip set?

I have not seen any truly accurate data on how many Men and Women play with cathaters and the % size of each grouping.

The women who play with catheters that I know are either bold and tell the world or love caths but would rather stay in the shadows because they do not want to be hit on indiscriminately .

A female acquaintance who is quite knowledgeable about caths and medfet is the one who recommended Duettete Catheters to me. She was spot on about comfort and ease of use. I now use them and appreciate her opinions and friendship.

If you treat Women who play with catheters and other fun items with courtesy and respect they are more inclined to be more open about it.

As for the big Foley caths , I've used 28Fr and 30 Fr. I found them to be very unsuitable because after a few hours spasms began and would be quite intense. The 30fr also had ribbing on the cath shaft near the Balloons and that caused abrasion to urethral membranes. For me large caths even down to 24fr become uncomfortable when sitting for more than 20 minutes. I find the most comfortable size is an 18fr or 20fr with the 18 best. The Duette caths are worth the extra$ if you are leaving them in for a few days or more. There are meds to control the spasms .The few tried had more side effects and did not do the job for me. The best med I ever used was the the old school B&O suppository (belladonna and opium). I can not get them and I do not know if they are even being made today.

With all that said I do enjoy cath and sound play. For some it is an acquired taste. For both men and women it is an adventure that is well worth exploring.

I love catheters and sounding! In fact, urethral play is one of my favorite fetishes- right up there with rectal temperatures, suppositories and enemas! While I've been cathed in the hospital prior to surgery four times and also sound myself frequently, I fantasize that I had a Dom or Domme who would torture me by giving me an enema while I was retaining a bladder full of water.

I have posted on this in another spot, but I really like playing with sounds. The urethra is so closely connected to the clitoris, I've always said that stimulating both at the same time is like twice as intense when I orgasm. I call it my g-spot's g-spot!!

I only tried it once while I was in nursing school. My roommate and I decided to try it on each other to see what it feels like. We did this at home. That was the only time and it wasn't for sexual reason. It didn't hurt. When I worked L&D I cathed a lot of women. When there were male nurses on the floor and a woman needed to be cathed they would a lot of times ask if one of us females would do it. One reason was that some women don't want to be touched there after childbirth especially by a man. Sorry, but it is true. After coming off the L&D ward you sort of have a reputation for a while that you are good at cathing people especially women. Sort of like a comedy actor who tries to do a serious role. Anytime someone can't accomplish getting a cath in they call for you. Men are easier to cath than females to a lot of nurses. I have seen some bad attempts by nurses attempting to cath a female. You still need to watch out for infections.

I would have thought it was the other way around, women have a much shorter urethra then men and especially with older man a large prostate cancer be difficult to navigate past ??

I've only ever used catheter on women so I do not have any means to compare.

I thought women are much easier to be cathed as well. Correct me please if I am wrong.

It's far easier to cath a woman as the female urethra is much shorter and straighter than the males. I've cathed several women, you just go in straight for around 3 inches and you are there. It's very simple just be aware of hygiene. A few years back a nurse friend told me that although she was a senior nurse she was only allowed to cath women on the ward, a doctor had to cath the men.

I was told by a urologist PA that they use lidocaine on the cath for men to reduce the burning sensation when it passes the prostate. They don't normally use lidocaine on the cath for women.

My wife's urethra is sorta tucked under the labia and the insertion is at an awkward angle. We did intermittent caths for a while due to bladder retention. Finally went to a suprapubic catheter which only has to be changed every 8-12 weeks.