Urethral stretching

I have a set of rosebud sounds measuring from 5mm to 12mm obtained on e-bay of all places! My girlfriend can insert up to 9mm with plenty of lube and a bit of discomfort to my pee-hole opening. I have seen pics of much bigger sounds inserted, but don't know how my urethral opening can be stretched without some serious damage being done! I guess this is supposed to be done over a period of time with progressive sizes, but am at a bit of a loss how this is achieved - any ideas?

Good question! I am wondering the same thing.

I can get an 8mm sound in comfortably. Any bigger and it just won't go.

I want to use a penis plug I bought that is 10mm. They are supposed to retain by just slipping in and then the entrance skin closing and holding it. The plug I have is 10mm.

I have seen pictures of folks on BME that have done some significant damage to "open" up. I don't want to go there.

I have piercings that I have stretched over time but the next size up always slipped in with a little tension. If there was pain I would back down and try again later. Eventually the new size would work.

Perhaps we just need "in-between" sized sounds to make the change. My kit goes from 8 to 9 and some in-between sizes would be helpful I think.

Thanks for commenting on my post looselion. For Xmas my girlfriend bought me a 9.3mm urethral plug with a sharp tapered screw thread (I ain't kidding!) To insert it you had to literally twist it in! Well she got it halfway in before I nearly passed out from the pain - it felt like my urethra was being torn to shreds! The only way to get it out was to unwind it by which time I was panicing I would never pee again! I think I'm gonna stick to my limits from now on lol.

Some years back i became interested in playing with my own peehole. I inserted different things in and masturbated alot, but it didn't peak my interest as much as my wife's peehole did. my wife has always been rather controlling so i always go down on her first. If I'm lucky we will swap but for the most part our sex is about her pleasure mainly. Over the years i have tried many things from sex toys to fisting to keep her satisfied. Its not been easy because she doesn't like trying new things and she also doesn't like to talk about what we do. One day i accompanied her to the Dr because she was having trouble urinating and she had some discomfort. The Dr said she had another uti. This was something she had suffered from for years and the records at the doctors office were surprising even to her. The Dr told her that in this case she should have her urethra dilated, that way the urine could flow easier and there would be less chance of infection. She said she would just stick with the medication and we left. Over the few months i would play with her peehole while she used her vibes on her clit. It was strange because she seemed to be getting pleasure from it but never said anything. So i continued on always using the best hygiene i could. It has taken two years but finally i am able to finger her peehole until she orgasms and she loves it. One night she actually ask me if i would finger fuck her peehole. To this day she has not had another uti. I think it is because i dilated it like the Dr said. We can also get small and medium sized bullet vibes all the way to her bladder opening. She loves the orgasms and i love the fact that she cums so hard with my finger in her peehole.

Peehole play for a female is the best. Safety is the most important part the partner can do.

This is a very erotic way to achieve sexual satisfaction,l as a male heve a steel vibrating uretha sound,inserts about 4" when in the vibe mode it only time befor a huge eruption,the device was ny cheap,but worth every penny believe you me just wowwwwwwwwww

Mine enjoys gentle probing of her pee hole as well. She may not know exactly what I am doing, but her response is enthusiastic.

Can anyone advise me on Urethral streching please?

Just purchased a set of 8 Rosebud Sounds in preparation for having a PA (Prince Albert).

How long should a strech for, my 'nurse' is unsure and i am too.

How hard should i push it and how often??????

Looking forward to my 1st session with the sounds and my nurse also, but needless to say any advise would be great!!! Photos to follow shortly.

Don't push it! That's how you can do some damage. If you push you are likely to tear the mucous membrane and of course when it heals the scar tissue will be less likely to stretch so go slowly and go carefully.

Your nurse should gently lower the sound into your urethra and let gravity do the rest as she carefully supports both your penis and the sound. Don't jab, don't poke, don't push. Let it glide down. Slowly work up to the next size and stop as soon as anything is too tight. The bigger you get the tighter it will be too so it's a good discipline for you to contain your arousal and try and stay soft. 😉 Once the sound is inserted then do not let go of the penis, keep it upright from the time you start to slide it in to the time it is finally removed.

Don't forget you need a good quality lube and before and after play you need to drink plenty of water so that you wee all of the lube out. Be aware that passing urine can be anything up to painful. This is normal.

Don't be alarmed if there is a very small amount of blood. You have a lot of very small blood vessels and its easy for one to burst. Frequent urination will keep it clean inside.

If anything hurts - STOP. It shouldn't hurt. If it hurts you are doing something wrong.

See other threads on sterilisation. You must sterilise after use and you must ensure the sound is as sterile as possible (not as easy) before use.

Its extremely erotic for many females. The important thing is to of course go slow and start off small.

I'm a girl and recently my MedFet GF did an Exam on me with a difference this time. This time she entered my urethra with a sound, which was a very unique feeling. Then, when the sound was in as far as it would go, she placed a strong vibrating egg onto the tip of of the sound and the sensation was intense. She made me cum really hard. I like this as part of my Exam now. I'll check into getting a vibrating sound for her "Medical Kit".

I use a set of Pratt sounds that I use. The most I can get to is 5mm, but then again, I haven't done this for very long either. I think the 2 things I need is time and patience.

Lady Anna is right. Do not push it or you will have problems. Be very slow and make sure you are using sterile equipment.

Your wife sounds a lot like me. I would love it if my hubby could accomadate a finger. Just does not seem to be able to happen.

I am so glad that I found this site. We have been talking about doing pee hole play for a while now but were not sure how to start and how safe it was. Well now we have a better understanding of things and have ordered rubber caths and are ready for delivery.

Hello all! I havent been on here much since i started this thread. I just wanted to give an update. The wife and i are still at it, and now i can actually penetrate her effortlessly with my thumb. I just recently bought an anal speculum that alows us to stretch her peehole from one end to the other very gently. She loves the feeling of having it stretched in this way.

I hope to hear from others soon.

Does your wife have any problem holding her pee in? Seems like if the urethra was stretched that much it wouldnt close.

Nope she doesnt have trouble at all. although we have teased the bladder opening and penetrated it, we dont stretch the opening to her bladder. we just stretch the urethra itself.

I would think the sensible way to stretch the urethra, is very slowly, with a lot of encouragement from your partner.

Yes some burning sensations are normal after sound use , depending on person

The best way to insure that you get enough lubricant ahead of the sound is to use a sterile syringe WITHOUT THE NEEDLE and inject a few ml of sterile lubricant into the urethra BEFORE inserting the sound. That way the sound always has lubricant ahead of it. Also keep a good blob of lube on the urethral meatus whether male of female.

DO NOT use a lube with anesthetic--you will not feel your urethra tearing if you use too large a sound. Go slowly and steadily.

Again as others have said BE VERY CAREFUL, because of things done to me as a child I now have strictures {scaring} In side and must be stretched two or three times a year,and being done by a med, professional who do,nt care about you is crap.....

My GF has a RN friend who works for a urologist and she recommends 4 to 6 ml of lube before any insertion then at least 2 ml before every insertion.She says that one can't use too much lube and the messier the better. If it really hurts STOP.

I like the idea of the lube being injected with a syringe before and between sounds. I find watching the Nurse prep the syringe and the act of injecting me very erotic. Also agree with plenty of lube.

An old African proverb..."slowly, slowly catches the monkey."

When it comes to urethral stretching, believe that! By starting with a size that is easily inserted, you get experience and pleasure. The next size up that is "tight" and uncomfortable despite enough lubricating jelly will let you know that it's time to stop...until the next time you want to play! It's a slow process but is also very erotic and causes explosive orgasms which, after all, is the goal!

Just tried urethral sounds last week and I have mixed feelings on them. Insertion was.... interesting. An initial sting followed by a relaxing insertion as the majority of the sound was slid in. Was nervous about pain afterwords but urination only burned the first time after the exam. Only got to try 1 sound before the exam progressed but am now intrigued and would like to try electro stimulation with the sound.

I started out with 9mm years ago and can go now to about 11mm. It takes a while to get bigger ones in and it hurts too, at least at the beginning. When urethra get used to the size the next size could be inserted. The urethra stays a little dilated, but goes back to a normal size. I get sometimes a size 12mm in, and had done by a professional a 13mm with a local anesthesia gel.

Be careful with quick stretching. I rushed it yrs.ago, went thru the pain, but now my stream isn't and I have a spray. It feels good but go slow. 😳

This sounds very erotic. We don't have som many erotic clinics her in Sweden though. (sadly)

I have a Hegar Sound Set and have worked up to the big side of the third one but that seems to be as far as I can get. The feeling is increasingly pleasurable and I truly enjoy working it in and feeling the stretch little by little

How often should you be doing the stretching with sounds to keep things open to the larger size. I'm up to a 35fr now with pretty easy going in. I only do it every couple of weeks and was wonder if I should be doing it more than that.