After my first delivery my (now ex) husband had to cath me regularly for almost a week so I could pee - I was so traumatized y the birth. Wasn’t much fun at all and any kind of play is tainted by that memory so I don’t find it erotic at all.That is understandable @Nurse_Phillips . When my then wife had major surgery, she was cathedral for three days. Then her doc had the cath removed, but she was unable to void. Three times she called the nurse. Each time the CNA who responded said the nurses were in shift change, but she would tell them. The third time I forcefully requested she bring me a cath kit. I had the foley inserted by the time several nurses came running into the room.She was fine; one of the nurses told me the catheter was perfectly seated. But all of the nurses were transferred to another floor the following day.That experience always makes me wonder why women enjoy cath play.