Experimenting with girlfriend

I dated a divorced woman with grown children in the early 90's. One night in bed she was on top, and my right index finger wandered to her behind. She responded very positively, and I recall the first discussion we then had was about rectal thermometers. Once as a kid she was taking the temp of a 7-year old girl friend and "got caught." The memory always fascinated her. The next time we visited her mother I managed to "liberate" one of her many rectal thermometers. As my date and I experimented with it next time I brought up the subject of enemas. She was interested so I got out my 2-quart combination enema bag and we enjoyed a pleasant afternoon together in the bathroom, expulsions included. We had many fine enema sessions together -- and I trace it all to a rogue wandering index finger that triggered the right spot. Highly recommended technique!

A wandering finger would get my interest peaked, too. A wandering tongue would be even better. I am Vicki and I approve of this method.

My girlfriend had asked me to perform anal intercourse on her. I took this as a pretty good indication that enemas might be acceptable; especially as prep for anal. 😘

Anal sex is certainly a great opportunity to propose the use of an enema. Be sure to make it clear that it works two ways, though. If you want to give be equally willing to receive and be extremely patient if either partner is new to the experience. Slow, easy and gentle. Do not expect your partner to be a willingas you are, at least not at first.

Communication is the key! While my GF was giving me oral, i asked her if she could lube up a finger and slide it in. She did, then it led to butt plugs and toys. One day we went to the "Toy Store", and while shopping i pointed out a strap-on! She asked if i was interested and i said yes, i was curious how it felt. I explained how it would be better if i were clean inside before using it. We discussed enemas, and found out how erotic they can be for both of us. Now, she dresses up for me in a nurses outfit, stockings and garters and administers my enemas; takes my temperature; helps me to expel; cleans me & lubes me up to receive her strap-on!

You are right. Communication is the key. A while back I was getting a BJ from a girlfriend who I found to be quite sexy and open. While blowing me she was playing under my balls and, by my moans, I encouraged her to explore my rectal opening. Sensing that I was enjoying it, she started to penetrate me. I told her to use some lube and, just as I came, she put her finger deep into me. It was great.

We talked about anal play and she asked me if I had ever had an enema. I told her that it was many years ago and she asked me I would like one now. The next thing I knew, she was sitting on the edge of the tub and I was lying over her knees. She said that it was very exciting to see me taking that rectal nozzle (fucking me with it, she said) and she was amazed that I took the whole bag the very first time. I enjoyed the enema and she enjoyed the experience.

I later found out that she used to go with a guy who was into enemas and she had given him many. She likes to be a little dominant when she gives me an enema. Since I'm dominant most of the time, it's actually quite comfortable to let myself be submissive. She tells me that she enjoys "feminizing" me so I let her dress me up in nylons, a slip, and a necklace before she puts me over her knees, lifts up the slip, and fills me up. Certainly a strange turn of events but very pleasurable.

I have always found that fingering and rimming an ass a great turn-on. Also, enjoy having it done to me. 😉

I also find that anal penetration to be good during sex with hubby. The double penetration has its moments.

I had one girlfriend in the past that enjoyed when I would let a finger slip to her back door… But, that was as far as she would ever let things go…

Wow! Revival of this (otherwise very interesting) thread after almost 14 years. Even being a known anal plug and enema devoteé here, I just now ran into this thread today. I often wonder what the oldest revived thread on Zity has been. I’m a relative newbie, here only a bit over 7 years now. If any current or former mod or other experienced Zity player sees this, what’s the longest period waited to revive a thread that we know of?

Eric

Many years ago, when “squirting” or female ejaculation was becoming a common subject on the internet, I read an article that suggested an enema/rectal nozzle, could help trigger the G spot orgasm if inserted at an opportune time. A finger, or similar size object, was also a viable trigger, but the rectal penetration was the key.

I have applied some perineal pressure/stroking, and back side vaginal penetration, along with clitoral stimulation that seems to trigger my SO who abhors actual anal penetration.