Going as a couple to the doctor

Tomorrow will start a new chapter in our life as for as having yearly exams together. Our previous doctor retired after the first of the year, he had been a great doctor and friend over the past forty-three years. We have a new, younger (42 or 43) year old female doctor in our area now. We have never had a couple’s physical with a female doctor before. Well, I guess it’s time we tried it. Hoping she will be a good doctor foremost. I have seen her once and at that time I asked her about doing our physicals and she was very receptive to it. She has beautiful facial features and overall, an extremely attractive lady, and single. My wife has been preparing for this, I can tell she’s as excited as I am, last night I noticed she had freshly trimmed what little hair she has down below to a very short strip and was giving herself a fresh pedicure. Stay tuned I’ll give the details after tomorrow!!

Next month my sub and I do have a scheduled appointment one right after the other. Should be interesting change for us and our PCP. We've never done this before, but hope to continue it.

Tomorrow will start a new chapter in our life as for as having yearly exams together. Our previous doctor retired after the first of the year, he had been a great doctor and friend over the past forty-three years. We have a new, younger (42 or 43) year old female doctor in our area now. We have never had a couple’s physical with a female doctor before. Well, I guess it’s time we tried it. Hoping she will be a good doctor foremost. I have seen her once and at that time I asked her about doing our physicals and she was very receptive to it. She has beautiful facial features and overall, an extremely attractive lady, and single. My wife has been preparing for this, I can tell she’s as excited as I am, last night I noticed she had freshly trimmed what little hair she has down below to a very short strip and was giving herself a fresh pedicure. Stay tuned I’ll give the details after tomorrow!!

You could be talking about my recent situation and my wife and I try to schedule our physicals one after the other for practical purposes. However I prefer that we go separately. I feel more comfortable being alone with her. I feel there are things I might discus with her more thoroughly alone as my wife always seems to hear what she wants to hear.

We had to find a new doctor about 10 years ago after over 30 years with the same one, there weren't many taking new patients and she picked this one. She is beautiful and now my wife says I chose her. A friend at the diner goes to her also and she told her she knows someone who thinks she is beautiful. She gave her enough hints so she guessed it was me so the last time I saw her when she entered the exam room where I was sitting naked I said "here's my beautiful doctor". She gives me fully nude physicals, which I am accustomed to after 30+ years with my other doctor. I prefer it that way and she knows my wife approves. After 10 years with her I am very comfortable with her. She's like a friend now and she sometimes goes walking with my old Dr so I told her It's OK with me if she wants to talk to/with him about me. Apparently they live near each other.

My husband and I had our first exam together back in November. Got permission from our PCP to have our physicals booked together and just take turns sitting on the exam table and discussing our health! It was a very fun experience!

My husband and I had our first exam together back in November. Got permission from our PCP to have our physicals booked together and just take turns sitting on the exam table and discussing our health! It was a very fun experience!

Was it hard to get your PCP to agree to let you do a couples physical? And how was it for the both of you?

My ex and I would go sometimes together if it was a new doctor. Mainly if it was a consultation or a surgeon.

Recently, we had to change PCP because they would not even allows together just in the exam room, more or less as couples’ exam. I wanted my husband to go with me and the NP said no.

We found a new one that allows us in the exam room together but have not asked about a couple’s exam.

My wife drags me in with her for everything while I prefer to do it alone. If she goes to the ER I have to go with her. It was funny when they decided to do an EKG and she was topless. They sent in a young boy who was one of her customers from work to apply the stickers and he had a hard time getting the one under her left breast. it kept falling back down. I would have told him to stop being so afraid and just grab hold of her breast but she didn't. Otherwise she's very prudish about anyone seeing her.

I don't want her there for my exams because she hears things the way she wants them to be. I really don't give a rat's ass who else they have in to watch or assist. When the NP was going to look at the sore under my foreskin there were 4 girls there. The NP, her assistant, the girl who brought in the freeze stuff she had used on my face and some other girl who showed up for about 30 seconds just to watch me skin it back, I guess.

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He actually suggested that we book together to save time! Didn’t even need to ask! 😃 He knows we’re quite comfortable with one another - 9/10 times when one of us is at the doctor, the other is with us anyway.

The exam was very fun - mostly because we have such a playful relationship with the doctor. He pretty much did the same things for both my husband and I. Looked in eyes, ears, nose, mouth. Listened to heart and lungs - in which he said my lungs were the clearest he’d heard all day because I’ve never smoked in my life. 🤣 Brief abdominal exam, and then musculoskeletal exam for me - I have a lot of chronic joint issues he helps me address with osteopathic manipulative therapy.

I find the OMT sessions I have with my PCP to be a little embarrassing when my husband is there, because the doctor has to put me in some interesting positions to work on the muscles annd joints affected. 😳

My wife and I have our couple’s physicals scheduled for Friday, August 23rd. We have been having our physicals together for years. A few years ago our doctor retired, his PA usually did our physicals and she recommended a woman doctor that was accepting new patients. Turns out, the doctor and my wife knew each other from their high school days. They lost touch after high school, but have resumed their friendship.

It really fires me up to watch my wife getting a full pelvic exam and rectovaginal/rectal exam from her close friend! And my wife has confided to me that it gets her going watching her close friend giving me the genital exam and rectal exam.

I will give all the details of our physicals after our appointment.

Our appointment last December was joint and it was okay. My wife was first and she was told to put the gown on but leave the bra on. I said to her that he always does her breast exam and she said he doesn’t do that anymore. Well, the exam proceeded as normal and all of a sudden he opens the gown and lifts her bra up exposing her breast on one side and starts examining her. The he pulled the bra down and moved to her right side and repeated the exam. I, on the other hand, wound up virtually naked because I need to have a rectal exam to be sure that my already radiated prostate doesn’t “return”. I actually thought that once radiation was over I wouldn’t need any more rental exams - wrong! So once he said to get up I knew that the pants were coming off. I took both my pants and boxers off with one motion and since I already had my shirt off, I was naked except for my socks. So there I was nude in front of my male doctor and my wife while he checked out my penis and bottom. But the best time was years ago at the gyn after he left the room, I slid my penis into her while her legs were still in the stirrups and since she was so lubbed up, I came after about two thrusts! Oh, the good old days!

My wife used to schedule my exams, and always went with to the whole thing. "You'll never go if I'm not there," she used to say. She was probably right.

Now my doctor was her doctor too, so I remember once the doctor saying to my wife that she would her soon for her exam, and I made some comment about coming to that too, fair's fair and all that. The doctor got a very serious look on her face and said, we don't allow husbands in exams. Having only been joking I let it go, but I found it odd. For her part, my wife was an absolute no about my ever being at her exams, and freely admitted it was a double standard.

For what it is worth, one of my sisters is a nurse, and she said a lot of practices are like that because they want to do a domestic violence check, which they cannot do if the husband is there.

@Botsiebuddy - You wrote "at the gyn after he left the room, I slid my penis into her while her legs were still in the stirrups and since she was so lubbed up, I came after about two thrusts! Oh, the good old days!"

Incredible. I wouldn't have had the nerve, afraid that someone would come in. The mental image of you doing that gave me an instant erection which I need to go and take care of.

This is something I've always wanted to try with my ex-partner. We went together once, for her check at the chiropractor's. I wanted to go in with her because I was fascinated by the idea of spectating but she didn't want me to. I've respected that and well, there's never been a chance like this again. That was many, many years ago. Maybe my next partner will be into this sort of thing? If not, that's also cool.

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Once a year, my husband and I go together to see our dermatologist. Actually, we see the dermatologist's PA who does the exams and an assistant who takes notes. Technically, our two appointments are back-to-back, but they just put my husband and me in the same room together and then they do me and then they do my husband. Let me rephrase that, they do my exam and then they do my husband's exam.

My husband and I are each given a paper gown with the instruction to remove all of our clothing except for our panties or underpants which are to be worn under the gown. The PA, a woman, and her assistant, also a woman, always leave the room while we remove our clothes and don the gowns, but not before my husband asks the PA if we have time to make it a conjugal visit. Of course, at 67 years old, a "quickie" for us would require at least 45 minutes and each appointment is only for 15 minutes. Next year, my husband will probably try to schedule an extended comprehensive consultation with exam, instead of a limited standard exam. Next year, when he asks if it can be conjugal visit, he better not ask them to join us or even to stay to observe and take notes.

And my husband, a typical male, would prefer that the exams be done naked without the gowns and underwear. And he would like to do me and then do my exam and then for the sake of thoroughness, not because of any interest or horniness on his part, he would like to continue with a complete gynecological exam, anterior and posterior, interior and exterior, oh, by the way, would the lovely lady and her lovely assistant like to stay and observe and take notes for posterity's sake or for no sake at all, and could they please remove their clothing, panties and bras, too, and, no, they won't need paper gowns.

But I digress . . . .

The doctor's PA, a female, does a thorough check of nearly every square inch of the skin, looking primarily for skin cancer, while her assistant takes notes. And the gown (you forgot about the gown, didn't you?) is there to maintain some level of modesty--the PA carefully shifts the gown around as she examines the surface of the body a few square inches at a time.

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Each year I like to write, so I can relive the experience, about watching my wife’s yearly gyno exam. This past week she had her yearly visit to her male doctor, she has went to him off and one for over thirty years. She as always, up very early and showered, I enjoy watching her prep, so I’m busy in the bathroom getting ready myself. As she is showering I can’t help but watch her shaving her pubes but always leaves a small patch of very short hair in the middle. She always before hand has her toes painted bright red and usually done the night before. She never has sex with me the night before her exams, she doesn’t want the after-sex chance there’s something still in there and it does heighten the sexual tension the day of the exam. She put on a nice bright red short skirt and white top along with some Hey Dudes without socks. She knows I love seeing her in the stirrups bare footed!! We have to travel about an hour and forty five minute to get to the doctors new location, so there’s plenty of time to build anticipation. When we arrived at the doctor’s clinic, we arrive early and she waits nervously, they finally call her back and I just follow behind her, the nurse goes over all my medications, takes her pulse, and blood pressure in a small room, asking her if she’s there for her annual exam. When the nurse finishes she leads my wife to an exam room with a nice new exam table. Hands her a gown and tells her to remove everything and put the gown on opening to the front. This years was a little different, she typically removes her top puts on the gown and then removes her clothes under the gown, a very cautious undressing. This year she completely disrobes to my delight and then puts on the gown. Takes a seat on the exam table and leaves the front of the gown partially open, showing her beautiful cleavage. Not sure if it was for me or the doctor. As for me I am sitting in a chair at my wife’s feet and to the left, where I’ll have a great view of all the exam. We wait maybe ten minutes before the doctor comes in, when he does, he has a young lady with him that stands quietly at the door through the whole process. The doctor makes small talk about the weather and where we will be vacationing this year, then he starts talking to my wife about her health. During the conversation she opens her gown showing him a new spot on her left breast. This is a new confidence I’ve never seen before, but I love it!! He opens her gown further and views both breasts and then lays her back on the table and feels both breast as he does each year. He moves to the foot of the table and pulls the footrest out and places her feet in each of them. He takes the gown and pushes it well above her knees exposing her beautiful tanned and well-groomed pussy. He takes a seat on the stool and reaches in a drawer and picks up the largest metal speculum in the drawer and lube, he puts a generous amount of lube on the speculum and continues a conversation with my wife about her health while he’s looking straight at her pussy. She is leaking fluid out of her vagina as he is talking to her. He finally with his gloved finger takes a glob of the lube and puts it in her vagina with one finger followed by a second finger and spreads her open for the speculum. He then inserts the speculum and opens her wide, he moves the exam light up closer and looks up in her. He then removes the speculum, puts it in a box of other soil speculums and then stands and reinserts his two fingers well up in her. He palpates her stomach feeling her ovaries. He completes that portion and takes her feet out of the stirrups and helps her sit up. He finishes by telling her if she needs anything at all to give him a call. When they leave, she takes her gown off and takes some tissue and cleans off the lube. She does make a comment on how smoothly he put the speculum in and stretched her out, and kind of braggingly said he knows how to find and give my ovaries a good feel. I thought overall she had a great exam!

My girlfriend and I have an endocrinologist appointment every two weeks. The past 3 months both of us are getting our exams and any discussion in the same room together. We both had to give each other's consent before hand.

Hoss,

Thanks for the detailed description of your wife's exam.

40 years ago my wife went yearly to her doctor alone. I rarely saw a doctor.