Enemas, Diabetes & Sex

I've read here how some folks can have a "touchless" orgasm, via an enema. Could a diabetic who is impotent have an orgasm this way? Any diabetics out there with an opinion?

You'd have to try it to see how it works for you. May have to some mental stimulation to help things along. Others may have advise as well, but don't give up.

I'm not a diabetic but if what the men say is true,the prostate is what gives alot of the stimulation.Stimulating the prostate may or may not help you since the circulation to the penis is compromised causing the impotency from the disease process.Trial and error may be your best shot and if that doesn't work,you know you tried.If you can find a male diabetic on here who has any experience like yours,good luck.You may stimulate the prostate and have the sensations but still not be able to have an orgasm if the disease has totally wiped out any chance of erections.Another option,depending on your health,is Viagra,Cialis or Levitra to cause an erection but not sure about how it works with a diabetic male.May need to talk to a doctor about that issue.Hope this helps. 😃

It is NOT necessary to have an erection to have an orgasm. The erection is controlled by the parasympathetic nervous system and the orgasm and ejaculation is controlled by the sympathetic nervous system. You can have an orgasm and ejaculate by stimulating a flaccid penis.

In school (I have a BSN/MSN), in neuroanatomy, we used to play the game "Name the Lesion." Signs and symptoms are listed, and then you have to determine where the CNS lesion was. It's the same thing here. One must know where the lesion is in order to determine exactly what will work for you. Alternatively, if you don't know the lesion, just experiment and see what works for you. After all, since you are the patient, you get to do all the experimentation!

For some men, electro-ejaculation will work. For others it won't.

As I posted in a previous thread, men seem to exaggerate (sorry guys) about how much stimulating their prostates have to do with their "extremely massive fluid outputs and ejaculations" and orgasms. It's gotten to the point that it's like "you girls have a G-spot, and I have a prostate and you can't imagine how good it is." The men are over-rating it and doing a G-spot/prostate one-upsmanship. I'm not saying it isn't extremely good, but in their descriptions, they are elevating it to something incomprehensibly amazing. I have been with enough men and seen enough "prostate enhanced orgasms" to know. (Maybe someone like CougarDomme can chime in to bring a little objectivity, additional medical information and to corroborate this.)

Check out my post in this thread:

Anything but Enemas Prostate massages newbie question Reply #13 2008.12.08 21:32

I guess I haven't noticed that with my spouse since he takes a pill.He won't have sex without it anymore becuase he's afraid it would take too long to make it work.I occaisionally will do a bj for him and he'll have one then-so I know it does happen!

I have a question concerning diabetes and taking enemas. I was wondering if it would be safe to give someone with diabetes an enema mixture of baking soda and sugar. I would not want to cause any problems for her. I would really like for her to experience this one, but because of her diabetes, i am not sure.

Big No-no!

DO NOT DO THAT...period.

Thanks guys! I was pretty sure that would be the answer, but thought i would ask to see what the responses were.

I am wondering diabetes aside, why would you have sugar in an enema???

You would have to try it and see. I suppoose you could say it's like a soft drink enema. It is also similar to a m@m, just not quite as messy. It doesn't give the cramps as bad as the m@m, but produces a strong urgency to go.

Do not put sugar in it! Sugar's absorbed readily through the colon; in fact, for an unconcious patient with low blood sugar who we can't get an IV started on, rectal administration of glucose (read: sugar and water enema) is the next step.

Why don't you just do normal tap water, soap, or saline? I'm diabetic, and I take these all the time without them affecting my blood sugar level.

Anne B,

How old were you when you found out you were diabetic? My wife found out at 16. She takes not perfect, but pretty good care of herself and, knock on wood, at 65 she has no major complications.

We were blessed with two healthy sons, one when she was 22, the other at 24.

Curious,

I was 11 when I found out. I'm glad your wife is so healthy. I take pretty good care of myself, but I have to admit I have a weakness for beer (oral route only).

My wife has a glass or two of white wine with dinner every day and it doesn't seem to bother her. She had a cataract removed in November but the ophthalmologist said her eyes were in great shape otherwise. She occasionally has to shake her hands in the AM to "wake them up" but experiences no other circulation problems.

She grew up with another young person from her neighborhood who was also diabetic. He got married but, unfortunately, drank heavily. A sad case, his wife left, he wound up in a wheelchair, went blind and was dead at 35.

The niece of some friends was also a type 1 diabetic. She ate anything and everything, became so obese that she had trouble moving around. She died at about 38.

For most people the disease is manageable but you must do your part.

I'll add my two cents worth. Radiation for prostate cancer in '06 killed my ability to get hard. Then they kept me on Lupron for 1 1/2 yrs and that nasty sh-- killed my libido, left me irritable and made me experience hot flashes. I told the doc I didn't want another injection of that stuff. My libido slowly came back, but not my ability to get hard. I also no longer ejaculate but can experience an intense and satisfying orgasm. My wife and I can still pleasure each other with oral and what ever other means we think up. I've tried all the pills and nothing works. It'll thicken some and grow a little but not even close enough for penetration.

I could feel sorry for myself but I always see my glass as half full about most situations. I had plenty of sex when I could and if I added up all the strokes my hard dick made when it was able to it probably could be measured in thousands of miles.

Sounds like we both have had similar experiences. I had radiation in 06 and it also did away with erections. But I have found a solution and would be glad to share it with you, along with our mutual interst in enemas. You can go to my profile and email me from there.

Yes i,m diabetic, yes i have conjestive heart problems

yes my dick died years ago,yes i,ve tried all the pills

yes i even tried the shots to the penis it hurt too and only haftassed worked

yes pisses me off when i,m offered sex and can,t do anything about it

yes i have alot of precum during prostate massage or a large enema

yes i can cum during BJ but their giggles about old softy still hurt

the book says its ok and lady friends of mine it doesn,t make a difference to them

but its all BULLSHIT

impotency hurts

I have to agree that the prostate massage myth is overblown. Had my prostate removed 3 yrs ago via a new micro-surgery technique, and I'm grateful to say I regained function the next morning after the surgery.

I love enemas and feel all the same great sensations as before the prostate removal. Since taking while having intercourse is my preferred way of enema play, I'm glad I took the surgery route.

For what it worth, my best friend had his prostate removed (16) weeks ago (robotically). He had been totally unable to get an erection until last week when his female surgeon prescribed the needle approach.

She told him to wear baggy pants to her office and she would instruct him how it's done. (I get queezy just thinking about it, but at least he had an attractive doctor.) In any event she showed him (1) how to fill the syringe with the medication (which has to remain refrigerated before use)and (2) what areas to avoid when making the injection. He said when she finally injected him, he got a rock solid erection that lasted (3) hours.

Last weekend, he self-administered the injection and said his wonderful bride "had to quit after 30 minutes" and trust me she's in shape!

Soooo....there is hope!

Diabetics may develop what is called a "Neuropathy" that is where the small nerves loose the ability to transmit impulses. This usually occurs in the hands and feet (stocking-glove) but can affect any nerves..The optic nerve can be affected and blindness develop....

The enemas probably had nothing to do with her inability to "feel" you...Its more likely the diabetes progressing...

Michael2 is right...it's not the enema and could very well be attributable to your wife's diabetes. But...it may not be your wife at all and could even be caused by you. As you get older, you may not be shooting with the same caliber load you once did. The quantity and the speed of release of your ejaculate may have something to do with it.

Curious on a note along similar lines. If you use something with a high sugar content as a solution, would it effect a diabetics blood sugar greatly? If so, would the absorbation rate be any faster?

Danielh03...I'm not a medical man, but common sense tells me that if you're a diabetic and shooting up molasses, you'll have a blood-sugar reading that will go over the charts. There are folks(Docs and Nurses) on this forum that can give you a more definitive answer.

Diabetes affects the nerve endings for both males and females in regards to sex or anything else.Neuropathy is the major culprit and affects the nerve endings in all extremities as well as sex organs with nerves.Enemas do not affect this-but you do NOT inject any sugar substances anally so your glucose doesn't rise-especially if you are a brittle diabetic.Monitor this like any normal diabetic should.See a doctor for answers on any ideas to help with the sexual aspect of diabetes as men suffer from ED and women I'm sure have the same effects.Good luck.

When you ejaculate, the deposited semen acts as a lubricant and will decrease friction inside the vagina and result in lessen her sensations. (Overlubrication can be a problem in some cases.) If you meant she doesn't feel you in general during intercourse, that is likely due to diabetic neuropathy. If she has has a few children, that can cause vaginal flaccidity and that will result in less friction and sensation during intercourse. If she only loses sensation when you ejaculate, that doesn't seem to be a major problem [to me] if you have either already given her an orgasm or two or will as soon as you finish your orgasm and withdraw.

The enemas have not contributed to the problem. Do not use sugary solutions.

If you use enemas to get turned on, that's fine as long as it doesn't turn her off. If it does, you need to have a conversation about that and come to some compromise. (Keep in mind a compromise means to make concessions and to find an agreement between the two extremes.)

Your correct one would assume that. I know how strangly the condition can react to any given stimulas, but just one of those lingering questions one has at times. Thanks for all the input though!

I was brought up to believe that enemas were the cure-all for everything.

I was brought up to believe that enemas were the cure-all for everything.

I hope you don't actually believe that. Fun, yes, a medical cure-all, no.

I am 62 and have had impotence problems for a few years due to some illness. I have tried the shots, they are not painful and work very well. However, they can cause, and did for me, scaring which prohibit further use. The pills work so so. I have also tried the vacuum pump which is inconvenient, but does work well enough for penetration. I am also on Andogel which is a hormone replacement for men. It is helping. All I can say is do not give up. Keep trying