Seriously. The way I "came out" about my love for the didees was while listening to Howard Stern w/ her one morning.
We had been together for about 10 months or so. We had already both proclaimed our love to each other and were pretty active in the other way. There we were lying in bed trying to get up one morning for work, and Howard was blaring away on the radio. He began talking about Kathy Lee and how he would "put her in a diaper and make her call him 'Daddy'".
Well, it was then that my dearest said..."oh could you imagine that...putting me in a diaper!" My heart started pounding uncontrolably and I decided to just sneak it out very meekly, "I wouldn't mind". She kinda laughed...then paused...and said, "Really?"
That's when I had to just break it out: "Ummm....I kinda have something to tell you."
She sat up at glared at me b/c she could feel my heart pounding by now.
"Oh my god, what's wrong....what do you have to tell me" 😮 she said.
"Well, I kind of like to wear diapers." 😳
From then on it was a looooooooong talk about why I like to wear them, why, do I like any other kinks like being babied and all that.
Well lemme just tellya....she totally accepted it and to this day (6 years later) she still does! She's not at all into it her self, but she gave me the name "Dideeboy" and pats my crinkle-bottom, whops me in the front when I'm going "extra thick".
So my advice to you all who want to come out to someone:
Wait until you have a genuine relationship with them. It doesn't have to be total love, but the trust has to be there.
And yes...this is a true story.